IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse

Tanya Selavaratnam suffered abuse at the hands of the former Attorney General of NY, Eric Schneiderman. In her memoir, 'Assume Nothing' she gives a harrowing account of the abuse and control she suffered. Help: https://www.thehotline.org/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandgoggs/?hl=en Sources: https://amzn.to/3WF6vc3 - Tanya’s book “Assum...

Part 2 of the story of Hedda Nussbaum. Sources: https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619 https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair h...

Hedda Nussbaum spent years being tortured and abused by her partner, Joel Steinberg. Little did she know it would end in the most horrendous thing any parent could go through. Sources: https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619 https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY https://www.yout...

The missing person case and subsequent murder of Gabby Petito became a social media sensation in 2021. Her fiance Brian Laundrie had returned from their trip without her and was refusing to talk to the police or Gabbie's family, but where was Gabbie? Episode Sources: Killing of Gabby Petito - Wikipedia https://www.instagram.com/gabspetito/ Gabby Petito timeline: Everything we know about her disapp...

This week's episode takes us to my home country, Ireland and is the devastating and brutal story of Nadine Lott. Nadine did everything you're 'supposed to do', so why did she still end up dead? This one is particularly violent so listener discretion is advised. Sources: Nadine Lott's mother: 'We are haunted by her terror, fear, panic, cries' https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/nadine-lott-t...

Taylor Armstrong is an OG Real Housewife of Beverly Hills. When the show first aired, little did the viewers know that her Stepford Wife's outer appearance was a ruse to hide the fact that her husband, Russell was brutally abusing her. Sources: https://tidd.ly/3GTriSX Taylor's memoir. Camille reveals Taylor's abuse on Real Housewives: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fL1qnfllUPo This episode contai...

Taylor Armstrong is an OG Real Housewife of Beverly Hills. When the show first aired, little did the viewers know that her Stepford Wife's outer appearance was a ruse to hide the fact that her husband, Russell was brutally abusing her. Sources: https://tidd.ly/3GTriSX Taylor's memoir. Camille reveals Taylor's abuse on Real Housewives: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fL1qnfllUPo This episode contai...

This concludes the story of Leslie Morgan Steiner. Sources: TEDTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/leslie_morgan_steiner_why_domestic_violence_victims_don_t_leave?language=en Book: https://tidd.ly/3EmKg2R

Welcome back for part 2 of the story of Leslie Morgan Steiner. (Warning: Leslie's story is particularly violent at times.) Sources: TEDTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/leslie_morgan_steiner_why_domestic_violence_victims_don_t_leave?language=en Book: https://tidd.ly/3EmKg2R

This week I start Part 1 of the story of a true hero of mine. I have discussed Leslie Morgan Steiner on almost every episode of my show so far and thought it time I discuss her story and her wonderful book, 'Crazy Love'. (Warning: Leslie's story is particularly violent at times and I also discuss some stories from my own life which may be triggering to some of you). Sources: TEDTalk: https://www.t...

This week I tell the story of Tina Turner's years of abuse at the hands of Ike Turner. Sources: ‘I, Tina’ My Life Story Tina Turner with Kurt Loder book: https://tidd.ly/3udM8bi Tina documentary HBO https://play.hbomax.com/page/urn:hbo:page:GYB2e7gq3xivCIgEAAAAb:type:feature Links: Rte article and show: Domestic abuse in Ireland - a year in crisis https://www.rte.ie/player/movie/rt%C3%A9-investiga...

This episode is dedicated to the memory of Ashling Murphy. A slightly different episode this week as I try and process the senseless murder of Ashling and violence against women in general. Sources: Picture of bike from Ashling Murphy investigation: https://www.rte.ie/news/ireland/2022/0117/1274155-ashling-murphy-investigation/ Facts about VAW https://reliefweb.int/report/world/16-shocking-facts-a...

I'm finally back! This week I tell the story of Nicole Brown Simpson. One of the most infamous cases of DV and the biggest trial of all time. Link to my article with Real Woman magazine: https://www.mydigitalpublication.com/publication/?m=52852&i=723499&p=66&ver=html5 Instagram: @IPVandMe @MandGoggs Sources: Documentary: OJ and Nicole: An American Tragedy. https://www.familyfriendpoems...

This week I talk about the murder of Shanann Watts and her children Cece and Bella by her husband Chris. A story that shook the world. Sources: Netflix Documentary: https://www.netflix.com/search?q=family%20next%20door&jbv=81130130 https://www.insider.com/chris-watts-murder-timeline-2018-12 A reminder that October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month!

In this week's episode, I discuss the disappearance of Susan Cox Powell and the abuse she suffered at the hands of her husband, Josh. Sources: https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/powells-story-cruelty-abuse-from-an-early-age/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Susan_Powell https://truecrimetimesblog.medium.com/the-sordid-saga-of-josh-and-susan-powell-6fba6717b446 https://www.susa...

Welcome back! This week I talk about the recovery process. It's a long road but you will get there. Sources: VOCA fix act: https://www.congress.gov/bill/117th-congress/house-bill/1652 https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FLearning-How-to-Leave%2F9781838352707 https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747...

Welcome back to part 2 of 'Leaving'. This was recorded during a thunderstorm and flash flooding in NY so you may hear some rain and thunder in the background! Sources: The Danger Assessment http://ncdsv.org/images/DANGERASSESSMENT.pdf No Visible Bruises by Rachel Louise Snyder https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2Fsearch%3F...

Welcome back! This week is a two-parter as I have so much to say on the leaving process. Reach out to me on @IPVandMe on all social media platforms or my personal account on Instagram @MandGoggs. thehotline.org for help. Sources: New York Daily News Article: https://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/ny-wake-victim-crowbar-attack-20210623-pe46vwmsmfdvbebmuyuwveezgm-story.html No Visible Bruises book: ht...

This week I talk about my experiences with physical abuse and how I was in denial until very recently about these incidents. Sources: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/escalation/ https://www.harborhousewi.org/news/blog/they-never-hit-me/ Link to YouTube Documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bw_yMvNxhEk Link to purchase 'How to Leave' by Michael Padraig-Acton: https://www.awin1.com/cread...

In today's episode, I talk about the emotional and physical toll that abuse takes on your body. I speak about how I was constantly ill and how I did everything to I could to hide the abuse from family and friends. Sources: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visible-Bruises-Rachel-Louise-Snyder%2F9781912854851%3Fref%3D...

Welcome back! And Happy Pride Month! June 1st also marks National Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day. In this weeks episode, I discuss my experiences with financial abuse; something which occurs in 99% of domestic violence relationships. DM's always open @IPVandMe on Instagram and Twitter. Contact the hotline.org for help or 800 799 SAFE. For sources: joinonelove.org, https://theconversation.com/why...

This week I discuss some common traits and tactics of abusers and give some more details of my experiences of abuse in the early days. Some stories may be triggering so please take care and take some time to ground yourself after listening. Link to purchase 'No Visible Bruises' https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visib...

This week on my very first full episode I speak about the early days of abusive relationships, how the abuser entraps their victims, and specifically 'love-bombing'. If you or anyone you know needs help please contact TheHotline.org 1800.700.SAFE. Follow me on Instagram @IPVandMe. Sources: www.healthline.com; Crazy Love by Leslie Morgan Steiner; No Visible Bruises by Rachel Louise Snyder.

Hi, and welcome to IPV and Me! This is an introductory episode where I tell you a little bit more about me (Amanda) and what you can expect from this podcast.