I Saw Him First

This podcast isn't just about how to get over a breakup, it's about how to prepare and get yourself ready for a more suitable match for you!  Who exactly qualifies as an ex? How soon should you move on after a relationship has ended? Is the heartbreaker always the one to move on the quickest? Should you try and wean yourself off of your ex or should you straight up go cold turkey?  Professional Re...

3 beautiful black girls having a candid and honest discussion about what it's like to date as black women in the UK. We talked about dating outside our races and the misconceptions of interracial relationships especially when a black woman is involved. Whether or not black men have it easier in the dating world. Flirting with boys or waiting for them to make the first move. Being raised in an Afri...

NO ONE WORKS EXTRA HARD TO KEEP SOMETHING THEY CAN EASILY REPLACE!!!! When you have something that doesn't seem of great value to you, you treat it differently to something that feels like a prize or a luxury to have. The same mentality can be applied to DATING OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. If you date down, you run the risk of not ever being content, whilst also making your partner feel inadequate. If you...

Good things come to those who wait.. but this definitely doesn't apply to men cuz if you wait too long, there just wouldn't be anyone left :)  It is seen as the norm for men to do the chasing and asking out. But is this dating culture outdated? Do guys like it when girls ask them out, or does it make them uncomfortable? What are the pros and cons of girls MAKING THE FIRST MOVE? ENJOYYYY and don't...

Another girllll chat 😁 (Part 2 is coming soon for the boys don't worry)  On this episode, my guest and I had an in-depth discussion about what it's like DATING IN OUR 20s compared to dating in our teens. We talked about the pressure placed on women especially, to be married at 30, whereas a man is free to be a Bachelor for Life! 😅 Is the fairy-tale narrative of love fake? I don't know.. You tell...

"How to bag the second date with the man or the girl of your dreams"... I know that just sounded like a TedTalk haha. But nahh, It's just banter y'all 🥰 On this episode, I talked about 8 things you could do that'd definitely get you past the first date hurdles and into the arms of your hot stud 😜 I hope you enjoy listening to this as much as I did recording it. If you love my podcast, don't forg...

The Ultimate Girl Chat!!! This episode pretty much sums up the conversations us girls have when we get together. So think of this an an Exclusive content for the non-female listeners haha :) My guests and I discussed the Iconic Catchphrase "WE WERE ON A BREAKKKKKKK" from the sitcom "FRIENDS", and went ahead to clarify the difference between a "Break" and a "Breakup". In light of the Jada Smith sit...

Him: What's wrong? You: Nothing.. Sound familiar?  On this episode of I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST, I brought myself to the "Red Table" where I discussed my incompetence as a lover.. LOOOOL! I talked about 5 common mistakes that people tend to make in relationships, and how i think we can avoid them. I hope y'all enjoy this one :)   LISTEN TO ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodc...

From a seductive touch, to getting a Ferrari for Christmas.. we all have our picks when it comes to how we express or receive love. Knowing that you are loved, and to actually feel loved are two separate things, the latter being the most important! If you are showing love in a way that your partner or friends or family don't receive love, its almost equivalent to not showing love at all. On this p...

My favourite episode yet! I had so much fun with my guest, dissecting the "act of multidating", and all the benefits of exploring your options while you're young. I explained that I'm Sapiosexual, meaning that I'm first turned on mentally by a man's intellectuals, before I find him physically attractive. There's so much you can learn about yourself while multidating, and I'm definitely an advocate...

You know that your man that's not really your man, but is your man cos everyone kinda knows him as your man? Well what happens when your girlfriend is lipsing your man, clearly you've called dibs on this man? Does girl code even exist anymore?  Podcast is also available on SoundCloud. Send in your messages & dilemmas to - isawhimfirstpodcast@gmail.com My socials: Instagram - @isawhimfirstpodcast T...

OFFICIAL TRAILER is finally here!!! I Saw Him First ~ Have Severallll Seats This is a new Dating & Relationship Show by a 20-something year old living in London. Grab some popcorn and a glass of your favorite wine.. it's story timeeeeee :) I Saw Him First Podcast LAUNCHES on FRIDAY 5th JUNE. SEE YOU SOON!  Keep Up With Me: https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast