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In this episode, we’re talking about friendship breakups, why they can be so difficult, and how to move forward when a friendship ends. We discuss the psychology behind why losing a friend hurts, how to process the emotions, stop overthinking what went wrong, and learn to let go. Whether you’ve grown apart, experienced a falling out, or are struggling to move on, we’re sharing advice on how to nav...

In this episode, we’re breaking down how to ACTUALLY rewire your brain, challenge negative thoughts, and start thinking more positively. We dive into the psychology behind negative thinking patterns, why our brains tend to focus on the negative, and practical, research-backed ways to change your mindset. From overcoming self-doubt and overthinking to building healthier thought patterns, we’re talk...

In this episode, we’re talking about how to actually enjoy being alone, fall in love with yourself, and become your own best friend. We’re breaking down how learning to enjoy your own company can change your confidence, relationships, happiness, and the way you experience life. From becoming comfortable doing things alone to building self-worth and creating a life you genuinely love, we’re talking...

In this episode, we’re breaking down how to ACTUALLY make a friend from the very beginning. We’re talking about how to put yourself out there, stop overthinking, overcome the fear of rejection, and feel more confident in social situations. From approaching someone new and starting a conversation to building confidence, making plans, and turning a random person into a genuine friendship. If you’ve...

We’re switching it up this week and talking about working out and why physical health is mental health. We’re getting into lifting weights, eating well, creating healthy routines, building confidence, and learning to take care of your body without comparing yourself to everyone else. Working out isn’t just about how you look it’s about how you feel, your mental health, and becoming the strongest v...

If you’ve been feeling like you need a little reset, this episode is for you. In this solo episode, I’m talking about getting motivated, romanticizing your everyday life, getting back into a routine, setting new goals, and using this season as an opportunity to become the version of yourself you’ve been wanting to be. 🤎🍁

In this episode, we’re talking about chasing your dreams, becoming your own person, and creating a life that actually feels like yours. We get into what it’s like to build your own business, be your own boss, stop caring so much about what other people think, and have the courage to go after what you really want. But your 20s aren’t only about working hard and reaching your goals, they’re also abo...

In this episode, we’re talking about how to actually find your way back to God when you feel distant, lost, or disconnected. We’re keeping it real about the things no one really talks about when it comes to rebuilding your relationship with God, finding faith again, and letting Him back into your life. We’ll talk about how reconnecting with God can impact your mental health, finding Him in everyda...

In this episode, we’re getting the male perspective on dating and relationships and what guys are really thinking but don’t always say out loud. We’re talking about how a guy knows when he genuinely likes a girl, what makes him want to pursue a relationship, and how you can tell when a guy is serious. We’ll also talk about how to find a good guy, what makes a relationship successful, and how to bu...

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Faith to talk about choosing yourself after a breakup, learning how to show up for yourself, and finding comfort in your own company. We’re getting real about what it looks like to be single, enjoy your alone time, stop waiting for someone else to make you happy, and actually embrace this season of your life. We talk about learning to love yourself again, b...

If there’s something you’ve been wanting to do but keep talking yourself out of because you’re scared of what people will think, this episode is for you. We’re talking about getting out of your own head, taking the risk, and finally starting the thing you’ve been dreaming about, whether that’s a business, creating content, chasing a goal, or simply trying something new. You’re never going to feel...

Back to school can come with a lot of pressure to have your life figured out—your classes, career, relationships, and future. But the truth is, you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. In this episode, we’re talking about letting go of that pressure, trusting the process, and focusing on the next step instead of having the perfect plan. I’ll also share tips for finding direction, figur...

In this episode, I sit down with dating coach Taylor Church to talk about all things dating, relationships, self-love, and breakups. We get real about navigating modern dating, recognizing healthy relationships, letting go of the wrong people, and finding the right person. We also talk about how the relationship you have with yourself impacts every relationship you have with others. 🤍

In this episode, I’m joined by Maisey as she shares her powerful story of surviving one of the darkest seasons of her life and finding hope again. We talk openly about mental health, healing, resilience, and what it really means to keep going when life feels impossible. Our hope is that this conversation reminds anyone who may be struggling that they are not alone—and that their story isn’t over....

In this episode, I dive into the dangers of falling for someone's potential instead of accepting who they are in the present. We talk about why it's so easy to hold on to hope, the signs you're investing in a future that may never happen, and how to make healthier dating decisions by focusing on actions over promises. If you've ever struggled to let go because you believed someone...

It's time for another Ask Ellie episode! 💌 I'm answering your submitted questions and talking all things dating, mental health, confidence, and navigating life's ups and downs. Thank you to everyone who wrote in—I hope this episode leaves you feeling seen, supported, and with a few new perspectives.

In this episode, we explore how finding the right person starts with you. We talk about the importance of self-worth, prioritizing your mental health, and building healthy relationships through honest communication. Strong relationships begin with becoming the best version of yourself.

In this episode, we're talking about staying motivated all summer—from workouts and eating well to taking a break from social media and building discipline through challenges like 75 Hard. Tune in as we discuss how stepping away from unrealistic online expectations can help you focus on your own goals, habits, and growth.

This week, I'm joined by my friend Trin as she shares her journey of coming out as gay. We have an honest conversation about navigating religion, mental health, identity, and what it's been like embracing who she truly is. This episode is all about vulnerability, understanding, and the power of living authentically. Check out her brand "still okay" and use code "cringe10&quo...

In this episode, I’m doing my very first advice session and answering your questions! You guys wrote in with questions about dating, friendships, confidence, body image, and everything in between, and I’m sharing my honest thoughts and advice. We talk about navigating relationship struggles, dealing with friendship drama, building self-confidence, overcoming insecurities, and learning to trust you...

In this solo episode, I open up about some of my lowest moments with mental health and share the things I wish someone had told me when I was struggling. From feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and lost to learning how to cope, heal, and keep moving forward, I talk about the lessons that helped me most. I also share practical tips for managing difficult days, changing your mindset, and finding hope when...

In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to navigate friendships in your 20s—from growing apart from people you once felt inseparable from, to making new friends as an adult, setting boundaries, dealing with loneliness, and learning that not every friendship is meant to last forever. We share honest experiences and lessons we've learned about finding your people, maintaining meanin...

One of the biggest fears after a breakup is the thought: “What if I never find someone again?” In this solo episode, I talk about why that fear feels so real, how heartbreak convinces us that we lost our only chance at love, and why that's rarely true. We dive into the psychology behind attachment, scarcity mindset, and why we tend to put people on a pedestal after they're gone. I also sha...

In this episode, Brayden joins me to talk about dating from a guy’s perspective and answer the questions girls are always wondering about. We get into modern dating, mixed signals, communication, relationships, confidence, attachment, and what guys actually think when it comes to love and commitment. We also talk about red flags, dating standards, emotional vulnerability, and the biggest misunders...

In this episode, we talk all about confidence, authenticity, and what it really means to be yourself in a world that constantly pressures people to fit in. We dive into the psychology behind self-worth, validation, comparison, and why so many people struggle to feel comfortable as their real selves. We also talk about overcoming insecurity, building confidence from within, setting boundaries, and...