I'm Wigging Out

TLDR: A friendship hiatus, no phones in the gym, and a perfect sequel. Should we expect to be camera-ready every time we leave the house? When did big life events turn into "great content"? And why don't we think to ask before hitting record? This week, Lucy and Kee share how they consciously create content and the simplest way to set a boundary.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR ME...

TLDR: Kee's in limbo, casual sex...hold the shame, and the book Lucy didn't quite finish in time.  Why do we celebrate men for having casual sex but shame women for doing the same? Is it even possible to untangle all of our internalised misogyny? And why should we apologise for exploring our sexuality? This week, Lucy and Kee compare the strides we've made towards sex positivity with t...

I'm Glowing Out! TLDR: A lippy for good, mirror mirror on the wall (f**k you), and a new version of an old fave. Has seeing yourself in a mirror ever ruined your day? Why do we see ourselves so differently than our friends do? And is it possible that we spend too much time in selfie-mode? This month, Lucy and Kee reflect on their own relationships with self-perception, and remind us that we&#3...

TLDR: Something's in retrograde, micro weddings with macro drama, and a satisfying scroll.  Why are so many people choosing elopement over the big white wedding? How do you cull the guestlist to keep your big day drama free? And what even are the rules for a modern wedding? This week, Lucy and Kee say "I do" to you do you.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MEN...

TLDR: Kee's camping crisis, friendships that make you feel icky, and coke double zero. Is there a worse feeling than being added to a group chat that you know is about to drain your bank account? How do you tell your friends you can't keep up without seeing yourself out? And is it important to show up even when it's hard? This week, Lucy and Kee discuss the importance of having a villa...

TLDR: Maisie's down bad, first love vs. true love, and a hearty salad. Is it fair to compare long term relationships to your first love? Do we just love the thrill of the chase? And what does healthy love really feel like? This week, Lucy and Kee revisit their first loves and debate the difference between lust and love. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MENTION...

TLDR: Kee's birthday blues, being a better friend, and Lucy is still dehydrated.  Why do people in relationships insist on talking about their single friend's dating lives? Who says people in relationships are more qualified to give dating advice anyway? And how can we make sure we're checking in without overstepping? This week, Lucy and Kee unpack a thought starter from an anon who's tired of her...

GET YOUR MERCH! TLDR: Lucy got punked, how to never go out of style and five seasons of British goodness.  How do you pull yourself out of a style rut without spending all your money? What's so wrong with 'a uniform' anyway? And what does "flattering" even mean? This week, Lucy and Kee share their journeys with personal style and their tips for finding outfits that feel like...

I'm Glowing Out! TLDR: Kee's miracle cream, celebs are spilling their CCs, and reccos for your dry faces. Why did Kylie Jenner's recent 'boob job' comment go so viral? Is surgery transparency good or bad for women? And what does that mean for the culture when celebrities share their surgery specifics? This month, Lucy and Kee push back on the double standards when it comes to &...

TLDR: Kee's knight in shining lycra, paranormal activity, and bestie, you better walk.  How do you cope with rejection when you never even got rejected? Is it too much to ask that we date with decency? And no, you didn't imagine that connection. This week, Lucy and Kee share exactly how to let someone down, gently. BIG thanks to our sponsor, Charitabl. From the 22nd - 29th of June, donate...

TLDR: Lucy's candle nemesis, a curious letter, and a pod Kee loves. How do you respond when your “no-contact” ex reaches out? How many second chances does one person deserve? And are apologies sometimes self-serving? This week, Lucy and Kee weigh up the pros and cons of letting someone back into your life. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ THINGS WE MENTIONED: Las Culturistas HO...

TLDR: Kee's bowlo drama, how to live with regret, and a queer coming-of-age comedy.  Why do our worst decisions keep us up at night? Can you forget without forgiveness? And how do you come to terms with being the villain in someone else's story? This week, Lucy and Kee share the things they'd do differently if they had their time over, and the lessons they've found within their regrets. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠...

TLDR: Lucy's new meds (again), being destined for a bigger life, and nonna's lasagne. We've been taught that parenthood will complete us, but what if it's not enough? Is it possible for a relationship to survive when you have mismatched ambition? And what if you regret having kids? This week, Lucy and Kee unpack a postpartum dilemma about family, career, love and regret.  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠...

I'm Glowing Out! TLDR: Lucy's favourite facial, imperfect teeth are back, and two budget-friendly recommendations.  Why are we all so grateful for Aimee Lou Wood's teeth? When did everyone on TV start sharing a smile? And is it wrong to want to change your own? This month, Lucy and Kee interrogate Hollywood's obsession with perfect teeth, and celebrate the celebrities that are pushing back. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠...

TLDR: Kee's (fairy) Ballerina, an unfortunate association, and three words to help you get dressed. Can you stay friends with someone who is a reminder of the worst thing that's ever happened to you? Why is it so tempting to leave everything behind and start over? And is it possible to separate the friendship from the trauma? This week, Lucy and Kee suggest strategies that just might save...

TLDR: Lucy's new meds, reintroductions to old friends, and Kee has a new assistant. You hear the words 'High School Reunion...are you excited or panicked? Why do our achievements never feel enough? And should the person you were at school determine the person you are today? This week, Lucy and Kee reminisce on their glory days (jokes xx) and break down why high school reunions are so divis...

HUGE thank you to our sponsor,  Bed Threads .  TLDR: Kee's crisis of confidence, working with an ex, and pen & paper. Should HR be privy to your former flames? Is it even possible to work peacefully alongside an ex (p.s he sucks)? And is the risk of voicing your discomfort worth the reward? This week, Lucy and Kee peel back the layers of a complicated workplace dynamic. ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR ME...

TLDR: Lucy's sexy polaroids, first times, and a fun drink. Are there unspoken rules when it comes to dating? Does 'taking it slow' jeopardise a potential relationship? (...no) And should you tell someone that it's your first time? This week, Lucy and Kee remind you that dating is not something that is happening TO you, it’s happening BECAUSE of you. ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠...

I'm Glowing Out! TLDR: Haus Labs is in the house, stinking up a plane, and Kee found her face oil. Are expensive cleansers a waste of money? Does under eye concealer actually make you more refreshed? And is it a crime to wear Ariana Grande Cloud on a long haul? (yes) Welcome to our unpopular beauty opinions. This month, Lucy and Kee review Haus Labs' best selling products and share which ones live...

TLDR: Kee's identity crisis, friendships beyond the surface, and tiny apple crumbles. When is the right time to be vulnerable with a new friend? What's the recipe for turning good friendships into great ones? And if you don't have a 'best friend', are you doing something wrong? This week, Lucy and Kee reflect on their newer, deeper friendships, and share their winning formula t...

TLDR: Lucy's cleavage conundrum, crying in the work bathroom, and dinner from the ladies. Have you ever quit a job and instantly regretted it? How do you explain a short stint on your resume? And can you use job hopping to get ahead? This week, Kee and Lucy downgrade a career-related tornado and revisit the wisdom from their very first episode,  WTF Am I Doing With My Career? ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YO...

TLDR: Kee almost ripped up a rocket, an uninvited visitor, and...dragons. How close is too close when it comes to family? If you're beefing with your partner's parents, whose job is it to set the boundary? And why does "wearing the pants" feel so loaded? This week, Kee and Lucy share their wisdom when it comes to navigating relationships with in-laws. ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOW...

TLDR: Kee's puffy nudes, the worst lunchbox of all time, and a bundle of pure joy. Would you ask your best friend to be your birth partner? And what if your bestie asked you...would you say yes? This week, Kee and Lucy share all the wigs they had during Kee's labour and delivery, and the experience that changed their friendship forever.  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT YOUR MELTDOWN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ THINGS WE MENTION...

TLDR: Lucy's needs a bigger wardrobe, a breakup in the bridal party, and viva la Vevo. Can you forget about a messy breakup on your best friend's biggest day? Does the amount of time you've known someone determine the closeness of the friendship? And is it ever okay to demote your bridal party? This week, Kee and Lucy walk anon down the aisle but who will be standing at the altar? ⁠⁠⁠⁠...

I'm Glowing Out! TLDR: a celeb is coming to Sephora, our frown lines are making us sad, and a couple of cheek-y reccos. Do you remember where you were when you saw your first wrinkle? We do. From red carpets to 'For You' pages, and even within our own circles of friends - signs of aging have all but disappeared. The industry of anti-aging is complicated and this is an imperfect conversation. This...