Mukundwa

I Said What I Said

Society EN ↓ 138 episodes

I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me! Sign up to Patreon for full episodes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Mukundwa

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13. Parents and the Pursuit of Respect - ft. Lethabo 04.03.2019 50:21

Can we have autonomy AND need our parents financial support? Do parents care about our happiness or our fulfilment of their expectations? WILL OUR PARENTS EVER PUT RESPECK ON OUR NAMES? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12. Sexcetera:(Life Before)Celibacy Ft. Mica 25.02.2019 48:50

The road to celibacy is paved with bad sex and performativity. What kind of experiences contribute to the choice of celibacy, and what kind of sex would end it?‘Sexcetera’ is a series of sex-related episodes. Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisGUEST:https://www.instagram.com/micamontana/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more...

11. #FupaMustFall: on the collective fear of Fatness 18.02.2019 47:28

Is anyone else fed up of being at war with their body? We discuss how people the world over spend their lives feeling fat, fearing fatness or trying to lose weight. We explore the links to childhood trauma around food and bodies, the male gaze and palatability. Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisNames dropped: https://twitter.com/yrfat...

10. Seasons of friendship: lean in or let go? 11.02.2019 44:17

Do we treat friends how they want to be treated or how they treat themselves? Should we intervene when a friends lack of personal boundaries burden the friendship? Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziFollow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privac...

9. Gender Wars: Men Are from Mars, Period! - Ft. Boris 04.02.2019 1:05:28

On dating: splitting bills, gender performativity and labour division. TRIGGER WARNING - gaslightingSend in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziBoris - guestinstagram.com/borisk15Follow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8. Should We Respect Boundaries We Don't Agree with? 28.01.2019 1:01:44

Should we respect boundaries we don't agree with? What happens when someone's boundary offends our sense of self? Send in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisinstagram.com/mukundwa_twitter.com/mukundwa_Nyak (Co Host)instagram.com/nyakweziFollow #podcastiswis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7. Dating while Fat, Black And Picky ft. Retha 21.01.2019 1:21:11

Dating is a minefield. Add some blackness, fatness and pickiness - what do you get? Catch Retha on: https://soundcloud.com/thirdculturekidssquad (her podcast!)https://twitter.com/TCKsquadhttps://twitter.com/Retha101----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Send in your comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions (ALL ANONYMOUSLY READ) via DM or Curi...

6. Who wins in Cancel Culture? Ft. Tloukie 14.01.2019 52:32

What’s the difference between being challenged and tried? Who does cancel culture serve? Is personal freedom a result of cancelling people or calling them in? The illustrious @Tloukie unpacks this for us between cackles! Follow him at www.instagram.com/tloukieNEXT WEEK'S EPISODE IS ABOUT BLESSERS/SUGAR BABIES AND TRANSACTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS - send in your questions, comments and dilemmas (ALL ANON...

5. 2018 Year Review: A Scam or A Success? 07.01.2019 45:13

DEUCES TWENTY EIGHTEENWas it cute or ashy? Or somewhere in the middle...We discuss hard lessons on romance, self acceptance and (the impossibility of) outrunning your purpose Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4. Why did you ghost me?! A postmortem discussion with my Ex 19.12.2018 50:59

An earnest post mortem between exes on ghosting and the inevitability of mimicking our parents' romantic un/availability..................................FOOD FOR THOUGHTWould a debriefing with your ex be healing or hurtful? When is ghosting justified? Is the idea that we mimic our parents in relationships a valid justification or an excuse? How could YOU be a more compassionate partner?.............

3. Is Romance Realistic? Ft. Bobos Void 19.12.2018 51:59

On dating while black, navigating romantic trauma and sustainable romantic structures..................................FOOD FOR THOUGHTHave you identified and worked through your romantic trauma? Is dating while black an extreme sport? Do you believe in romantic longevity? Is it wise or shortsighted to date someone for the honeymoon phase and then dip once things gets complicated?....................

2. Surprise! YOU are the Toxic friend 18.12.2018 29:16

On coming to terms with our own toxicity and getting cancelled by friends .................................FOOD FOR THOUGHTWhat toxicity of your own do you have to come to terms with? Since toxicity is relative, is cancel culture necessary or unrealistic? Should friends be cancelled or repurposed? .................................. What are your thoughts on the above, and what should we discuss ne...

1. Fight Me: does conflict make or break friendships? 10.12.2018 21:49

WELCOME TO EPISODE 1 OF "I SAID WHAT I SAID" ON CONFLICT - does conflict make or breaks friendships? And does your race and religion determine your your relationship to conflict? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.