I Know a Guy Podcast

What do you boast about? Most men would never say it out loud — but we all live from something that tells us who we are. Wisdom. Strength. Success. Being needed. Being respected. In Jeremiah 9, God confronts the false places we build identity and offers a better one: Knowing Him. Today on I Know a Guy, Steve Cummings challenges men where you’ve been boasting — and invites you back to the freedom o...

What does a present-day Pharisee look like—and how do we avoid becoming one? In this episode of I Know a Guy, host Steve Cummings explores how faith quietly shifts from relationship to performance, how identity gets built on rule-keeping instead of sonship, and why Jesus reserved His strongest words for religious people who refused inner transformation. This isn’t about lowering biblical standards...

We don’t usually destroy relationships on purpose—we do it in reaction. In this episode of I Know a Guy, host Steve Cummings introduces a powerful new framework for men who want to slow down, grow in awareness, and respond with wisdom instead of emotion. Learn how Clarity, Conviction, and Confirmation can help you hear the Father’s voice, seek wise counsel, and protect your relationships with your...

We live in a world that rewards productivity, performance, and constant motion—even in our faith. In Luke 10, Martha is busy serving Jesus, while Mary is sitting at His feet. One is doing everything right… and still feels anxious and unseen. The other chooses presence—and Jesus calls it “the better portion.” In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore the tension between doing and being, and how o...

He was a Roman centurion—an outsider with authority, power, and control. But when the thing he loved most was at risk, he didn’t demand Jesus show up. He didn’t ask for proof. He simply trusted the authority of His word. Jesus called it great faith. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore the centurion who believed healing could happen without proximity—and what that kind of trust means for me...

Spiritual striving can look holy—but it still leaves many men exhausted, frustrated, and disconnected. Doing more for God is not the same as living with God. In the final episode of the Whole-Hearted Living series on I Know a Guy, host Steve Cummings reframes spirituality through the lens of abiding rather than performing. He talks about identity, intimacy, and why true spiritual growth flows from...

Men are often surrounded by people yet deeply unknown. We talk about work, sports, and ideas—but avoid vulnerability and truth. In this episode of I Know a Guy, host Steve Cummings explores the social dimension of whole-hearted living. He discusses why isolation feels safer than connection, how performance replaces authenticity, and why growth and healing always happen in the presence of trusted r...

Most men weren’t taught how to feel—they were taught how to stuff. Sadness felt weak, fear felt dangerous, and anger became the only acceptable emotion. In this episode of I Know a Guy, host Steve Cummings addresses the emotional dimension of whole-hearted living. He talks about why emotional suppression fractures identity, how unprocessed emotions leak into our lives, and why emotional awareness...

Men are strong thinkers—but strong thinking without emotional awareness often leads to control, not freedom. Not every thought deserves belief, and not every internal narrative reflects truth. In this episode of I Know a Guy, Steve continues the whole-hearted living series by unpacking the mental dimension of identity. He explores how thoughts shape identity, why many men live trapped in unchallen...

Most men treat their bodies like machines—push harder, sleep less, ignore the pain, and call it discipline. But what if strength isn’t about overriding your body… but stewarding it? In this episode of I Know a Guy, host Steve kicks off a five-day series on whole-hearted living by exploring the physical dimension of identity. He talks about why many men disconnect from their bodies, how that affect...

God didn’t just save you—He sent you. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore StrengthsFinder and DISC and how your natural strengths reveal the unique way the Father works through you. If you’ve ever minimized your gifts, compared yourself to others, or wondered where you fit—this episode will help you step into purpose with confidence and humility. About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years...

The Enneagram isn’t about putting yourself in a box. It’s about discovering where your heart learned to survive. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore how your Enneagram number reveals motivation, fear, and growth—and how Jesus meets you right there. If you’re tired of managing yourself and ready for transformation, this episode will help you see yourself with compassion and truth. Resources...

Some people meet God in the quiet. Some meet Him in the crowd. Some think deeply. Some feel deeply. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore the MBTI—not as a label, but as a tool to understand how the Father designed you to take in the world and give His love back to it. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood—or wondered why others experience God so differently—this episode is for you. Resources me...

What if personality tests weren’t about putting you in a box— but helping you discover the intentional design of a loving Father? In this new I Know a Guy series, we explore MBTI, the Enneagram, StrengthsFinder, and DISC through the lens of sonship—not self-labeling. We’ll talk about: How God wired you Why your strengths matter Where your growth really begins And how self-awareness partners with s...

Men, what if the season you’re trying to escape is actually the one shaping you the most? In part two of my Home Depot story on I Know A Guy, I talk about hidden seasons—the quiet, unseen places where dignity is restored, not lost. I share the difference between humility and humiliation, how the Father speaks louder than the enemy in obscurity, and why faithfulness matters more than visibility. Ab...

I never expected losing my highest-paying job would lead me to Home Depot. After being abruptly let go as a Chief Development Officer, fear set in fast. Bills. Mortgage. Identity. I took a job as a Head Cashier making $13 an hour—and that’s where the Father met me in a way I didn’t expect. In this episode of I Know a Guy, I share how the Father gently dismantled my belief that my worth was tied to...

Why do the same arguments keep repeating? Why do we shut down, lash out, or feel disconnected — even with the people we love most? In Part Two of our shame series on I Know a Guy, we unpack how shame creates emotional cycles in our relationships and why most of us are reacting from protection, not intention. We’ll talk about how to recognize when shame is in the room, how to name it without blamin...

Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by shame… guilt… or frustration with life and others? You’re not alone. In a world rocked by fear, anxiety, and isolation, many of us are playing the shame-blame game — pointing fingers, losing sight of the real enemy, and losing our identity in the process. But there’s hope. Today on I Know a Guy, we talk about why shame has such power — and how, through the t...

Today on I Know a Guy, we are diving into something we all struggle with: anxiety, fear, and the noise of life. For years, I prayed out of obligation — saying the right words, trying to check a box. But real peace came when I learned to pause. That’s right — simple, intentional pauses that help you surrender your thoughts, fears, and worries to Jesus. If life feels chaotic or your heart feels unse...

Conflict. Misunderstanding. Distance from the people we love most. We all know what fractured relationships feel like — and we all want the pain to stop. But what if the antidote isn’t logic, proof or being right? On this episode of I Know a Guy, we’re exploring a powerful truth: that pausing, choosing love, and valuing relationship over being right can transform the way we connect with others. It...

What happens when the life you built—your faith, your reputation, your “calling”—comes crashing down? In this special I Know a Guy redemptive stories episode, host Steve Cummings sits down with Drew Powell, a pastor’s kid who grew up in church, led worship, and worked in what he calls “the family business.” From the outside, it looked solid. God-centered. Successful. But underneath, Drew was losin...

Are you living life at 100mph—so fast you miss the people and moments that matter? Today on I Know a Guy, we’ll uncover a different rhythm: one where your heart stops chasing and starts being known. We live in a culture of speed, comparison, and constant motion—but deep connection happens at a slower pace. What would happen if you walked at God’s speed? Learn practical ways to slow down, deepen re...

Jesus boiled life down to two things: Love God. Love others as you love yourself. But what does it really mean to love yourself — and how does that empower you to love others well? Today on I Know a Guy, we dive into the heart of that command. You’ll hear how your identity as a Beloved Son of the King isn’t just theology — it’s the foundation for real, simple, everyday love. We explore grace, acce...

Today on I Know a Guy, we dive into a simple yet profound invitation: Bask. In a culture that rewards doing, we often miss the deeper rhythm God invites us into — being with Him. We will unpack how to rest in the warmth of God’s love, lean into presence over performance, and live from identity rather than ambition. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety or just tired of the grind, this episode enc...

True humility doesn’t come from insecurity—it comes from sonship. In this episode of I Know a Guy, we explore what real humility actually looks like: confidence without arrogance, surrender without shrinking, and service rooted in being deeply loved by the Father. If you’re tired of striving or hiding, this conversation will help you stand secure. About Steve Cummings: Experience: 42 years of ment...