IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse

In Part 2 of the Northern Ireland femicide epidemic series, IPV and Me continues examining the devastating rise in violence against women across Northern Ireland. This episode explores the stories behind the headlines, the systemic failures being called into question, and the growing demand for change in the face of a national crisis. ***Happy fifth anniversary to IPV and Me!*** I just want to tha...

This episode covers a deeply serious and ongoing issue — the femicide epidemic in Northern Ireland, where a pattern of women being killed by men, often in the context of domestic abuse, continues to emerge. In Part One, I break down what femicide means, why these cases aren’t isolated, and how warning signs are too often missed. It’s a heavy conversation — but an important one, because these are r...

In the first episode of 2026, IPV and Me examines the allegations made by Amanda Brown against former Irish rugby player Davy Tweed. We look at the abuse experienced by Amanda and her family, the impact it had on their lives, and the broader questions it raises about reputation, power, and accountability. When someone widely admired is accused of harm, how does a community respond—and who gets bel...

Long before MomTok or The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives , Mayci Neeley was navigating a world shaped by rigid expectations, faith, and vulnerability. In this episode of IPV and Me , I explore Mayci’s journey through the pressures of the Mormon Church and the abusive relationships that followed—experiences in which she was repeatedly taken advantage of by men who exploited her trust. Drawing from he...

In this episode, I sit down with Caroline Orman , a domestic abuse survivor and the author of The Other Side of Fear —a powerful fictionalised novel inspired by her real-life escape from abuse in Turkey. Originally from the UK, Caroline spent many years living abroad before settling in Spain, where she now works as a health and medical writer. In her spare time, she continues to write fiction. Joi...

This week’s episode is a little different. I’m taking a break from interviews and storytelling to just sit down and talk — about life, healing, and what it means to reach ten years since I left my abuser. As I approach my 40th birthday, I’m reflecting on how far I’ve come, what I’ve learned, and what freedom really feels like a decade later. Help: thehotline.org Merch has launched!!!!!!: Big news!...

In this episode of IPV and Me – My Journey with Domestic Abuse , I’m sharing the story of Kerry Katona. Many people know Kerry as a singer, TV personality, and someone who has lived much of her life in the public eye. But behind the fame, she was also living through the pain and fear of domestic abuse. Kerry’s story is a powerful reminder that abuse can happen to anyone, no matter who they are or...

In Part Two of our deep dive into the 1996 murder of Sophie Toscan du Plantier, we examine the man who would come to dominate headlines: Ian Bailey. As the Garda investigation unfolds, Bailey—a local journalist—emerges not just as a reporter covering the case, but as its prime suspect. We explore the timeline of events, the contradictions in Bailey’s statements, and his troubling history of violen...

In this special two-part, I examine the tragic and deeply unsettling case of Sophie Toscan du Plantier— a French woman who was brutally murdered outside her holiday home in West Cork, Ireland, just before Christmas in 1996. In Part One, I’ll walk you through Sophie’s life, the days leading up to her death, and the strange, isolated setting where this horrific crime took place. We’ll look at the ea...

In this bonus episode, I highlight the key statements from the first round of witnesses, particularly from Cassie Ventura. This case is reshaping public conversations about power, fame and accountability in domestic abuse. Socials: @mandgoggs on Instagram email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com Help: thehotline.org, rainn.org Sources: https://variety.com/2025/music/news/male-escort-testifies-diddy-trial-...

We're back after a very extended break so here is a very extended episode! (Take breaks, we'll hold your place!). And Happy International Women's Day to all you beautiful bold women! In today's episode, I travel to Ireland for the story of one of the most courageous women I have ever encountered. Nicola Hanney not only dealt with a horrific case of domestic abuse but she was also battling life-thr...

We're back after a very extended break so here is a very extended episode in two parts... both released together (Take breaks, we'll hold your place!). And Happy International Women's Day to all you beautiful bold women! In today's episode, I travel to Ireland for the story of one of the most courageous women I have ever encountered. Nicola Hanney not only dealt with a horrific case of domestic ab...

October 4th, 2004, was a regular morning for Rachel Callaly, a mother and wife. She got her kids ready and dropped them off at school. But her journey back home would prove to be her last. Social Media: @mandgoggs email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com Help: thehotline.org women's aid Sources : https://www.dpbolvw.net/click-100872371-13261435?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.barnesandnoble.com%2Fw%2Fremembering-ra...

Welcome to a new side series called, 'Asking For It'. Here I will be telling stories of violence against women outside of the category of domestic abuse. Today's episode is about Katie Piper who was viciously attacked by a man she was dating for only two weeks... but more horror was around the corner. Sources: 'Beautiful' by Katie Piper (Purchase here: https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100872371-132...

In December 2020, singer FKA Twigs filed a lawsuit against her ex-partner actor Shia LaBeouf accusing him of sexual battery, assault and infliction of emotional stress during their relationship. He responded by saying he had been abusive to himself and those around him for years, and that he was ashamed and sorry to those he had hurt. He later denied all allegations. The court date has been set fo...

Mel B, otherwise known as Scary Spice, one-fifth of the bestselling girl group of all time, The Spice Girls. After a public humiliation by comedian and father of her child, Eddie Murphy, Mel found herself in a vulnerable position. Until along came a suave man called Stephen who would change her life forever... Sources: 'Brutally Honest' by Melanie B: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/brutally-hones...

Mel B, otherwise known as Scary Spice, one-fifth of the bestselling girl group of all time, The Spice Girls. After a public humiliation by comedian and father of her child, Eddie Murphy, Mel found herself in a vulnerable position. Until along came a suave man called Stephen who would change her life forever... (Apologies for the sound on this one guys! It's a little low. ) Sources: 'Brutally Hones...

In November 2023, singer Cassie Ventura filed a lawsuit against Sean 'Diddy' Combs. She said Diddy had put her through years of sexual violence and physical abuse. Diddy denied the claims until just this week on May 17th, shocking video was released showing the true extent of his violence. Sources: Court documents : chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/ https://www.courthousenews.co...

We are finally back after an extended break! I missed you! On this week's episode, I discuss Victoria Ciller's story. Victoria met a man who was charming, loving and everything she ever wanted. But soon the lies started and a lot of things just weren't adding up. Then, Victoria had a horrific parachuting accident... or was it an accident? Purchase I Survived by Victoria Cilliers here: https://www....

Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started? Part 2.Sources and Helpful Articles:The Sun Articles: https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/6159182/jk-rowling-genuinely-happy-johnny-depp-fantastic-beasts/ https://www.the-sun.com/news/1731157/johnny-depp-libel...

Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started? Sources and Helpful Articles: Amber’s 2018 piece for the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-0...

This week's episode features stories from everyday women taken from the book series #SheWins. Address Confidentiality Program - https://victimconnect.org/learn/address-confidentiality/ Lovern’s website - https://lovelifenow.org/ Alisa’s website: https://www.alisadivine.com/ thehotline.org Sources: Books - https://amzn.to/3LEEUnV and https://amzn.to/427BKiW

Audrina Patridge is well known for her time on the smash hit reality show 'The Hills', but Audrina spent many years suffering abuse at the hands of her partner, Corey. This episode goes to show you never really know what's going on in a celebrity's personal life. . . I had the pleasure of being interviewed recently for the wonderful domestic abuse awareness podcast, 'Peace Over Pieces'. Check it o...

This episode highlights the danger of leaving an abuser. This is the story of Claire and Charlotte, and the Hart family. Sources:Book written by Luke and Ryan Hart: https://amzn.to/3ofvk2x Luke’s letter to Ryan: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/luke-hart/brother-strength-saved-me_b_16145554.html?1492844010 Luke and Ryan Hart’s website: https://www.cocoawareness.co.uk/

This is a bonus episode where I read some facts and statistics and give important information about domestic abuse, all taken from Tanya Selvaratnam's book, 'Assume Nothing'. (See episode 22 for her full story: https://media.rss.com/ipvandme/feed.xml ) Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandgoggs/?hl=en Help: thehotline.org Sources: https://am...