How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want. Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it. We also dive into: How to find and pursue the right woman for you How to...

We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women. Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it till you make it' is real, and she’ll show you how.)...

In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible. Whether you've been with your partner for years or you...

In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically. She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communic...

Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relat...

Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we’re joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction. Plus, we break down the transition from working together to d...

Confidence isn’t just about what you say - it’s about how you say it. This week, we're joined by speaking empowerment coach Linda Ugelow, who reveals the subtle yet powerful ways you can show confidence to women through your voice, tonality, and presence while eliminating anxiety. Learn how to make women lean in, listen, and think, Wow, that guy is confident—without trying too hard. We break down...

This week's episode with Dave Stultz from LimitlessBrave.com goes DEEP into what steps to take to EXPAND your world so you can meet more women. We also talk about HOW to meet them as well as masculinity - what's the perfect balance of it, how do you express it and why do women love it so much? >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kr...

Show Update! We will now be releasing episodes every Tuesdays! In this throwback episode, we have dating coach and matchmaker Laurel House host of Famously Single. We talk about pre-qualifying, what does it mean, how do you do it and what questions to ask so you don't waste your time and money on the wrong girls. >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, a...

Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men.  So how do you navigate these muddy waters?  Our guest Heidi who works in the finance industry is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world.  She'll tell you what wo...

In this throwback episode, we have actress Catherine Urbanek with us to discuss how to handle heartbreak and rejection as Kristen got her heart a bit broken when reentering the world of dating after ending an 8 year relationship years ago. We all go through it at one point or another, so knowing that it's normal but moving forward and showing yourself grace and self love is the best way to grow so...

Figuring women out can be so hard, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE because you always have us. But, today you ALSO have sought-after dating coach for women, Kelsey Wonderlin on to give us EVEN MORE insights into women: what they say they want versus what they really want, how to be yourself AND the guy they want and on and on and on. This show covers it all! >>>To become the most witty, charming, attrac...

This week, coach and fitness trainer, Martel Metellus shares with us his journey of becoming epically fit and seeing the behavior of women around him change in the process. And, no, it's not just because women drool over muscles, it's because they drool over someone who commands and earns respect. Yes, looking good plays a part, but in this episode you'll see how it's ultimately competence and con...

What is the best time and best way to ask a woman out so that she is guaranteed to say YES??? Adam Gilad joins us to tell us how & when to ask a woman out and how to do it boldly. We also have sex therapist Aimee in studio and together we all discuss: 1. The #1 biggest mistake men make with women that has them losing out on countless opportunities with women 2. Tip and trick for how to quickly get...

Today we're throwing back to an episode with dating coach, Bobby Rio, whose speciality is turning "nice guys" into desirable guys. He shoots you straight with the top 5 MOST ATTRACTIVE traits you NEED to have as a man and how to get them. >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/...

This week we talk all about dating different aged women with our guest, licensed couples therapist and host of the podcast Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife, Colette Fehr. We dive deep into HOW to date younger women, IF you should date younger women, what age might be right for you and how to win her over. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kriste...

This week we talk about the after effects of COVID still vibrating through culture in the the form of isolation and how it's hurting you and your dating life. We talk about how to get more social and meet more people so we can get back to the healthy way of living life - with people. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandc...

This week, we have a show packed with information that will help you understand your attachment style and if it's unhealthy so you can learn to change it so you can start attract healthier partners. The Attachment Expert, Adam Lane Smith has so much incredible knowledge and wisdom to impart on why we find ourselves dating people who aren't right for us as well as why presenting yourself with stren...

In this throwback episode, we have a listener join us who has a TON of experience with online dating. He shares with us the ups and the downs and the highs and the lows so you can avoid the mistakes he's made and get closer to dating online like a pro. his episode is brought to you by Better Help. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a FREE discovery call with Kristen here: https://...

This week we have Professor Sabrina Strings, the author of the Book "The End of Love" on the show to explores the collective collapse of traditional romantic love. We talk about what "romance" means today and why it may not actually be what we want and how to have the romance that you DO want. This episode is brought to you by Better Help. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a FREE...

This week, we take a deep dive into negative dating terms with Mason Farmani who is an intuitive personal coach, specializing in relationship and emotional healing. We talk about what these terms are, why they're being used so much and how to not let them effect you and your dating success. This episode is brought to you by Better Help. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter, a...

In this throwback episode, we have Myke Macapinlac joining us. Myke is the founder of Social Confidence Mastery, an incredible resource for those in the STEM industries or men who consider themselves introverted. If that's you, he's going to talk directly to YOU about how to step outside of your brain and become a master at confidence, flirting, escalation and so much more. Learn more about your a...

Have you ever wondered what Tantra is really about? Have you ever heard about it? If you haven't, you should. That's where we come in. This week we have Alicia Davon from The Davon Method on the show. Alicia and her husband have been teaching this sexual yoga practice for 15 years and she's here to tell us all about why you NEED tantra in your life and why it's essential to to become present when...

We have Dr. Joshua Spodek on with us who is also a dating coach. He's here to teach you how to be a LEADER with the ladies, one of the foremost traits women are looking for in a man. He's going give you the in's on how to get her to open up, be more comfortable around you, express her passions , all *without* being an interviewer or pick up artist. We also talk about BJs, that's right! We're talki...

This week, we talk about something you will most likely encounter at one point in life or another, and that is when a woman isn't feeling so "friendly" (our politically correct way of saying "bitchy"). Why do some women become bitchy? We'll tell you. But more importantly, our guest, Gianna Rackham, a female dating coaching, will tell you how to curb the bitchiness and use it to your advantage. We'...