It's Not You, It's Me

We all need to check in periodically to find out who am I. We're always changing. We evolve. If we don't know who we are, we can't be who we are. Human Design provides a template to help us figure that out. Cassandra DeAnn is here to share how it all works. Cassandra DeAnn's website Cassandra DeAnn's podcast Having embarked on adventures in various creative fields such as cake decorating instructi...

We are all judged from the time we are born. We get overt and unconscious messages that we are not measuring up. If you're tired of chasing success and want to know what you need to do to get there, listen to "Do This If You Want to Succeed." Finally see through all the nonsense. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Get Involved Join the FREE...

How do boys become men in the absence of rites of passage or rituals? How does a boy know he's.a man? How does society know when.a male is a man? What does a boy need to know or do? Tune in and see! Get King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover by Moore and Gillette here. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all. Get Involved Join the FREE It's Not You, It's Me...

Life is calling upon you to be a leader. Yes! No excuses. What would happen if you were to heed the call and become a leader. Tune in and hear Darrell Williams' story. I think it will inspire you to get started on becoming your most amazing self. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Like the idea of living a connected life as an Earthling?&nb...

The Maiden, Mother, and Crone have been a guide for women in many cultures throughout time, but do they still have meaning today? In this episode, Laura Giles explores what these archetypes represent to see if they are still relevant today. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Like the idea of living a connected life as an Earthling?  Ge...

Have you ever left a hard relationship, swore you would never be with that type of person again, and then find yourself right back where you started? How does that happen? How can you get it to stop? In today's episode, Laura Giles and Marilyn Penny explore that. There are a few things to know that can help you choose well and heal what you bring to the problem. Check it out! I want to hear from y...

Most of us ask ourselves "Am I worthy?" from time to time. The possibility of a new job or partner, or when we've made a mistake, can prompt us to self-reflect. What's your answer? Are you worthy? If you have doubts, tune in and find out how to turn that "I'm not worthy" into "YES! I am worthy!" I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Like the i...

Transhumanism gives people the chance to avoid disease, enhance abilities and cognition, and maybe eventually become immortal. But is it the right choice for you? Do you even have a choice? If you are curious about where our technological society is headed, tune in and see what Ora Nadrich has to say about transhumanism. Let's see if this is leading to a happier, more connected life. I want to hea...

Want to know how to stop sex trafficking? The suggestions that I got all focused around giving my power away and making it someone else's problem. There are many of us! We have power. We can make a difference. I've seen Sound of Freedom, and I can't unsee it. Sex trafficking is real. It's happening every day, and it's time to stop sex trafficking. Tune in and get 30 ideas for what you can do now t...

Age positivity is not a message that is directed to women. If we aren't young, sexy, and objectified, we're not seen. It's time to change this. A healthy society is one where everyone has value. In today's podcast, Jennifer Arthurton shares her story of how she broke out of the programmed path and into authenticity. Tune in for ideas on how you can do this, too! I want to hear from you!  Leav...

Do you ever wonder how to find yourself? Do you want to find yourself, but don't know how? Laura Giles recently hosted a bonfire and ritual for her private community and that's was the unexpected surprise that came out of it! Interested in knowing how that happened? Tune in and see how so you can do it for yourself. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them a...

Trauma starts at home. And we can't be fully healed until we go back to where it all started and clean up our intergenerational trauma. Today, we have the privilege of delving into the extraordinary odyssey of acclaimed author Susan Gold, as she unveils her remarkable path towards ancestral restoration. Brace yourself for an inspiring episode filled with profound insights, as Susan shares invaluab...

Happy anniversary, Surviving to Thriving! Tune in and get a behind the scenes look for what's going on and what's coming up for year two. We want you to be a part of it! I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Like the idea of living a connected life as an Earthling?  Get the merch here.   Get Involved Join the FREE Surviving to Thrivi...

Living seasonally is a way to engage with Nature and experience aliveness. If we're not connected to the seasons, we're working a lot harder at life then and working against the grain. In this episode, Laura Giles shares many ways to live seasonally by following the Fire energy of summer and live naturally. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all. &nbsp...

Emotional eating, it's more than you think. The common portrayal is someone who is upset and eats a tub of ice cream. But there are subtle ways we can attach emotions to eating even when we are not hungry. That means anyone can be susceptible to overeating. In this podcast, Erin Smith shares her surviving to thriving story about how she overcame emotional eating and gained her life, authenticity,...

It's easy for us to see when someone else is making a mistake, but what about when it's US! In this episode, we're playing a game of "If you spot it, you got it." See if you are making any of these 30 relationship mistakes so you can turn things around. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Get Involved Tip Jar- show your support Join the FREE...

Father's Day is coming up. How's your relationship with your father? How's your relationship with the archetypal Father? If you want to improve it, check out this episode where Laura Giles talks about what the Father is, how to be a better representation of that energy, and how to heal your relationship with your father. Happy Father's Day! I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment....

Racial trauma is a real thing. People still fear each other and treat each other differently because of pigment. If we are to have amazing relationships, we have to look at this. Isn't it time to heal the racial divide? Tune in. Let's rethinking race and start the process of healing the racial divide. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Get...

Memorial Day is about honoring those who have fallen in battle. Did you know that observing this holiday as more than just a paid day off is a great way to reconnect to many things that can make your life more meaningful? Yes! To find out how, tune in. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment. &nb...

The Surgeon General came out with an advisory recently that called loneliness an "epidemic." In this episode, Laura Giles explores the impact of loneliness and a solution - platonic intimacy. Check it out! I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all. Check out the podcast with Brigadier General Marlon Crook here. Like the idea of normalizing platonic intima...

Great relationships start with you! If you show up well, it's a lot easier to be present and have healthy relationships. In this podcast, Adam Hart shares his story of how he went from surviving to thriving. He discovered 6 steps that can help anyone make that shift, too. Tune in to see what they are! Adam Hart is an International Speaker & best selling author who’s mission is to help busy par...

Mother's Day is coming right up. If you don't have a great relationship with your mother, this tune in and learn how to make peace with the mother (archetype) so that this Mother's Day is healthy and peaceful. In this episode, I talk about: How the relationship with the Mother went wrong. What is the Mother archetype? How to repair your relationship with the Mother. How to repair your relationship...

Joseph Campbell created the template for life's journey. He called it "The Hero's Journey." If you want to be the hero of your own life, it pays to have that template. In the podcast, I will share the last step of the journey - Return With the Elixir. It explores what to do when you've got the treasure and you go back home. If you don't do this step well, the whole thing may be for naught, so tune...

Nature has a solution for everything - even complex PTSD and narcissistic abuse. Our guest today, Amanda Kate, shares her story of how she went from surviving to thriving. She maintains her healthy lifestyle by living in the sacred wheel. If you are suffering and are not finding help with traditional approaches, tune in. Maybe Amanda Kate's story will resonate with you. For more on Amanda Kate , s...

If you are a people pleaser, clingy, attracted to drama, or are angry more often and more intensely than you want to be, you have to check this out. Detachment is a game changer! When you are non-attached, it doesn't make you cold or selfish, it sets you free. I want to hear from you!  Leave me an audio comment.  I listen to them all.   Get Involved Join the FREE Surviving to Thrivi...