Ignite Your Light with Xara Black

Too many women are investing their security in a relationship that may end. 87% of women retire in poverty, what have you done to avoid retiring in poverty? Women need to prepare for the worst and ensure that their independent security is secured no matter what happens to their relationship, looks, body and health. 

How to spot Spiritual abuse. How do we identify it? What is Spiritual or Religious Abuse? How to spot religious/spiritually abusive organisations. A few examples from my own personal experiences. 

How to make the right decisions and stop operating out of fear. 

A few ways that we can self sabotage ourselves in work, our relationships and even our bodies

Building Your Best Life 2020, Setting goals effectively, taking action not getting stuck. Listening to your divine guidance, failing and trying again. 

Space Nation Is a CULT Presenting themselves as a church but they have all the attributes of a spiritually abusive organisation. They suck members in slowly and then  followers become loyal, deployable and dependable minions of the church incapable of thinking critically and setting themselves up to be manipulated, abused and extorted.

Quite chilling to think about but large amount of victims cannot put a finger on the kind of abuse they are experiencing in their relationship. Coercive and controlling behaviour is a crime and intimate partners can be prosecuted if found guilty. I discuss my experience with coercive control in an abusive relationship I was previously involved in. 

The ones you want, never want you and the ones you don't want always want you. Isn't that always the case. We don't always have control over how the other person sees us even if we love them very much. Are you struggling to know where you stand with someone? Are you a prospect or a Joe? 

So many of us hit a brick wall in our careers and our business and we often don't realise that we have to get the combination of ingredients right in order for any of our ventures to be successful. We have to analyse what we may be lacking or maybe the ratio of our input is incorrect and we need to check what we could do more of and what we are doing right now that may be unnecessary or even hinde...

My biggest goal is to have my children love themselves. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all

Would you want to raise your child up to be religious? And for what purpose? Religious does not guarantee good morals. I speak about why I am abstaining from raising my kids to be religious We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

Why do people stay in abusive situations? A quick talk on the matter. In some cases it boils down to your childhood. Stop victim shaming and support people when they leave.

What is stopping you from taking action? Start to believe that you possess that power to create not waiting for anybody to open the doors but busting down the doors by creating the life that you want. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

How are YOU Perceived in the workplace. Is there a healthy balance between being introverted and extroverted? Are you paying attention to what you are saying in social situations? How much you are saying and how much you are willing to kick back and just listen? We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

Do you prefer to meet people online or in person? A little bit about my experience with dating apps. Most of all, Love yourself, Date Yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Self dating could help you find a more quality bae. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

It is time people took their head out of the sand that various forms of abuse are taking place under religious and spiritual institutions and leadership. I believe they should be regulated as these leaders have influence over so many lives and many are abusing it. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

Society shames women who have kids and are not in a relationship by using the phrase single mum which is 9/10 used in a negative way. Women with kids everywhere are trying their best and do not need the extra negativity from society looking down on them. Let's build more positive role models and stop making single women with kids look unpleasant. We will be discussing these issues on facebook...

What is Religious Trauma? How can you be Traumatised by a Religion. Is Religion a healthy thing to engage in? follow me @xarablack

No Job No Money No Business, I struggled to feed my children. I couldn't find my purpose and it all changed with one experience. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

Narcissists are con artists, fraudsters and chameleons. Not people who take pictures all day. They are calculated individuals. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

My experience of being in a  cult  @xarablack

Get to know me. This interview pretty much sums up everything that I have gone through the last few years. Death, Abuse, Divorce, Motherhood, unemployment. I was interviewed by Deborah Ruffini from Artist first radio . We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me