Humanly IS Possible

Many people come to therapy because they know something is wrong. Devorah's story was different. She was successful, capable, independent, and by all appearances doing well. She thought of herself as the strong one — the person who didn't need anyone. Therapy wasn't something she felt she needed. If anything, she was simply curious about it. After the birth of her second child, she attended therap...

There's a kind of attachment pattern that feels confusing, overwhelming… and often deeply shameful. In this conversation, Leah shares her experience of growing up highly independent — while also finding herself becoming intensely attached to one person at a time. That pattern followed her into relationships, and eventually into therapy… where things became much more complicated. We talk about: wha...

Episode Show Notes In this episode of The H.I.P. Podcast, Shaya sits down with Tzipora Schiffer, LCSW, for a deeply honest conversation about attachment trauma, therapy, and what happens when the place meant to heal becomes confusing, painful, or even shaming. Tzipora shares her personal journey — from growing up feeling "fine on the outside but profoundly different on the inside," to years of sea...

Have you ever sat in a therapist's office and felt younger than your age, confused by your own reactions, or deeply ashamed of how much you need? For those with attachment trauma, therapy itself can stir up the very wounds it's meant to heal. In this raw and insightful conversation, we give voice to what often goes unspoken inside the therapy room. In this second episode of the HIP Podcast, host S...

Have you ever sat in a therapist's office and felt like a child, been told you're "too much," or feared your own dependency? When you carry attachment trauma, the therapeutic relationship itself can become the ground where your oldest wounds are painfully and powerfully re-lived. In this first episode of the HIP Podcast, host Shaya Hecht is joined by Hadas, a trauma and somatic coach with deep liv...

The HIP Podcast explores raw, honest conversations about attachment trauma, dependency, and healing. We center real experiences—clients and therapists alike—to understand what healing actually requires. Join us to explore what becomes possible when connection comes first.