How We're Doing It

Tijani shares his harrowing journey from Sierra Leone to the United States, highlighting survival, resilience, and triumph. Despite facing homelessness and financial struggles, Tijani overcame obstacles with determination and mentorship, achieving academic and financial success. His story inspires gratitude and celebrates life's victories, showcasing the human spirit's capacity to endure....

In a candid conversation, Yazmin recounts her childhood in Veracruz, Mexico, her family's humble beginnings, and the poignant moment of crossing the border to reunite with her father in pursuit of the American Dream. She shares the challenges of assimilating into a new culture, the struggle with language barriers, and the eventual embrace of her Mexican heritage. Yazmin's journey is a test...

Discover the importance of life insurance with Tijani and Yazmin Musa as they explore this critical safety net for families. In this episode, they discuss the cultural taboos, financial implications, and the peace of mind that comes with being insured. Their conversation is a mix of valuable information, personal experiences, and a guide for first-generation immigrants on how to navigate life insu...

In this engaging episode, we shared tips on how you can create your own family's core values. We do so by offering insights into navigating life as first-generation college graduates and parents. We discussed the importance of service and community engagement, the role of faith in our daily lives, and the transformative power of education. Listen in to gain valuable parenting tips and be inspi...

In this enlightening episode of How We're Doing It, hosts Tijani and Yazmin got into the ever-changing dynamics of our relationships throughout life. They explored a series of thought-provoking data points that reveal how the time we spend with family, friends, coworkers, partners, children, and even ourselves evolves as we age. From the peak of childhood friendships to the steady companionshi...

In this heartfelt and empowering episode of How We're Doing It, Tijani and Yazmin Musa share their intimate journey through the challenges and triumphs of exclusive pumping. Yazmin opens up about her unexpected path to becoming the "thick, mean milk making machine," a title she wore with pride as she navigated the complexities of breastfeeding with flat nipples. The couple discusses...

In this engaging episode of How We're Doing It, hosts Tijani and Yazmin extend a warm thank you to their listeners for the incredible support since the show's inception in August of 2023. They discuss the importance of audience interaction and how it fuels their passion for podcasting. The duo outlines various ways fans can connect and contribute to the show's growth, from simple actio...

In this candid episode, we tackle the pervasive and often damaging "bounce back culture" that pressures new moms to rapidly return to their pre-pregnancy bodies. Tijani and Yazmin share personal anecdotes and the emotional toll such expectations can have. They dissect the double standards between new fathers and mothers, with society celebrating the 'dad bod' while scrutinizing m...

In this informative episode, we explored into essential breastfeeding tips and techniques. Yazmin starts by dispelling the myth that breast size affects milk production, emphasizing that successful breastfeeding is more about technique and commitment. She highlights the importance of skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth to initiate breastfeeding and explains the production of colostrum in...

In this episode, we explore Yazmin's emotional labor and delivery journey, navigating the challenges of Cholestasis of Pregnancy and the decision for a C-section. Yazmin shares her unexpected experiences and emphasizes the need for support and validation in the journey of becoming a new parent. She offers valuable advice for expecting mothers, advocating for self-care and open communication ab...

In this engaging episode, we delve into the journey of Tijani and Yazmin as a married couple with a two-year-old daughter, exploring their growth together. Starting with their college days, where Yazmin found Tijani loud and obnoxious, attributing it to his extroverted nature, while Tijani believes Yazmin's introverted nature colored her perception. Despite this, they ended up married, showcas...

In this episode, we delve into a thought-provoking discussion: "Are men intimidated by successful women?" We explore how cultural norms and upbringing contribute to this dynamic, as men may feel challenged by women who excel. Rather than viewing successful women as competition, we advocate for collaboration and mutual respect. We encourage men to shift their mindset and embrace successfu...

In this episode, we delve into the art of harmonious cohabitation with your in-laws. Our decision to live with them stemmed from a desire to save money during Tijani's schooling. Key tips include setting clear boundaries, effective communication, timely rent payments, mutual respect, conflict avoidance, appropriate humor, understanding personalities, shared household responsibilities, conflict res...

In this episode of the How We're Doing It podcast, we dive into effective parenting strategies for the digital age as a First-Generation Immigrant parents. We explore the importance of experiential learning in parenting and how it shapes our understanding of parenthood. From adapting to your child's needs to managing screen time, we discuss practical tips for spending quality time together as a fa...

Embark on our latest episode as we delve into the daunting challenges of relocating from one state to another. From navigating the logistics of renting moving trucks to deciding on shipping belongings or opting for a road trip, we cover the spectrum. Tune in for insights on managing moving expenses, including renting trucks and associated costs. We share personal experiences of moving with family...

In this captivating episode of the How We're Doing It podcast, we openly share our personal pregnancy journey. Delving into the concerns that often occupy the minds of first-time parents, we touch upon pivotal moments, from the initial nerve-wracking appointments at 8 or 9 weeks to verify the pregnancy to genetic testing, the 20-week anatomy scan, and navigating the probabilities of miscarriage. W...

Get ready for the newest addition to your family with our latest episode! We're sharing essential tips on bringing a newborn home, covering everything from pediatric visits and lactation consultants to baby formula and crib safety. Tune in for our take on creating a cozy and safe environment for your little one. 🍼👶 #NewbornTips #Parenting101 #BabySafety #FamilyLife Find us on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ and...

Embarking on the journey to forever? Listen to our latest episode where we dive deep into the crucial topics to discuss with your potential fiancé – from pre-marital counseling to finances, kids, generational traumas, and beyond! Get ready for a thoughtful exploration that sets the foundation for a strong and lasting union. #LoveTalks #EngagementJourney #RelationshipGoals #PodcastLife Find us on ⁠...

Join us on “How We’re Doing It” Podcast as we dive into our latest story, "Living Consumer Debt-Free” Discover easy strategies for financial freedom. Budgeting tips Define large purchases Eliminating unnecessary expenses Delay instant gratification Limit buyer's remorse Savor moments with loved ones and indulge in your passions. #PodcastUpdate #DebtFreeJourney #LivingDebtFree #Budget #LifeonaBudge...

Join us on the "How We're Doing It" Podcast as we explore valuable tips on supporting friends entering parenthood! Learn practical ways to lend emotional support, provide assistance with errands, offer babysitting help, thoughtful gifts, and be a compassionate listener. Tune in for insightful guidance on being an amazing support system to your friends on their parenting journey! #Par...

Join us on the How We're Doing It podcast as we delve into the profound journey of parenthood, conceiving! Discover insightful tips and the essential 'Do's for first-time parents aiming to conceive. Tune in to explore our personal experiences and gain valuable insights into the path of conception. #ParenthoodJourney #ConceptionTips #FirstTimeParents #TryingToConceive #ParenthoodExperiences" Find u...

Join us on the How We're Doing It Podcast as we share our empowering journey towards financial freedom! Discover our strategies, including Dave Ramsey's Baby Steps, that helped us become debt-free and build a solid financial foundation. From creating an emergency fund to paying off debts and investing wisely, we unveil our path to financial stability. #FinancialFreedom #DebtFreeJourney #DaveRamsey...

Welcome to "How We're Doing It" Podcast! Meet our hosts from Veracruz, Mexico, and Sierra Leone, West Africa. Join us in our debut episode as we share our proud, multi-ethnic, and inclusive journey, celebrating diversity and cultural richness. #FamilyPodcast #ImmigrantStory #CulturalDiversity Also mentioned in this episode: The Early Identification Program (EIP) George Mason University Find us on ...

Join us on the "How We're Doing It" Podcast as we delve into our cross-country move from Virginia to Dallas, Texas! Discover essential tips and steps to ease your decision-making process for a successful relocation. From researching your new area to committing to the move, we've got you covered. Tune in before your leap of faith!