Husband in Law

We have some big announcements in this episode and we are excited about all of them. Plus we share a few of the things you (our listeners) said you would never do but are currently doing. It spurs quite the conversation... Want to learn gay terms without having to do an awkward google search? Check out the Loving BOLDly Coloring Book. Pride month is right around the corner and there is no better w...

Doing things because someone told us that is what we should do does not motivate us to do what is best for us. Understanding the why behind our decisions is where true joy comes from in life. Today we continue our conversation about doing things we said we would never do... And this week Steve is opening up about some of his biggest ones... Need something to look forward to this summer that is JUS...

You know those things you said you would NEVER do and sometimes even judged others for doing but you do them now?! Yeah, we have a few of those too. We will share some of ours, have a personal coaching session with Steve, and discuss why it is important to recognize when and why we are judging others... Share with us something YOU said you would never do but very much do now. We would love to hear...

What is something you have always wanted to wear but felt it wasn't socially acceptable? What is your dream career and what is holding you back from going for it? What about your life isn't in alignment with who YOU really want to be? With who you FEEL CALLED to be? Today we are diving into some of these questions for ourselves and what we have done to be more "Us". We hope it will...

I cried as I wrote out the title of this episode. Today we are answering two questions that you all sent in and I will admit, it was a little heavy. To those who are in the thick of it, please know we feel for you. We are here for you. We know this is hard and we are sending you love in all the ways we can. Also, if you have a question, comment, or insight for us please send it over! We will be an...

Who wants more JOY?! I LOVE Joy! Here are some questions we are going to dive into this week: How do you find joy in your life? What are ways you used to find joy but don't any more? What new things have you tried that bring you joy that you didn't think would bring you joy? How do the people in your life impact your joy? What are things you want more of in your life?! (Listen as Steve get...

Today's guest and I have a couple things in common. One being that we love finding joy where we can in life, even when going through hard things. One thing that is different about us is that Lisa Valentine Clark is witty and funny. I have occasional moments of being funny but I am definitely not witty. Lisa is so incredibly witty and funny her life's work centers around this. My friend, if...

You may know my ex-husband (Steve) has worked for my husband (Matt) for the last year and a half... 😅 But that recently ended... 👊🏻Were punches thrown?😭Were feelings hurt? 🤬Were profanities used? You are about to find out. #coparents #cohosts #coworkers #cohusbands #codads #theydoitall Pick up the latest version of the BOLDology Journal today! There are just a few left so don't wait to ge...

Have you ever struggled with your birthday? Been disappointed? Felt overlooked? Under appreciated?  Then this episode is for you. This is your last chance! It will not be back until fall. Tonight is the FREE workshop "Move from Numbing to Healing After a Spouse Comes Out WITHOUT Giving up the things YOU LOVE About Your Relationship."  You can claim your seat at theboldlogic.com/freeworksho...

Do you think of your co-parent as a comparde? A companion? These are the words that the guys used to describe us on this week's episode of the pod and now I am seriously considering changing the name of our podcast and our Instagram. What do you think? BUT DO NOT BE FOOLED by the title of this episode! This week we talking pronouns, queer terminology, co-parenting, and then back to our theme t...

This week we have a special guest for you! And she is going to introduce herself right here, right now. Hey there! I’m Kim and I’m a work-from-home mom, stepmom, and wife. My husband Jack and I live in Central Florida with our three kids. I have my Masters degree in Behavior Analysis and have been a board-certified behavior analyst for over 15 years. About 2 years ago, I started writing and sharin...

"Mawwiage. Mawwiage is what bwings us togeder today. Mawwiage, that bwessed awwangement, that dweam wifin a dream…" Yes our bishop that married us used this quote to start our marriage but that wasn't the only surprising thing about the beginning of Matt's and mine marriage. It was a rough ride from for the first few years. And you know what the crazy thing is? The only time Matt a...

Ever wonder what it is like to give your "sample" on the side of the road under extreme pressure? Yeah, Steve doesn't either. Things really went off the rails during this episode. Somehow we started talking about cars and things just went downhill from there. Does downhill refer to things going well or going bad? Maybe the episode went uphill? I don't know, you will have to decide...

This week our Dear Listener Episode is for everyone and there is homework... Let's talk more about self-care, why it really isn't selfish, and what that actually means for you. Did you know there are at least 6 types of self-care?! We are going to dive into what they are and how you can utilize them in your life. What area are you lacking? Where could you dive into some more self-care? Lin...

Are you ready to heal from betrayal trauma? This week's guest can help you do just that! Ashlynn Mitchell runs multiple of her own businesses while momming 2 tween girls as a single mom. She co-hosted the top 10 podcast, The Betrayed, The Addicted & The Expert & now shares on her new podcast, This Is Ashlynn. She coaches women to thrive after betrayal through a group setting & an o...

This episode was one we needed and we hope that it will be a good reminder for you too. We needed the reminder that taking time for ourselves isn't selfish. Most of the time it is the exact opposite. By putting time into ourselves we are healing ourselves. Which allows us to, in turn, be more intentional about our time with others. This will all make more sense once you start listening. I want...

Today we share a story NOT WORTH TELLING. 😅 What can we say, not everything can be a homerun. 🤷‍♀️ Let us know what you think of this week's episode. If you haven't yet, please leave us a rating, review, and share with a friend that might enjoy the podcast! This is the cheapest and easiest way you can support us on this journey AND help others who might be looking for our message. Thanks...

Have you ever had a moment when you see how things have been and are working for your good? We share a story about one of those moments to start this week's episode off on the right foot. Then we dive into the Dear Listener topic of the week. While we are not experts we have learned a thing or two about this week's topic. 😅 As always, we encourage you to think about how to make your relat...

For the first time ever we have invited some of our listeners to be on the show. Today I am interviewing two women who have some things in common but have very different stories. They are (or were) both members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. They both had spouses who came out after they were married. AND they are both named Kylee! SAY WHAT?! But there are some major difference...

This week’s episode starts off with one of my greatest co-parenting fears coming to fruition and it was all Steve’s doing. But, I am happy to report it ended up working out pretty great and I am 100 percent at peace with it. Do you carry some fears about the unknown of what co-parenting/divorce can bring? Yeah, we do too and that’s okay.   We also give more details into another story that we graze...

It is that time of year...  When Steve and Matt are too busy to record and I want to tell you all the things to prepare you for this upcoming year.  While everyone is telling you to live your "best" life and showing you how to do life "better".  I want to share a secret with you... You don't need a better life and you might already be living your best life.  Listen in to today’...

Today we talk about all the things. We start off with some real uncomfortable conversations and move on to the day-to-day of what is going on now.   But mostly we talk about how it is to bring your new boyfriend to meet your ex's family.  😅 Co-parenting can lead to come pretty interesting situations you never thought you would be put into.  But here we are embracing them all and making the mo...

Dear Listener- For years Steve was convinced that if Penny left the church I would be a mess and hold it over her head. And while I see how the church has helped ME live the life I want to live, I see clearly how my path is NOT forever one, my daughter included. In this week's Dear Listener Episode we dive into how we co-parent with different beliefs and value systems in place. Steve, Matt and...

I had a bad experience... We have heard this more times than we would like to admit when it comes to church leadership, teachers, or just other people in the congregation. When it comes down to it, these are relationships that we are ALL trying to work through. Let’s learn from our experiences and then take action so we can experience growth. We are all human and are going to make mistakes along t...

Have you ever had a church leader give you counsel that didn't resonate or feel right for you? Yeah, we have too. Today we are sharing some of the experiences we have had both as a leader in the church as well as our interactions with church leadership. We will be sharing our best, worst, and funniest moments. As you can tell from the title some of them have been pretty interesting. If you wan...