I'm Wigging Out

TLDR: Kee's verbal diarrhea, a wedding extravaganza, and a glass skin recco.   Is it normal to feel jealous of other people's milestones? How do we stop comparing ourselves when comparison is all around us? And is there actually enough room for all of us? (yes) This week, Kee and Lucy share what makes them jealous and how they get tf over it.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

TLDR: Lucy's type-b week, being precious, and our new favourite aristocrats. Why does it feel so embarrassing to talk about your needs? Will we ever be free from the 'cool girl' trap? And how do you have a difficult conversation about a lack of appreciation? This week, Kee and Lucy discuss the needy woman to nagging wife pipeline, and how it's all bullshit. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YO...

TLDR: Kee's sad today, what's in a wallet ,and a dancing queen! How much money does the average Australian have in savings? Is home ownership even realistic in this climate? And am I wasting my 20s saving for my future? This week, Kee and Lucy break down the pros and cons of homeownership and what stability really means.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MENTIONED...

TLDR: Lucy's clunky quote, a strained relationship and hydration station.  Why are sister-in-law dynamics so tricky? How do you co-exist with someone you fundamentally disagree with? And is it personal, or does it just feel personal? This week, Kee and Lucy discuss the dangers of giving your partner an ultimatum between you and their family. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THING...

TLDR: Kee misses her besties, a diet culture dilemma and a new transfer-proof mascara. How did we go from peak body positivty to the diet culture of 2026? What actually is a GLP-1? And why is there so much judgment about a personal medical decision? This week, Kee and Lucy lovingly fumble their way through an important (and imperfect) conversation. Butterfly Foundation  is the national charity for...

TLDR: Lucy's (not) engaged! Gassing yourself up and a fresh franchise of our faves. Why does Australian humour default to self-deprecation? When does it become a lack of self-belief? And how do we gas ourselves up when it goes against everything we've learned? This week, Kee and Lucy break down a dilemma about tall poppies and self-deprication getting lost in translation. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT...

TLDR: Kee's epic long weekend (jks), a hot boyfriend, and some cute cashmere.  What do beauty standards have to do with compatibility? (Nothing) How do you kick a persistent feeling of unworthiness? And how can you rewire your negative self-talk before it sabotages your relationship? This week, Kee and Lucy break down a dilemma about relationship imposter syndrome.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTD...

TLDR: Lost balloons, wrapping it up and collective effervescence.  Will having casual sex stop you from finding 'the one'? Why is there such a gendered stigma when it comes to hookup culture? And what makes for a great one night stand? This week, Kee and Lucy unpack a dilemma about having your cake and eating it too.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MENTIONED: The Facts Ab...

TLDR: Will #wigtok survive this? Imagining your dream life and a few good eggs. Fertility rates have been in decline since the 1960s, why are people choosing not to have kids? Is it possible to stay in a relationship when you're not sure if you want the same future? And is love going to be enough? This week, Kee and Lucy work through a tornado about one of life's biggest decisions.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

TLDR: Lucy's crying, injecting joy, and a mild secret sauce.  Is there ever a perfect moment to let joy in? What is the best way to show up for your friend experiencing loss? And should we stop waiting to feel like 'ourselves' again? This week, Kee and Lucy unpack an emotional dilemma about love and loss.  *This week's dilemma touches on miscarriage and grief. The Pink Elephants Pr...

TLDR: Brave in the sack, being the glue, and a remedy for dopamine addiction.  Why do so many eldest daughters move overseas? Whose responsibility is it to manage a family? And are you drifting apart or is it just growing up? This week, Kee and Lucy work through a dilemma about the guilt of moving away when you're "the glue" that holds the family together.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN...

TLDR: Lucy loves a rule, the young people are staying home, and a good hang. Did you know that almost half of Gen Z women are living at home with their parents? Do the pros outweigh the cons when it comes to moving out? And is renting really a waste of money? This week, Kee and Lucy unpack a dilemma about timelines and the fear of 'missing out on life'. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠⁠⁠⁠ THING...

TLDR: Sober Kee, fantasizing about freelancing, and hot girls have hobbies.  When is the right time to take a leap of faith on your side-hustle? Are there periods of your life where you have to sideline your passions? And what is being freelance actually like? This week, Kee and Lucy work through a dilemma about the realities of sacrificing a 'safe' job for your dream.  ⁠⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MEL...

TLDR: current affairs, the perfect man (?), and a prehistoric snack.  What happens when 'the one' stops feeling like 'the one'? Is the grass always greener? And when should we just listen to our gut? This week, Kee and Lucy dissect a dilemma about a long-term relationship that's perfect on paper, but maybe not for a lifetime. ⁠⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠⁠ THINGS WE MENTIONED: What...

TLDR: Kee's got Influencer's Block, what's in a name, and something to do with your hands.  Why are more and more women keeping their surnames? Should we value tradition over contribution? And why do people feel such entitlement when it comes to naming a baby? This week, Kee and Lucy get into a juicy dilemma about 'naming rights' and big egos. ⁠ SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN ⁠ THINGS WE...

TLDR: Highs and wigs, revisiting our 2025 feelings, and the best show on television.  How was Kee's maternity leave? Where in the world did Lucy go? And what's so good about the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City anyway? This week, Kee and Lucy get you up to speed on the last six months and the feelings they're carrying into 2026. SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN THINGS WE MENTIONED: The Real House...

*WE LET CHATGPT CHOOSE OUR TITLE THIS WEEK CYA TLDR: A siesta of sorts, AI arguments, and WTF to do with your old linen.  When did we start outsourcing our emotional labour to ChatGPT? Would you be offended if your partner introduced AI into your arguments? And what happened to having a think? This week, Kee and Lucy unpack a dilemma about AI interference in human relationships, and where they dra...

TLDR: Lucy's on a break, drugs for good, and personal boundaries actually work (shocking). Why do we look at physical health differently from mental health? How can we undo our internalised shame when it comes to antidepressants? And where does that stigma even come from? This week, Lucy and Kee share their experiences with medication for mental health. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTD...

TLDR: A friendship hiatus, no phones in the gym, and a perfect sequel. Should we expect to be camera-ready every time we leave the house? When did big life events turn into "great content"? And why don't we think to ask before hitting record? This week, Lucy and Kee share how they consciously create content and the simplest way to set a boundary.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR ME...

TLDR: Kee's in limbo, casual sex...hold the shame, and the book Lucy didn't quite finish in time.  Why do we celebrate men for having casual sex but shame women for doing the same? Is it even possible to untangle all of our internalised misogyny? And why should we apologise for exploring our sexuality? This week, Lucy and Kee compare the strides we've made towards sex positivity with t...

I'm Glowing Out! TLDR: A lippy for good, mirror mirror on the wall (f**k you), and a new version of an old fave. Has seeing yourself in a mirror ever ruined your day? Why do we see ourselves so differently than our friends do? And is it possible that we spend too much time in selfie-mode? This month, Lucy and Kee reflect on their own relationships with self-perception, and remind us that we&#3...

TLDR: Something's in retrograde, micro weddings with macro drama, and a satisfying scroll.  Why are so many people choosing elopement over the big white wedding? How do you cull the guestlist to keep your big day drama free? And what even are the rules for a modern wedding? This week, Lucy and Kee say "I do" to you do you.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MEN...

TLDR: Kee's camping crisis, friendships that make you feel icky, and coke double zero. Is there a worse feeling than being added to a group chat that you know is about to drain your bank account? How do you tell your friends you can't keep up without seeing yourself out? And is it important to show up even when it's hard? This week, Lucy and Kee discuss the importance of having a villa...

TLDR: Maisie's down bad, first love vs. true love, and a hearty salad. Is it fair to compare long term relationships to your first love? Do we just love the thrill of the chase? And what does healthy love really feel like? This week, Lucy and Kee revisit their first loves and debate the difference between lust and love. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MENTION...

TLDR: Kee's birthday blues, being a better friend, and Lucy is still dehydrated.  Why do people in relationships insist on talking about their single friend's dating lives? Who says people in relationships are more qualified to give dating advice anyway? And how can we make sure we're checking in without overstepping? This week, Lucy and Kee unpack a thought starter from an anon who's tired of her...