Abbie Chatfield

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Society EN ↓ 707 episodes

Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics. Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at  @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/priva...

Author

Abbie Chatfield

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.itsalotpodcast.com

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

RHYS NICHOLSON NMF: "As Our Boners Disappear, Let's Watch A Muppet Cry" 28.03.2024

First, Abbie needed to sort out her beef with comedian Rhys Nicholson (they/them). Once we got over that lil hump, Rhys gave us the best possible story in the world involving ... scabies. Tip: Don't google it. LINKS Visit Rhys Nicholson's website for tickets to their show https://bit.ly/3TzLCiP Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   DM us a voice note of y...

SOLO P2: Do I Want Monogamy? 25.03.2024

Other than a much needed annual PSA about no alcohol on Good Friday, Abbie tells us all about one the kindest most emotionally intelligent men she's ever been with. AWWWWW! What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your thoughts to @itsalotpod on IG LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bi...

SOLO P1: "I Wrote Him A 5 Page Letter" 25.03.2024

Abbie REALLY likes this person. She's cried about him (happy tears), has described him as "the kindest person ever" and even wrote a 5-paged letter to him. WTF? You'll know everything about him except for his name... What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your thoughts to @itsalotpod on IG LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Rev...

NMF SUPERCUT: Why Men Need To Call Out Other Men 21.03.2024

In this episode, there is mention of sexual assault and violence. I f any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by calling 1800 RESPECT If you know men who are hesitant to call out other men, this is the episode to forward to them.  LINKS Listen to the original first Nightmare Fuel https://bit.ly/3TLOASw Listen to the original second Nightmare Fuel https://bit.ly/3VoKwZO...

RASHIDA DUNGARWALLA: The Origin Story Of A People Pleaser 18.03.2024

Why do some of us "people please"? What's the difference between being polite and being a people pleaser? What does people pleasing look like in the context of a friendship? But even more importantly WTF is people pleasing in the first place?  Founder of Flow State Space Psychologist Rashida Dungarwalla answers ALL of our questions. What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your th...

JOSH THOMAS' NMF P2: "The ULTIMATE Who Smelt It Dealt It" 14.03.2024

Second round of Josh Thomas because we can't get enough! If you haven't heard part 1, GO BACK AND LISTEN. Compared to the last one, this one is in Josh's words "gruesome". What more can we get out of this man? LINKS Find tickets to Josh Thomas' shows https://bit.ly/43lwJVJ Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   DM us a voice note of your thoughts on this e...

JOSH THOMAS' NMF P1: "I Locked My D*ck in A Cage" 14.03.2024

How did comedian and creator of the TV show 'Please Like Me" end up in a d*ck cage with no keys? Check out part 1 of Josh Thomas' stream of Nightmare Fuels. LINKS Find tickets to Josh Thomas' shows https://bit.ly/43lwJVJ Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   DM us a voice note of your thoughts on this episode to @itsalotpod on IG Review the podcast on App...

AMA: Why Does "Female" Feel Like A Slur? 11.03.2024

Such great questions in today's AMA including: would Abbie prefer to have kids with a man or a woman? Why does the word "female" feel so wrong when a dude says it? And, would Abbie ever consider donating her eggs? What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your thoughts to @itsalotpod on IG LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review...

Quick Car Thoughts on IWD 08.03.2024

Why IWD can be SO F*cked! LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Access transcripts here  CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield   Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia...

REUBEN KAYE NMF: "It Was Mango Magic, Baby!" 07.03.2024

Please note that, on this episode, there is brief mention of animal harm in the context of a joke.  What happens when having too much fruit juice makes you want to go so bad that your huge raver pants just can't handle it? Comedian, writer, and singer Reuben Kaye opens up (lol). LINKS Find tickets to Reuben Kaye's shows https://bit.ly/3V5pwqI Visit Reuben Kaye's website https://www.reubenkaye.com/...

ANTOINETTE LATTOUF: Whatsapp, Fair Work, & Maureen 04.03.2024

Trigger Warning: The contents of this episode are highly divisive. If you find this topic upsetting in any way, we advise that you skip this one. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Lebanese-Australian broadcaster, columnist, advocate, and author Antoinette Lattouf was clocking...

SOLO NMF: "Anyway, His Defence Lawyer Lied..." 29.02.2024

This episode goes into sexual assault and harrasment. I f any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by calling 1800 RESPECT This Nightmare Fuel offers a great insight into how F*CKED the hospitality industry really is. Motorboating a waitress in the pokie room? SERIOUSLY? LINKS Listen to Abbie's chat with Chanel Contos https://bit.ly/3VeERph Email your own voice memos for...

SOLO: Why I'm Breaking Up With My GP 26.02.2024

Disclaimer: The contents of this episode are not to be used as medical advice. If you have questions, please chat to your GP. Also, there is mention of mental health issues including PTSD, Depression and Mania.   If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 As Abbie is being diagnosed wi...

GSPOT+LUCY WARK: AMA On Anal 22.02.2024

What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your thoughts to @itsalotpod on IG How do I prep for anal? What about "the mess"? What if my partner gets intimidated by my desire to try out a butt plug?  All your questions ANSWERED. LINKS Buy Option A butt plug https://bit.ly/3UMmVlA Visit Normal's website https://bit.ly/42KgiSE Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello...

GSPOT+LUCY WARK: Let's Get Into Anal 19.02.2024

What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your thoughts to @itsalotpod on IG How did Abbie get into anal sex? What's the story behind the creation of a vibrating modular butt plug kit for beginners? What are the myths behind anal sex? Certfied sex therapist Georgia Grace (GSpot) and head of sex toy company Normal (Lucy Wark) join Abbie for an all in on anal sex. LINKS Buy Option A...

SOLO NMF: "My Manager Stole My Toenail To Clone Me" 15.02.2024

This episode goes into stalking and harrasment behaviour. I f any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by calling 1800 RESPECT This isn't your average workplace drama. In one of the scariest Nightmare Fuels EVER, a junior manager turns out to be a creepy stalker who has ZERO boundaries and a thirst for ... toenails? LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fue...

SOLO: I'm Not Going To Be The "Cool Girl" Anymore 12.02.2024

What did you think of this episode? DM us a voice note of your thoughts to @itsalotpod on IG That's IT! Abbie's done with casual dating, done with giving her trust away to men so easily, and is so ready to be vulnerable.  LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainmen...

NAZEEM HUSSAIN'S NMF: A Bollywood Boat Party 08.02.2024

Two Nightmare Fuels in one day. Comedian and Writer Nazeem Hussain tells us about why the word "leukemia" almost got him fired and why a white man's idea of a boat party led to one of his worst comedy gigs EVER! Clairvoyant should've seen it coming... LINKS Listen to Nazeem Hussain on Urzila Carlson's podcast on Spotify https://bit.ly/3HP2GvI Listen to Nazeem Hussain on Urzila Carlson's podcast on...

REMY KASSIMIR: "I Lost My Orgasm" 05.02.2024

The following episode contains discussions of body dysmorphia, depression, abortion, and suicide. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 None of what was mentioned in this episode is to be taken as medical advice. For any medical and medicine-related questions, please consult with your Specialist or GP before making any decisions about your own medication. Host...

SOLO NMF: A Dodgy Side Business 01.02.2024

She meets this guy on a kink app and they seem to be hitting it off until she finds out about his dodgy side business... LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   DM us a voice note of your thoughts on this episode to @itsalotpod on IG Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment...

SOLO: "I'm Going Through A Breakup" 29.01.2024

That's it. Abbie's had enough of the Northern Rivers as it's SO not worth the hype. Rant vibes all over. In more important news, Abbie's going through a breakup and is not feeling the best... LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Episode Feedback or Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Access Transcripts here  CREDITS  Ho...

NO NMF: "Nothing to Celebrate On This Day" 25.01.2024

The following episode contains discussions of First Nations issues. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to 13YARN at 13 92 76 LINKS Find your nearest protest here https://bit.ly/3HvctXG Visit Abbie's IG Highlights for First Nations charities https://bit.ly/3SeI4BO Email your own voice memos for your Episode Feedback or Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast...

KIM KEMMIS: "I Had An Exorcism [To Change My Sexuality]" 22.01.2024

In this episode, there is mention of severe homophobia, transphobia, and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. You can also call QLife at 1800 184 527. Kim was in his teens when he came across a beat in Cronulla in Sydney where he experimented with his sexuality and late...

SOLO NMF: "Can You Do The Splits?" 18.01.2024

The following episode contains discussions of sexual assault and healthcare misconduct. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 When this listener rocked up to her Psychiatrist's office to refill her ADHD script, the last thing she expected was to become this medical professional's entertainer. Seriously f*cked this one... LINKS If you would like to make a formal...

SOLO: A Feminist Dilemma And Gypsy Rose 15.01.2024

Abbie is wondering: should she have a nose job? Also, why is everyone calling Gypsy Rose Blanchard a manipulator?  LINKS Email your own voice memos for your Episode Feedback or Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Access Transcripts here  CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield   Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemz...

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