Insert Here: A Kink Podcast

As it's Pride Month, Kay and Tom take time to reflect on their own sexual identities. They talk candidly about how childhood experiences, relationships, kink, and non-monogamy have influenced their own sexuality. In other news, the Bee Gees and Leonard Cohen make an appearance, as Kay has her first bi MMF and it's time to dish the dirt on kink events, sexy parties, play dates, raves, and k...

After two years of kink, Kay and Tom take a leap into the world of swinging, via a Roman orgy, sexy wrestling, and snorting cum. Kay has some of her preconceptions shattered, and others upheld, while Tom get recognised at a swing social far more often than is reasonable. After providing some high-brow insight with facts and figures, normal service is resumed as Kay and Tom try selling dirty linger...

One year on from their first episode, Tom and Kay are back with more delicious kink. It's time to discuss wax play:- how to start, what to do, what to avoid, and what happened during their group wax scene? In other news, there have been some 'sexy' solo dates to report, kinky club nights, and embarrassing kinkfessions. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife....

Join Kay and Tom as they delve into the 'middle aisle'. Some changes in 3rd-party dynamics, and confusion over terms, encourage Tom and Kay to re-negotiate boundaries. They discuss their process and how they have started to formalise their relationship. A new year also focuses their minds on kinky bucket lists for 2026. Kay asks for help with deep throating and lingerie, while Tom reveals...

Tom and Kay briefly summarise their first calendar year of kink, and ask that all important question... "Should Tom try fisting in 2026?" Since last time - Kay gets wet at WET, bouncers break up a fouresome, and Tom enjoys the world's poshest douche. A not-so-high-brow review of the teen sex comedy, 'MILF' and two semi-kinkfessions, wrap up their kinky 2025. Follow @InsertHer...

For this episode, Kay and Tom are joined by Kirizal and S as we delve into the world of 24/7 dynamics. Sprinked between the terrible jokes, slutty spider outfits, and a mid-recording penis/chilli torture, there is a loosely structured podcast. Praise be! If you've ever been curious about total power exchange, how to survive a 3-hour interrogation, or how lifestyle kinks differ to event-based p...

Tom and Kay return with a mix of silly smut, embarrassing kinkfessions, and gossip. This episode focuses on exhibitionism as a kink, touching on hows, whys, wheres, and all the naughty bits in-between. Tom explains how he's been a unicorn both figuratively and literally, while Kay provides "blow-by-blow" analysis of her latex catsuit flatulence. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here...

After a busy few weeks, Tom and Kay reflect on a few new sexperiences and react candidly to 2024 thriller 'Baby Girl' staring Nicole Kidman, and its depiction of kink. If you've ever wondered what it's like to ride "machines" in tandem, or try back-door hand insertion... Tom recounts his awkward kiss and tell drunk couple kinkfession. Kay provides far too much detail abou...

Hey folk! For this episode Tom & Kay play podcast collab, with Kari and Cousin Dan from the Sexcentric podcast. Subject yourselves to a chaotic two-part pod, as Kari and Dan provide an insight into their experiences as a queer couple on the swinging scene. Beware Dan's flying fist of fury, and Kari's bath tub 'special attack'. Vertically challenged football fans, and eproctophi...

Kay and Tom welcome special guests, Motti (@Motti) and Mark (@MetabolicRift), to discuss their dynamic and explore 'edge play', with humour, sensitivity, and FU#KI*G seagulls! Tom reimagines himself as a socialist WWE wrestler, while Kay removes her wedgie. Mark provides valuable insight, while Motti gets blinded by the 'big light'. WARNING: Please listen out for the content warnin...

Tom and Kay get drenched at a very wet Northern Pride 2025, and sweaty at the first-ever 'Shiny' (latex, lace, and leather). Kay goes it alone at a play event for the first time, where she is beaten up by a giant Pikachu. Tom bemoans how incompatible zips and his ball sack are. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠inse...

Four days of craziness, kinkiness, and downright silliness at Jezfest 2025. Tom and Kay make 'special' friends, experience gunge, rope torture, erotic fairground games, alien probing, and a flaming penis. They also discuss a controversial performance and what can go wrong in kink. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠inse...

Marking a year on the scene, and her birthday, Kay embarks on an afternoon of self-confessed sluttery and general attention whoring. Cake smashing, cock candles, needles, and 9-person orgy?! Listen to find out if her birthday wishes came true. Tom, meanwhile, recounts his embarrassing 'tunnel of love' kinkfession. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Kay and Tom take their first holiday together to Barcelona armed only with their sketch books, Google translate, and kinky abandon! How did they fare at a foreign much? What happened at the BDSM Film Festival? What do you call your pee hole...? Kay also reveals her plans for next week's birthday scene! Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠...

After a short hiatus, we're back for more. Kay discusses her first experience of burnout and how she is finding her way back onto the scene. In other news - we prepare to hit the Barcelona BDSM scene to celebrate our kinkiversaries, and Tom reveals far too much to his neighbour in another kinkfession... pray for him! Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKin...

Time for our first 'Insert Here' audio fouresome! Join our conversation with friends and fellow kinksters Lena and Whiskey, complete with obligatory flirting, kinkfessions, and dad jokes. We learn about their introduction to kink, their experiences in polyamory, and how not to hide a human dog crate. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠...

Kay and Tom discuss their experience of communication, negotiation, and consent. Prepare for the inevitable cluster-f*%k as our amateur kinksters continue to lead the blind. In other news, we receive a Facebook doxing, Kay delivers a golden shower, and Tom reveals "Confessions of a Strap-on: Part 2". Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠⁠inserth...

The kink project continues as we discuss the kind of events you might expect to encounter and how to get on 'the scene'. We discuss our first events, speeding nuns, latex orgams, and kinkfess for the first time. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com

Welcome to 'Insert Here: A Kink podcast', the ADHD-fuelled side project of two newbies as they explore the kink scene. Enjoy our chaotic ramble as we introduce ourselves, kill canaries, and attempt to unmask a horny neighbour. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com⁠⁠ Website: ⁠https://in...