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We are not in a war against sexuality (which is good); we are in a war against evil. Come learn 7 strategies for spiritual warfare based on the Temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4:1-11... and hear my special spiritual warfare song! Download a free one-page summary of this episode here: husbandmaterial.com/43 NOTE: In the middle of this presentation I started weeping.  Don't be alarmed! It's...

In a marriage devastated by porn, when and how should sex come back into the picture? In part two of this two-part series, Adam King and Karissa King explain how to slowly but surely restore sexual intimacy to be better than it ever was before. Adam and Karissa ( @dearyoungmarriedcouple ) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately...

In a marriage devastated by porn, how do you rebuild trust? In part one of this two part series, Adam King and Karissa King share the 5 steps every couple must take to rebuild trust (for both spouses). Download the free PDF guide here: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken Adam and Karissa ( @dearyoungmarriedcouple ) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping...

We believe practicing verbal affirmation is absolutely essential to outgrowing porn. In this episode, Drew and Stephen will tell you why, and share practical strategies for how (not) to do it. Qualities Of Effective Affirmation:  specific and precise (not generic or vague) evidence-based (clearly not made up) focused on the person (not the performance) You're invited to HMA In A Day on Saturd...

How does porn relate to your father? If you have been under-fathered, what does it look like to be re-fathered? And how can we become fathers who reverse the curse of sexual sin and shame? Let this conversation with Chris Bruno open your eyes! Chris Bruno is the Founder and CEO of Restoration Project , a ministry restoring the hearts of men. He is also the leader of Restoration Counseling and a ma...

Let's change our brains. How can we take back control of our thoughts and transform our core beliefs? My fellow Canadian friend Sathiya Sam is here to show us how. Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, an online recovery program that helps Christian men overcome porn. Connect with Sathiya  @sathiyamesam and check out his program at getadeepclean.com You're invited to HMA In A Day on...

What are triggers? How do triggers work? And most importantly, how can we take back control when we get triggered? This episode will answer each of these questions clearly and concisely...and at the end, I'll explain my own B.O.A. Technique for effective regulation. Download the free one-page summary: Nine Tips About Triggers You're invited to HMA In A Day on Saturday, July 11! This free...

Hear Dr. Christopher Yuan's amazing story of coming to Christ, surrendering same-sex attraction, and embracing the gift of singleness. Dr. Christopher Yuan has taught at Moody Bible Institute for over ten years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. In this episode, we dive into his newest book: Holy Sexuality and the Gospel . Dr. Yuan is the author of t...

Outgrowing porn can be especially difficult for pastors and ministry leaders. Hear how Pastor Bernie Anderson got found out, but found a way out...and how God found a way in! Bernie will be a leader at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat . Sign up now to join his small group! Buy Bernie's book here (this is a paid link): Breaking The Silence: A Pastor Goes Public About His Battle Wi...

What should I do with my sexual desires—my attractions, urges, impulses, cravings, fantasies, aches, longings, and yearnings? I've been on a quest to answer this question for 15 years and finally found an answer worth sharing... Download the worksheet for this episode with 35 desires and 4 directions for each one: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/35-desires-and-4-directions P.S. Don't for...

We all have blind spots. But what are they? If we knew, they wouldn't be blind spots! Listen to a lively conversation between 3 leaders as we talk about the blind spots we commonly see in ourselves and the men we coach. Eddie, Drew, and Stephen will all be leaders at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat on "Healing The Inner Child" on the weekend of February 26-28! Get the...

Let's redefine purity: it's a relationship, not an accomplishment...it's about presence, not performance...and according to Jasper Hall, it comes from Jesus. Jasper Hall is the President of pureHOPE , a ministry equipping men and women to pursue purity through relationship with Jesus. Jasper brings a sense of calm and assurance to people who feel anxiety about navigating a sexualize...

Do you ever feel trapped? Let me give you 5 empowering choices when it feels like porn is the only option...and along the way, I'll tell a story I've never shared in public before. This episode comes with a free PDF worksheet . You're invited to HMA In A Day on Saturday, July 11! This free online workshop will go through the entire Husband Material Academy program in a single day. S...

Many of us grew up without a clue about what it means to be a sexually healthy man. That's why I'm so grateful for Andrew Bauman and his new book, "The Sexually Healthy Man." Join us for a rugged conversation about true masculine sexuality. Andrew J. Bauman and his wife Christy run the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, where they "provide high-quali...

The global anti-porn movement is gaining momentum. In this episode, you'll hear about it directly from Clay Olsen, co-founder of Fight The New Drug. Fight The New Drug (FTND) is a youth movement dedicated to raising awareness of the harmful effects of pornography and other forms of sexual exploitation. Learn more at fightthenewdrug.org . Here are 2 amazing resources by Fight The New Drug ever...

Learn the two styles of relating you need to outgrow in order to enjoy the freedom of life as an adult. Interested in outgrowing porn? Learn more at outgrowporn.com . You're invited to HMA In A Day on Saturday, July 11! This free online workshop will go through the entire Husband Material Academy program in a single day. Sign up now at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Hu...

Within each of us, there are three bears in three chairs. Listen to Marnie Ferree explain why, and you'll understand yourself in a whole new way. Marnie C. Ferree is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Nashville, Tennessee, where she directs Bethesda Workshops, which provides Christian-based treatment for sex addicts, their partners, couples, and teens affected by sexual addiction. Le...

It's the most triggering time of the year! Have yourself a healthy little Christmas with tips from Greg Oliver as shares the 4 challenges we all face at Christmastime, the CPR method for staying healthy, and how to redeem the hand you use to masturbate. Greg Oliver struggled for over 25 years with an addiction to sex & porn. Since 2009 he has been on a journey of healing and recovery. Gre...

Shame sucks. In this episode, Stephen Thomas shares a childhood story of humiliation, his struggle with porn and same-sex attraction, and how he found lasting freedom through radical vulnerability.  Stephen is a husband and father who has had sobriety from porn for over 12 years. He has led multiple Pure Desire groups and is now joining Husband Material as a private small group leader. Stephen is...

How does the gospel speak into sexual brokenness? This episode is all about who Jesus is and who we are as sexual beings in Christ. Free resource: check out my list of Identity in Christ statements with Scripture references included at https://www.husbandmaterial.com/37 Spoiler Alert: In the middle of this episode, there is a rap. Bet you didn't see that coming! In case you're wondering,...

What's the difference between lust and love? Hear from Josh Glaser as he shares his story of healing and we talk about what it means to not just avoid lust, but grow in Christ-like love. Josh Glaser is the Executive Director of Regeneration, a Christ-centered ministry that helps men, women, and families to learn and live God’s good, holy, and beautiful design for sexuality. Check out Josh&apo...

If lust is your lullaby, this episode is for you. Learn the unique reasons why porn serves as a sleep aid and how to find a better solution.  You're invited to HMA In A Day on Saturday, July 11! This free online workshop will go through the entire Husband Material Academy program in a single day. Sign up now at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey......

People say Matt and Laurie's marriage is impossible. Laurie's same-sex attraction and Matt's addiction to pornography almost led them to divorce. But this impossible marriage—and all marriages—are made possible by God. Laurie Krieg is a writer, speaker, and ministry leader whose mission is to teach the church how to approach sexuality with the gospel. Matt Krieg is a licensed profes...

Behind the scenes of sexual addiction, the inner child is running the show. Porn is his pacifier and lust is his lullaby. So who is this kid, and how can we help him heal? Join me and Eddie Capparucci as we discuss the 9 types of inner child...and why the road to recovery runs through your childhood. Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a Christian therapist who specializes in the treatment of sexual and porno...

What does it mean to "be a man"? What is true masculinity? Dr. Doug Carpenter cuts through the clutter and defines masculinity in a way that empowers men to be who we really are. Dr. Doug Carpenter is a clinical psychologist and the co-owner of Insight Counseling Services in Rochester, Michigan. He's the author of "Childhood Trauma and the Non-Alpha Male." Buy Doug's...