I Saw Him First

Dating in 2026 feels exhausting… and honestly? A lot of people are losing hope in modern dating. In this episode, I talk about situationships, noncommittal men, dating culture, and why finding “the one” can sometimes feel more like luck than strategy. I also share the biggest signs of an unserious man early on, so you can protect your peace, avoid wasting time, and stop ignoring red flags. If you’...

Taylor Swift is finally engaged, and the internet lost its mind. But why do engagements, weddings, and “being chosen” hit us so hard? In this video, I break down the cultural obsession with love stories, why engagement posts dominate Instagram, how society glamorizes weddings over marriage, and why Taylor Swift’s engagement feels like a collective win for her fans and beyond. This isn’t just about...

Would you ask about saving and investing on a first date? I do, and here’s why. In this video, I share my experience telling my co-workers about my first-date money question, why I think the saying “money doesn’t make you happy” is flawed, and how talking about finances early can actually save you a lot of heartache later. I dive into:- Why conversations about saving, investing, and financial goal...

You don’t need to be perfect to be loved... seriously. In this video, I’m sharing something deeply personal. How I used to obsess over every little flaw, always trying to be “put together” and “attractive” ... until I started liking someone who didn’t fit any of my old ideas of “perfection.” That experience completely changed the way I saw love, dating, and most importantly, myself. From K-dramas...

Modern dating is a mess, and if you’ve ever felt like all the good men are gone, you’re not alone. In this brutally honest podcast episode, I dive deep into the real struggles of dating in 2025, from the death of genuine connection to the overwhelming pressure of dating apps and situationships. Why is it so hard to find a nice guy who’s actually emotionally available and attractive? Why do so many...

Are you afraid of love? Scared to open your heart because it feels like true love might not last? In this deeply personal video, I share my fears about relationships and why I’ve been single for over two years. From the fear of waking up to a partner who no longer loves me to the anxiety of being stuck in an unhappy relationship with kids, I open up about the emotional struggles that have shaped m...

Let’s have a heart-to-heart, girls. Let's get into the girl chat! 💕 Whether you're a teenager navigating your first crush or a young woman figuring out modern dating, this video is packed with real, relatable, and empowering advice. From decoding lies from boys, to setting boundaries and figuring out who you are, I’m here to help you navigate the sometimes messy but exciting world of dating 🌸✨...

Navigating Insecurities in Relationships | Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's New Album. In this episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the first and latest season of Love Is Blind UK, focusing on the emotional journey of two standout characters - Catherine & Freddie. We explore how insecurities can impact relationships, using the case of Catherine who loses her chance with a gr...

LOVE ISLAND IS HEREEEE! In this podcast, we're diving deep into the latest Love Island season with a comprehensive cast breakdown. From the hottest new islanders to the juiciest fights and gossip, I've got all the deets you need to stay in the loop. Whether you're a die-hard fan or just tuning in, this breakdown will give you all the insights into this summer's Love Island UK cast...

Let's get into the intriguing world of dating psychology as we explore why extroverts are more prone to mate poaching and infidelity. Are extroverted individuals really more likely to cheat? What makes them successful at "rizz" and attracting partners? Does that mean people dating introverts are safe? In this episode, we break down a fascinating psychology study that sheds light on these behaviors...

Feeling lonely and tired of being single? You CAN be single and happy! This video is a must-watch for anyone struggling with solitude, self doubt, sadness, and yearning for a deeper connection. What if I told you that there are several benefits to being single? What if I said that single people may actually be happier than people in relationships? Discover empowering insights and practical tips to...

Unlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship: 5 Tips from a Couple Together for 30+ Years. Looking for the key to long-lasting love? In this exclusive, I discuss my interaction with a a couple who've been together for over three decades, to uncover their secrets to relationship success. They shared their invaluable insights, packed with wisdom that can transform your love life. Don't miss...

In this juicy storytime, I spill the tea on my disastrous Bumble rendezvous. From being 30 minutes late to tipsiness and corkiness.. this date took an unexpected turn! Get ready for laughs, cringes, and learn a lesson or two about online dating. Hit that play button now and let's get into the drama! #BumbleDate #DatingDisaster #storytime I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULA...

Let's get into the latest season of Love is Blind with this no-nonsense recap! The lies from Jimmy, the betrayal from Jeramey, the insecurities from Chelsea and AD, the toxic behaviour from Trevor, the cheating scare from Clay, the proclaimed Megan Fox look-alikeness from Chelsea, the cheeky epi pen comment from Jessica, the Sarah-Ann drama, the girl's girl comment from Laura, the Amy &amp...

EVERYTHING WRONG WITH MODERN DATING. Unfiltered and absolutely unginged podcast today about the toxic realities of modern dating! From swiping patterns on dating apps to dating trends, dating psychology, hypergamy, looks maxxing, and all the other challenges of today's modern dating landscape. I also spoke about the impact of hookup culture on commitment. So whether you're navigating the d...

Modern dating really is the survival of the fittest! Today's podcast is a thought-provoking discussion about our swiping patterns on dating apps as women, compared to men. This was inspired by a Reddit post about beauty standards and societal perception of the regular everyday man on the physical attractiveness scale. Has online dating really become so superficial and heavily skewed towards th...

Let's talk about the complexities of modern dating. In a world where casual relationships and hookup culture is quickly becoming the norm, it has become so uncool to admit that you want a genuine connection. When did wanting to be loved become so uncool? Perhaps this is perceived as being synonymous with desperately longing for love and affection? In this candid episode, I recap a recent encou...

Society loves to tell women that as long as he's a "good guy," nothing else matters. But is that true, or are you really just settling for less than you deserve in a relationship? In this thought-provoking podcast, I delve deep into the pervasive myth of dating the so-called "good guys" and why it may not always lead to happy ending you may have pictured! Contrary to popular beliefs, being with a...

Curious about why someone would put the brakes on dating in their 20s? Should you stop dating too? Will I really never date again? Whether you're navigating your own dating journey or simply intrigued by the idea of taking a break from the dating scene, this video is for you! In this candid storytime, I delve into the personal journey that led me to make the decision to stop dating at 25. From the...

So it's VALENTINE'S DAY! 🎉 But for some people, it may be the end of their relationships 🥲 Well, I'm back with some actionable relationship advice for you! By the end of this video, you'll certainly get some clarity about whether or not to end your relationship. Are you at a crossroads in your relationship? Wondering if it’s time to say goodbye to the love of your life? Unsure about where it all...

Have you ever wondered why we DON'T feel bad for rich people? This is a very intriguing episode of my podcast where I delve into the paradoxical concept of empathy towards the rich and powerful people of the world. I explained the psychological phenomenon known as Hedonic Adaptation (Hedonic Happiness or the Hedonic Treadmill) and its profound implications on our perceptions of wealth and happines...

Does Money *truly* Make You Happy? Let's explore the fascinating world of the rich, where WEALTH is the goal, and HAPPINESS is supposedly an afterthought. What is the relationship between money and happiness? This eye-opening research by 3 psychologists reveals the surprising connections between Income and Wellbeing. It challenges common and popular beliefs that money does not make us happy, and h...

Using PSYCHOLOGY to understand how to be more confident, the science behind "fake it till you make it," and what exactly is the secret to building unshakeable self-confidence. I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Dating Tips, Relationship Advice & Self-Development For Young Women 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - h...

Using PSYCHOLOGY: The Power of Your Mind, you will learn ACTIONABLE tips to Glow-Up, Change your Mindset, Behavior, Habits, and eventually.. your Life. So, if you struggle to get out of bed in the morning, struggle to find motivation to get anything done, or you just need a little boost of serotonin to get through your day, you're in the right place. ENJOY :))))))) I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAS...

Uncover the truth behind hypergamy through insightful research and nuanced perspectives, as I delve into the dynamics of dating up and the concept of "high-value men." Is the Pursuit of High-Value Men Gold-Digging? Is it wrong for women to seek successful partners to date or marry? This podcast will give you a deeper understanding of the motivations behind the desire for successful men in the comp...