How We're Doing It

Friends of the How Were Doing It podcast have been reaching out to the Musas because it has been quite some time since the Musas released a new episode. Because of the genuine concern from friends of the podcast, the Musas decided to record a quick life update as to what has been going on since the last released episode. Listen to find out the chisme. Let the Musas know if you have a question or s...

Planning for college? In this episode of  How We're Doing It , first-gen parents Tijani and Yazmin break down 529 plans, explaining tax benefits, savings options, and strategies for maximizing education funds. Get clear, practical advice to secure your child’s future! Previous Question: Can U.S territories set up a 529 Plan? Answer: Yes. All 50 States and U.S territories are eligible. Chapter (00:...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin are joined by Yazmin's sister, Yeni, an army sergeant, to explore the generational differences between Millennials and Gen Z. Together, they dive into how technology shapes the younger generation’s approach to convenience, responsibility, and family dynamics, especially in immigrant households. They share personal stories about supporting their parents, balancing...

In this powerful episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the importance of therapy and mental health, inviting Yazmin's sister, Sergeant Yeni Dzib, to share her courageous journey. From the challenges of military life to personal struggles, Dzib opens up about her experiences with therapy, the obstacles she faced, and the support she received that helped her heal. This episode discusses the stigmas sur...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their candid second trimester updates, diving into the emotional and physical changes experienced during this unique phase of pregnancy. Whether you're an expecting parent or simply curious about the ups and downs of pregnancy, this episode provides an authentic and relatable perspective on navigating the second trimester. Join Tijani and Yazmin as they pre...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin sit down with a special guest, Yazmin's sister, Yeni, to discuss her journey towards financial freedom. Yeni, a single mom and army sergeant, shares her candid experiences of living a carefree financial life, accumulating debt, and the pivotal moment that made her decide to take control of her finances. Whether you're struggling with debt, looking for way...

Whether you're considering premarital counseling, are newly married, or simply curious about how to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Yazmin and Tijani's honest and heartfelt discussion underscores the benefits of investing in your relationship early on to build a solid foundation for the future. You May Also Like Essential Questions...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin invite listeners into their home for an in-depth "money date," a candid conversation about their finances. They break down their budgeting process, sharing insights on how they manage their income, spending, and financial goals. From the importance of having money conversations within relationships to practical tips on budgeting apps and tracking expens...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin explore the profound topic of trusting in God's plan, even when things don't go as expected. They share personal stories of how they prayed for specific outcomes and faced unexpected challenges, only to realize later that God's plan was indeed the best plan for them. From Tijani's heartbreaking experience with a scholarship rejection to Yazmin&#39...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin dive into the lesser-known and unexpected symptoms of pregnancy. From the discomfort of carpal tunnel syndrome to the surprising issue of excess saliva, they share personal experiences and practical advice for managing these unexpected challenges. Yazmin opens up about her own struggles with these symptoms, providing valuable insights and tips for other expectant...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin went into the fascinating world of old wives' tales, particularly those predicting the gender of an unborn baby. They share their personal experiences and cultural insights, discussing various symptoms and methods said to indicate whether you're having a boy or a girl. From cravings and heartburn to morning sickness and the shape of the baby bump, they ex...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the perplexing world of toddler behavior, especially when a new sibling is on the way. They explore whether their daughter's sudden tantrums and aggressive outbursts are a result of her age or a reaction to Yazmin's pregnancy. Sharing personal anecdotes and practical strategies, they discuss the challenges of navigating toddlerhood while expecting...

Tijani and Yazmin traveled back in time to reveal essential tips and survival etiquettes for first-generation kids navigating through different stages of life. From high school challenges like prom and graduation to college life and beyond, they share invaluable advice to help first-gen students and adults thrive. They discuss the critical role of school counselors, the importance of attending col...

In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips on traveling with a baby. From planning the first flight to dealing with unexpected challenges, they cover everything you need to know to make your journey smoother. Whether it's packing essentials, understanding airline policies, or managing sleep routines, this episode is packed with valuable insights for...

Tijani and Yazmin discusses the challenges and experiences of the first trimester of their second pregnancy. They discuss the emotional and physical hurdles, including persistent nausea, unexpected bleeding, and the importance of having a support system. They also touch on the differences between their first and current pregnancy, sharing personal anecdotes and practical advice. From the significa...

In this engaging episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin dive into the crucial topic of setting boundaries with family. They share personal anecdotes, including a memorable instance where they had to refuse a request to buy alcohol due to their religious beliefs. With their special guest, Yeni, they explore the importance of communication and mutual respect in maintaining he...

Tijani and Yazmin introduce their first product: an ebook designed to help couples navigate essential conversations. They discuss the importance of premarital counseling and share their journey of compiling questions that have strengthened their relationship over five years of marriage. These questions cover various topics, including family, personal values, sex, spirituality, and finances, aiming...

In this heartfelt episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss how having children has transformed their marriage. They share candid experiences of navigating parenthood's challenges, including stress, exhaustion, and sleep deprivation, and emphasize the importance of mutual support and communication. Tune in for an authentic conversation about maintaining intimacy, m...

In this episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin delve into the pros and cons of joint versus separate bank accounts. They share their journey, discussing how different financial strategies impact relationships, from fostering transparency to maintaining autonomy. Tune in for valuable insights and practical advice on managing finances as a couple. Key Takeaways: Benefits and...

In this insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin reflect on their first year of homeownership as first-generation immigrants, sharing lessons learned from maintaining a new build home to navigating homeowners insurance and HOA regulations. They offer practical advice on balancing indoor and outdoor tasks, utilizing smart appliances, managing home-related expenses,...

Tijani and Yazmin dive into the emotional journey of navigating genuine care for their daughter, from friends and family. They discuss setting boundaries, showing empathy, and teaching independence while highlighting the importance of genuine connections. And how they avoid forcing their child on unloving friends and family members. Learn how simple acts like a text or FaceTime call can impact rel...

In this heartfelt and joyous episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin share the exciting news that they are expecting their second child! The Musas take us through the emotional journey of discovering their pregnancy, from the early symptoms to the creative way Yazmin revealed the news to Tijani. They also discuss the challenges and differences between this pregnancy and thei...

In this eye-opening episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss the significant money lessons they've learned through personal experiences and the challenges they've faced as first-generation immigrants. From navigating hefty medical bills to the pitfalls of co-signing loans, the Musas share candid stories and practical advice on managing finances while supportin...

Are you ready to tackle the potty training challenge? Join Tijani and Yazmin in this relatable and insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It' as they share their experience transitioning their two-year-old daughter from diapers to potty independence. Discover the signs that your toddler might be ready, the importance of mindset, and why kids sense fear in the potty training process. Th...

Embarking on the journey of parenthood? Dive into today’s episode of ‘How We’re Doing It’ where hosts Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips for packing the essential hospital bag. From choosing the right onesie size for your newborn to ensuring mom and dad have everything they need, this episode is packed with advice to prepare you for the big day. Whether it's...