Ignite Your Light with Xara Black

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When the cant control you they seek to control what others think about you

Discussing Spiritual Abuse and what the Church should be doing With Katherine Spearing from Uncertain Podcast

Ex Pastor Marc-Henri talks about his experience as a pastor and how came up with the concept of his book Toxic Jesus. ​You can follow my instagram page @xarablack https://bit.ly/2CrAQHZ​Like my facebook page bit.ly/3gZo5mM Also, Listen to my podcast Ignite Your Light -spoti.fi/37xJRKw Follow the author Marc-Henri on Instagram @toxicjesusthebook,  Buy the book now at https://www.amazon.co.uk/k...

The Narcissist will bombard you with attention, love and care. They will work incredibly hard to impress you, making you think that you are their soul mate. They may even mirror your likes and dislikes. This may feel uncomfortable in the same breath the target may feel this is everything they have been looking for

Fear based Religion is capturing the minds of black people in turn pulling them further away from the truth. Follow @xarablack on Instagram  Like Xara Black on Facebook

These Personality traits can be beneficial for you in your day to day life. The narcissist may have used them on you but you can use them to get ahead in life without abusing people.

How to spot insecure men. 

Alleged Prophet Sylvester Ofori shot his wife Barbara Tommy at her work place after she attempted to file for a divorce from him. She had suffered domestic violence at the hands of the Alleged man of God. This story teaches us all to be aware of wolves in sheeps clothing and not all men/women that claim to be righteous, are. Themes of domestic violence and spiritual abuse.

Getting through the dark night of the soul can be incredibly tough as you can feel that you have no purpose or meaning in life. Many feel like giving up at this time as the pain is unbearable. I explain a few things you can do that might help you to get through the dark night.

What, and how much should we be compromising in a relationship and what should we discard immediately 

Manifest the relationship that you want by setting your intention, making up your mind and sticking to the rules. Don't play yourself and blame the other person. 

Many people say they are afraid of failure but a lot of people are unconsciously afraid to succeed. Do you subconsciously have the fear of success?

Here are the Main differences I have noticed when leaving religion and becoming more spiritual. 

A lot of us do not think that we could ever become victims of brainwashing and mind control but in fact may already be under the spell of another without knowing. Religious, spiritual and cult leaders often use mind control and brainwashing techniques on their followers without the follower realising that their thought processes are being influenced. 

DO NOT even waste your time. If a person is wicked, there is no redemption for them, take it at face value and never wait for a "change" that may never come. We can only go by what we have already seen and that is abuse, lies, manipulation. When someone shows you who they are...Believe them. 

We cannot sit down and just let life happen to us. We have got to take it by the horn and create favourable situations for ourselves. Life favours the brave. Life will be you down but you have to fight back. 

A lot of people have a hard time letting go of religious/ spiritual beliefs they have been taught from a young age and will often  claim to have a faith or religion as a sort spiritual insurance just incase what they have been taught becomes true and they are likely to suffer the consequences although they may truely believe the beliefs they previously held are false. 

Speaking with Sandra about her abusive relationship with her pastor. Brilliant account shows how it is not always an intimate partner that can use tactics of domestic abuse but leaders can also abuse their power and take advantage of believers who generally have no clue that they are experiencing an abuse dynamic. 

How many times do we abandon ourselves by overriding the way we feel to be loved and accepted? We are willing to make ourselves uncomfortable for the comfort of somebody else. 

With coronavirus , lots of people feel closer to death than ever. The abuse of spirituality and religion can be quite rampant at this time. The million dollar question, if you were to die today, where would you go.? Is being asked more than ever. Just be a good person. 

A lot of people claim to be religious but may not be the best people for you.  Always do your due diligence do not assume that people are good or make decisions based on somebody 'claiming' that they are from a specific religion.

The depth of Religious Trauma, How ones life can be altered and the shattering of the soul after the assault on your mind. The problem with finding and living your true authentic self yourself if you are spiritual bypassing 

Many religious people are encouraged to have faith. At what point does it become ok to not believe that God can do everything. Does that mean you are a bad believer? Or just in touch with reality ? Let’s discuss. Can faith become foolish?

Battling depression has been an uphill one and consistently trying not to doubt myself. I discuss depression, it's effects on my life and encourage you all to TRY not to doubt yourself. Your mind will play tricks on you, telling you stories that don't exist in reality, it may even cause you to miss opportunity on a bad day. Remember you have to believe in your self and continue going in the direct...