I Saw Him First

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!   I talked about the main reasons couples tend to stay together even though they are unhappy and why it's so hard to get out of these unfulfiling relationships. I sharerd a personal story to encourage you to DUMP SOMEONE RIGHT NOW and 5 reasons why you shouldn't wait a second longer! ENJOYYYYY :)   I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk s...

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! This episode is about Love Bombing, an extreme or overwhelming display of attention and affection. It tends to happen during the early stages of dating and may be a sign of NARCISSISM by the Love Bomber. Chemistry on the other hand, is more genuine and does not feel overwhelming. I think half the people on LOVE ISLAND are love bombers, but that's a conver...

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!   For this week's podcast, I went on REDDIT to fish out two really juicy relationship dilemmas. One boyfriend asked for space from his girlfriend, but still wants to text her EVRERDAY and hang out with her? Plus a wife who refused to make dinner for her husband after he ruined her makeup.. LOL   I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show...

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!   Enjoy a bit of storytelling and some advice on how to ace your first date and be confident about getting a second one! On this episode, I broke down FIRST DATES into 4 categories:  1) Pre-date Preparation  2) Safety  3) Date Tips & Conversations  4) After-date Etiquette   I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relati...

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Following up from last week's episode, today I answered 10 of the hardest relationship questions from BUZZFEED. Someone's partner is too flirty, one cheated and blamed it on alcohol, another watched the season Finale of a Netflix show without the S/O. Lots more fun scenarios to think about. Enjoyyyyyyy!!!! :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Rela...

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!    Today I answered 5 of the hardest relationship questions from BUZZFEED. From a partner forgeting your birthday, to requesting a threesome and finding out that you have been cheated on the day OF YOUR WEDDDING. Enjoyyyyyyy!!!! :)   I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. N...

Are your goals and values in alignment?    Here are a few things that professional matchmaker - Busola considers when predicting compatibility between two people.  Knowing who you are and what you want in a relationship is the first step in finding the right partner for you! We discussed opposites attracting, communication styles to resolve conflicts, being open minded, knowing your...

From the mouth of a certified matchmaker and dating coach Chi, to your ears.. Here's a few things you should know about matchmaking and what it takes to find a long-term partner.   On this week's podcast, we discussed the concept of having multiple soulmates, we talked about dating patterns and compatibility, red flags and deal breakers, the flawed statement "you have to love yourself before...

If you've seen the timeless series FRIENDS, then you know this story too well. The one where Ross says Rachel at the altar, instead of Emily. That chaotic incident inspired this podcast. Who comes first.. your lover or your friends? This is not a straightforward question at all, and in this episode, I discussed several reasons why either side would take priority over the other. Also, I dropped a v...

They say that Love is Blind but I'm not buying that! I don't think it's smart or reasonable to rely sorely on an emotional connection for the success or longevity of a romantic relationship.    On this episode, I discussed the highlights of the second season of Netflix's hit series LOVE IS BLIND. Is two days really enought time to fall in love with someone? Does physical attraction reall...

"What do you bring to the table? I am the table". Uhmmm... no you're not.    I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow if you enjoy this podcast :)   This week's episode is about what makes us a great catch and what qualities we bring to...

I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow and review if you enjoy this podcast :) This week's episode is about dating apps failing cuz let's be honest, they're not giving what they're supposed to give! Do you get loads and loads of likes and matches bu...

I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow and review if you enjoy this podcast :) This week's episode is about the dating habits we're not bringing into 2022 because I'm done with all that nonsense, lol. I spoke about the new notion that feeling butter...

"You don't ever have to leave, if to change is what you need.. you can change right next to me. Let's grow as we go" - Ben Platt I'M BACK Y'ALLLLLL :) Feels good!  This week's podcast is about dealing with changes in your personal life, changes in your friendships and changes in your romantic relationships. When is the change considered growth and when is it considered outgrowing someone? How...

Would you still believe someone loves you if they cheated on you? Physical vs emotional cheating, which would make you less likely to take back your partner? A one-time slip up, or a year long sexless emotional affair with another woman? I know... It's a conundrum! We also talked about the rapper Quavo, taking back the Bentley he got his now ex for her birthday.. how pathetic 😂 Men are not lookin...

SPOILER ALERT!!!! I was a little mean on this episode :))))) This week's podcast is sort of me reviewing all the dating apps I've used and what dating has been like in this pandemic. So pretty much what the title says haha. I also talked about the ridiculous reason why I stopped replying a guy's messages and ranked the apps on a 1-10 scale. Long story short... dating in a pandemic is shamblesssss&...

Have you ever heard the phrase "If a man likes you, you'll know".... well how true is that? On this episode I reacted to Influencer & Youtuber Breeny Lee's podcast about how to tell if a guy wants you. She seems to think if you have to ask then he doesnt, but my friend (who's a man) said that's bullshit LMAO. He says there are lots of men who will fancy you and will not say a damn thing.... an...

Valentine's Day Special!!!!! On this episode, we shared our favourite valentine's day memories and tried to understand what the hype is all about. We also discussed the different phases of a relationship, exclusivity and labels.. how important are they? Finally, we tackled the common dating question "What Are You Looking For" ??? Thanks for listening 😊  ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️&...

We know what girls like, we know what they want!!!! My first ever podcast collaboration.. and it was hilarious from beginning to the end. 4 girls discuss the things guys do that get us head over heels in love with them. From smelling like Lynx deodorants, to driving you home after a date. From being 6'5, to having big noses, paying on dates, men in suits and men in power. We also talked about shop...

Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me... This week's podcast is about the value of sex in a romantic relationship. Can a relationship feel intimate without sex? How much compromise should you make for your partner and how would you approach the conversation around sexual compatitbility? Could you be in a sexless relationship? Thanks for listening 😊   ENJOYYYY and d...

Who knew the Bible was so savage, lol. Sex vs Religion... Is there an even ground? Sex in an African household has been a tabooooo topic for the longest time and we deffo broke the silence on this. We discussed the type of sex education we got as teenagers, men being allowed the liberty and grace to be "promiscuous", but women not given the same leeway, and being held to such unreal standards of h...

This week's podcast will have you rolling on the floor LAUGHING for realllllll. I had so much fun playing "this or that" with Audrey, and telling her how much I love her cheesy jokes. We talked about Love vs Security, Shooting your Shot and Getting the Hint when a guy gives you some intense EYE CONTACT. We also talked about making your intentions clear at the start of a relationship and not being...

Yes!!!! It's AUDREY, formely known as Ghana's Finest herself on this podcast with me. I also have my twin sister, Kenny with me and I'm so gassed for this week's episode. We talked about what it's like dating in our 20s vs dating in our 30s. Are grown men really more mature? Do you get flown out on an all expense paid trip to Dubai? Date nights in Italy? Or are men in their 30s really just as slop...

I had sooo much fun recording this! This podcast is a reaction to a couple of Dating & Relationship advice I found on YouTube. It includes advice on Communicating your standards, Giving 100% in a relationship, and the concept of Independent vs Co-dependence. I rated each statement on a scale of 1-10 and gave my own little input about whether or not I agree with these dating experts. ENJOYYYY a...

On this episode, my two guests and I debated whether or not it is racist to say I DON'T DATE *INSERT RACE*, or if only specific groups of people can get away with always sticking to their race *coughs Asians* :)  We also discussed how white men perceive different types of black women and if there is a preference for specific looks or traits. Lastly, we touched on the "pretty for a black girl"...