It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Abbie's answering your questions about the highs and lows with Adam, what's happening with her book, and some advice on ethical non-monogamy. LINKS Watch FBoy Island https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Listen to our episode with Dan Savage https://bit.ly/4g19I0s Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https://bit.ly/3ytG2Id Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR...

Disclaimer: None of the contents of this episode are to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP. Since SO MANY listeners wanted to ask OB/GYN Dr. Jen Gunter questions, we decided to dedicate what is usually a nightmare fuel slot to a listener question.  LINKS See Dr Jen Gunter Live as part of The Festival of Dangerous Ideas https://bit.ly/4cv3AdN Follow Dr Jen on TikTo...

In this episode, there is mention of domestic violence. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 In Abbie's view, no one would care about what Blake Lively is doing or saying if she was promoting a Romcom. But she's not. She's promoting a movie featuring heavy domestic violence. Abbi...

Disclaimer: None of the contents of this episode are to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP. What is menopause and perimenopause and how are women impacted by these life stages? How do we challenge our doctor's advice when they're not hearing us? Also, how in the world can we stop UTI and how effective is the UTI vaccine? Expert OB/GYN Dr. Jen Gunter serves us fact...

In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 A Nightmare Fuel especially dedicated to Australian-Vietnamese author and activist Alyssa Huynh. What would you do if you were out shopping and someone racially abused the store's staff in front of...

In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Alyssa Huynh helpfully breaks down all types and examples of microagressions Asian-Australians face on a daily basis. Think of this as a guide of what NOT to do. LINKS Buy the book Safe Space by Aly...

In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Australian-Vietnamese author and activist Alyssa Huynh opens up about how her parents and grandparents experienced awful racism in Australia and speaks about how anti-Asian racism is still a huge is...

Author, Comedian, and Actress Steph Tisdell brings in not one but THREE Nightmare Fuels in one episode. Hear about Abbie's vibrator in her car, the quiet Scottish man, and the awkward recliner kisses. LINKS Buy Steph's book https://bit.ly/4dSwaqL Follow Steph on socials https://bit.ly/3YCP4xg Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnr...

In this episode, there is mention of transphobia and racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Abbie responds to the trolls about her "Egg Drama", gives us a rundown of Trump's gaslighting at the National Association of Black Journalists convention, and calls out the abhorrent...

Abbie shifts gears with Canadian-Lebanese author Najwa Zebian and asks: When is it the right time to cut ties with your family? LINKS Listen to Part 1 of this episode https://listnr.com/podcasts/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episodes/najwa-zebian-toxic-relationships Read Najwa's recent Book 'The Only Constant' https://bit.ly/3zYHnao Check out the rest of Najwa's books https://bit.ly/3LEtPDv Revie...

In this episode, there is mention of abuse within toxic relationships. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Lebanese-Canadian author Najwa Zebian's booked have helped Abbie navigate toxic relationships with her exes and, now that she's on the pod, Abbie has a MILLION questions. ...

In this episode, there is mention of sexual assault and harrasment. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 A story that's unfortunately too familiar. A man wips his penis out non-consentually leaving this listener scarred to this day. But can you believe that that wasn't the worst...

ANYONE BUT TRUMP PLZ! Abbie's thoughts on Biden stepping down: It doesn't have to be the perfect candidate, it's time for the Left to unite just like the Right are, and when all that's left is the Cherry Ripe, just go for it. Better than nothing, right? LINKS Listen to part 1 of this episode https://listnr.com/podcasts/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episodes/mansplainer-jon-boles Review the podcas...

Oscar is BACK and has a cooked wedding story to tell. Meanwhile, Abbie is preoccupied with a mansplaining TikToker who has a hot take on "perception" and "perspective". LINKS Listen to Part 2 of this episode https://listnr.com/podcasts/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episodes/biden-stepping-down-trump Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG...

In this episode, there is mention of stalking and threatening behaviour. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Rich boy turns out to have a massive dick but a fragile ego. Hang on tight because this one shook Abbie to the core. LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bi...

In this episode, there is mention of stalking and threatening behaviour. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 At first, this Aussie waitress in Berlin described this man as "one of us but with money". He barely ate, was fussy about his water, wore bright coloured headphones, and...

What is Sociopathy and how does it differ from Psychopathy? Can Sociopathy be considered a neurodivergence? And, what does life look like for someone who rarely experiences shame or guilt? Author, Mum, Therapist, and diagnosed Sociopath Patric Gagne answers all these questions and more in one of the most fascinating episodes of It's A Lot. LINKS Buy Patric's book https://bit.ly/461gvm5 Follow Patr...

Abbie, Oscar and Lem have SO many thoughts on what's going on in the US right now so here's a little extra bonus all about Trump's assasination. Cuh-Ray-Zi! LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple pod...

After a heavy night of drinking with party animals Lucy and Nikki, Two Broke Chicks' Sal found herself at the back of an Uber regretting her life decisions. Wait till you hear what happened after she had a big Maccas meal and made another choice that would cost her hundreds of dollars... LINKS Buy the Two Broke Chicks' book https://bit.ly/4cDR2kA Follow the Two Broke Chicks on Instagram https://bi...

Make no mistake. Abbie is NOT pro Joe Biden but she's vehemently anti-Trump. But will Charli XCX save us all? LINKS Listen to Charli XCX's new album Brat https://bit.ly/3VNk36A Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcript...

In this episode, Abbie talks at length about suicidal ideation and abortion. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Abbie's not been feeling the best lately especially now that EMDR (a theraputic approach) has opened the flood gates for her as far as emotions and trauma are concern...

Two Broke Chicks' Al has had far too many times where she was naked in the most awkward of situations. Here's the first part of the Two Broke Chicks' Nightmare Fuel! LINKS Buy the Two Broke Chicks' book https://bit.ly/4cDR2kA Follow the Two Broke Chicks on Instagram https://bit.ly/4cnNZxs Listen to The Two Broke Chicks podcast https://bit.ly/3XK06jK Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit...

What do you do when your friends suddenly have kids and their whole lives have changed? Are all toxic friendships obvious? And, what if you're friend is dating an asshole? Two Broke Chicks Sal and Al have the answers. LINKS Listen to Part 1 of this episode https://bit.ly/4eEpb5I Buy the Two Broke Chicks' book https://bit.ly/4cDR2kA Follow the Two Broke Chicks on Instagram https://bit.ly/4cnNZxs Li...

What are the signs of a toxic friendship? Is a long friendship necessarily the best one? And, Abbie has a special wedding rant that is GLORIOUS! LINKS Buy the Two Broke Chicks' book https://bit.ly/4cDR2kA Follow the Two Broke Chicks on Instagram https://bit.ly/4cnNZxs Listen to The Two Broke Chicks podcast https://bit.ly/3XK06jK Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Foll...

Heads up: Lots of poo chat in this one How on earth is comedian Lizzy Hoo going to survive a 45 minute interview she thought was only 10 minutes long all while she's BUSTING for a poo? LINKS Buy tickets to Lizzy Hoo's show on August 9th https://bit.ly/3zkUn9Z Visit Lizzy Hoo's website https://bit.ly/4boeNwf Follow Lizzy Hoo on TikTok https://bit.ly/3VJMMte Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http...