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What is the one thing we will all do, yet the least prepared for financially? Death! Talking about it doesn't make it happen sooner but is the biggest act of love you can leave those who will be left to mourn your loss. Also it frees you up to maximize life on earth, forgive early, consider your legacy, and give others the peace of mind that they honored you as they attempt to grieve forward. Cont...

In this episode, we continue our financial series with a discussion of "all things real estate". We address the hot topic of a pending "recession" and whether it is possible to time the market.  The dynamic duo Marla and Helen, provide a unique perspective to help us navigate the real estate field. They highlight potential red flags to look for when purchasing a property and even suggestions of wh...

“Financial Freedom to Retire Early with Dignity”. In this episode we discuss financial wellness, the impact of poorly managed finances, what motivated Mrs. Emy to invest so heavily, how to avoid lifestyle creep, what are some pros/cons of self managing your portfolio versus hiring a financial advisor, and much much more. We even talk specifically to our self employed/entrepreneur audience with som...

In this episode, we start our discussion with Dr. Rasheedah Pickett, PT, DPT, CBIS, CLT-LANA sharing her personal story of transitioning from high school to graduate school and how she honored herself by staying true to her dreams. We then shift to a discussion of the importance of minority representation in the medical field and how we can change the narrative to resonate within our community. We...

Black Girl Magic is real but it can also be our downfall if we don't take the time to do the mental work. In this episode we start our discussion with the challenges we face in the birthing space, and suggest things to do and to also be cautious of when navigating the medical space. We then shift to a discussion on suicide where Dr. Tylor sheds light on the history behind how real our Black Girl M...

In this episode, we share our personal perspectives of being the glue and epicenter of change in the family. We provide practical solutions we can take to make sure we are heard when advocating for ourselves. Listen in on a unique perspective shared by our special guest which exposes internal and external factors that contribute to the quality of care we receive. The candid conversation between Ch...

This episode addresses the challenges mothers face during pregnancy. We are literally fighting to be heard, seen, and to stay alive. Megan introduces some helpful resources, recommends a support system, and the importance of a plan with grace. We also discuss secondary complications physically and emotionally. This episode will surely get the conversation going. Resources: https://blackinfanthealt...

Episode 1 of our NEW health series starts with a revealing conversation about a very common health issue: fibroids. We discuss types, treatment, and risk factors. Also, we address the unspoken expectation that "pain/suffering is normal" and share new products used to manage menstrual cycles. Our hope is that this information is found useful and serves as a catalyst to have candid conversations wit...

ITDFM podcast was birth a year ago!!!! We sat down with you, our amazing audience, in mind and started planning. Here we are 1 year later in the moment we dreamed of, and we haven't stopped dreaming with you all in mind. So much is on the horizon so stick close and share us with others. This episode is an update along with answering some of the questions submitted by our lovely audience. We are so...

Episode 6 of our relationship series ends with our very special guests Mr. & Mrs. Thomas. In this episode we have a raw conversation about their journey to marriage and discuss some of the misconceptions surrounding marriage including money, sex, and success. Although Fayth & Darwin share different perspectives they cohesively address the "pressure" we all subconsciously feel. You will lau...

Episode 5 of our relationship series entitled Big Feminine Energy with our special guest 👑Da'Vet Nicole, LMFT👑  drops TODAY!!!! In this episode we discuss that beyond roles, how to communicate our expectations in relationships. To preserve ourself for our home life, where we're not replaceable. The stigma of an angry black woman and how to allow ourself the freedom to be our authentic self. We d...

Episode 4 of our relationship series shifts the dialogue from "maximizing singleness" to "marriage isn't for the faint"! Mrs. Gloria shares her story of how she met her now husband of 44 years and what made her say "yes". She provides insight as to what has sustained their marriage and how she's navigated different growth seasons. Listen as she explains the importance of passion, purpose and compa...

Episode 3 of our relationship series entitled Maximizing Relationships with our special guest 👑Da'Vet Nicole, LMFT👑  drops TODAY!!!! In this episode we address the stigma around therapy in our community and discuss a few reasons why. Sis said we take better care of our cars than ourselves😵😳💯! Yes, it gets real. We also discuss topics singles should address prior to marriage. Listen in on the...

Episode 2 of our relationship series continues the discussion of "all things single". We will define singleness, address stigmas surrounding the martial status and even discuss bad doctrine that is imposed on Christian singles. Brandi and Christian share their personal journeys of operating in purpose while maximizing their singleness. Singleness is not synonymous with identity! ****keep in contac...

Episode 1 of our NEW relationship series entitled Navigating These Single Streets  will discuss relationship types, how to ask pertinent questions, and what about those opposite sex friends. Brandi and Christian guide you through some suggested topics, but understand the take home message is to know who you are and where you stand, and then have the conversations. Leave nothing up for assumption....

This episode is filled with so many takeaways surrounding the supreme court confirmation hearings for Ketanji Brown Jackson. From being overqualified yet not respected, having composure in those moments, brotherhood, sisterhood, and motherhood. The hope is that you leave this episode feeling seen, heard, encouraged, and proud to be YOU. ************************************Keep in contact: Christia...

In this episode Christian discusses her growth journey of becoming the best version of herself. She shares challenges she's faced and her resolve to embrace the process.. even if that means dealing with the backlash of an older version of yourself. Our hope is that this quick listen leaves you feeling inspired and empowered. Keep in contact: Christian's IG: @the.christian_collins Brandi's IG: @evo...

In this episode we dive deep into resource avenues to caregiving. We discuss the importance of assessing your preparedness before tragedy hits. Being okay with your limitations. Do what you can and delegate the rest. Tap into all networks, but also extend grace to those who don't have the capacity to help in this area. Look into community resources providing volunteer hours, local senior centers,...

*This podcast episode was prerecorded* We went so hard about self care in our previous episode because caregiving for others can deplete you along with all the other hats you may wear. In this episode we share our personal experiences with caring for our parents and loved ones. We discuss having those hard conversations, different obstacles we faced, setting boundaries, and why self care is so imp...

*This podcast episode was prerecorded. In this episode we address wellness also referred to as self care. We discuss what wellness means to us, some helpful and practical tips, and the importance of priortizing self since many of us hold many hats. We care for so many so our hope is that you walk away with a tip or two to advocate for your self care. Keep in contact: Christian's IG: the.christian_...

*This podcast episode was prerecorded. In this episode we address everything safety. We discuss picture safety for adults and minors, internet safety for minors and adults, cyber stalking/bullying tips, online dating, and protecting your personal accounts. Our hope is that you walk away with a tip or two to protect yourself and those you love. Link to red table talk: https://fb.watch/awf4mefufz/ K...

This episode you get to meet the host Christian and Brandi. Listen in as these high school friends spill the tea about themselves in an Q&A format.