Honestly Tho Podcast

Send us Fan Mail What happens when a man enter a new chapter of life - redefining love, evolving a an artist, leaving a legacy through fatherhood, and finding strength after loss? In this episode, I sit down with Moosie Win for a raw and honest conversation about growth, relationships, purpose, and transformation. At 40, he opens up about his perspective on dating and relationships, and what has c...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I open up about the importance of traveling, the lost art of flirting, embracing a year of solitude, and the art of detachment.  Whether it’s a solo adventure, a girls’ getaway, or a baecation, travel has a way of revealing who you are when you’re removed from your everyday routine. I also open up about my “solo year”—a season of solitude, self-discovery, and lear...

Send us Fan Mail In today’s episode, we sit down with entrepreneur, author, creative, and tech professional La’China Barnes — also known as “sotechnicallyspeaking” on IG — for a raw conversation about reinvention, career pivots, identity, confidence, and what it really looks like to evolve in real time. From writing books like:  📖 From College Girl to Stripper… I Mean Entrepreneur 📖 F ck It, I G...

Send us Fan Mail What does it really mean to have autonomy as a Black, queer artist in an industry that rewards conformity? This week, I’m joined by musician Oya Noire for a raw and honest conversation about building a creative life on your own terms—even when the system pushes you to perform, produce, and shrink yourself to fit in. We unpack the tension between identity, ambition, and survival, a...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by fashion and luxury extraordinaire, Simone Alexis Webb, who has a way of romanticizing her life. But this conversation goes beyond designer labels and soft life aesthetics. We're talking luxury, dating, the importance of having hobbies, and the narratives women casually adopt without realizing the impact. We unpack what luxury truly means outside o...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by Kenya aka SheSoVain to discuss all things from the importance of being authentic and knowing yourself to holding men accountable, to motherhood, NYC nightlife, and so much more. We unpack who Kenya is, how she views herself, and what it takes for her to give her time to a man. While many may say that her expectations are unrealistic, she maintains her...

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Send us Fan Mail Happy Black History Month! This week I sit down with Jamie Weekes, co-owner of Lips Cafe, located in Flatbush, Brooklyn. We talk all things about ownership and entrepreneurship, including the realities and expectations of dating an entrepreneur. Jamane opens up about how him and his mom came up with the concept for Lips Cafe, what does community mean to him, and the impact that en...

Send us Fan Mail This week I’m rejoined by  @TaylorElajas and Shayna from  @SafeandSecurepod to continue our conversation from part 1. In this episode we briefly talk about how I ended up with a man who wanted to be with two women at the same time, the 90 day rule in dating and I’d body count still matters.  Taylor shares his top 5 things he wants in a woman, why he doesn’t date older women, and w...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by content creator and consultant  @TaylorElajas and co-host of  @SafeandSecurepod Shayna, to talk all things surrounding the male and female dynamic in dating and relationships. We touch on women dating men with potential versus dating the finish product, if a relationship can survive without intimacy, and so much more. We also discuss if flirting while...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by artist EaziMoney  @Bigbagbluehundreds to discuss all things from vulnerability and emotionality in Caribbean men to his creative process and remaining grounded as a creative, to secrecy and privacy in relationships and navigating social media, and so much more. Follow  Zee on IG at @toptier_zee Subscribe to the YouTube channel at as we are rebuilding t...

Send us Fan Mail Happy Women's History Month! This week I'm joined by attorney and owner of SL Nelson Law Firm, Stephanie Lynette Nelson to talk all things from the law and how people tell on themselves through social media to owning her own firm, dating as a successful woman, and so much more. We talk about her journey from being a prosecutor and how she would advocate for black plainti...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by Kenya also known as Vain to discuss all things from women lying to each and not holding each other accountable to being misguided in the world and the social media illusion. We also discuss transitioning from being married to re-entering the dating world, and what that was like for Kenya after being married throughout her 20s, what she has learned whil...

Send us Fan Mail This week I deep dive into a couple different topics such as women doing solo Valentine's Day photoshoots and wanting to know the purpose of these shoots. Why are single women doing these photoshoots to post to their Instagram feeds on Valentine's Day? Am I the only person who thought Kendrick Lamar's halftime performance wasn't entertaining? I give me opinion...

Send us Fan Mail This week I’m joined by Danny and Toya, a couple who have been together for 8 years and have not been married yet. We explore the question of whether or not women who do not want to do “wifey duties” before getting married are doing themselves a disservice, or setting standards for themselves. We discuss the pressures Danny and Toya face from friends and family on when they’re get...

Send us Fan Mail In this solo episode, I pose the question of whose responsibility is it to teach a man how to be romantic? Is it something he should just know, or is it his partner's responsibility to teach him what romance means to her? I also speak about being in my villain era and what that looks like for me and those around me, not wanting to be around people who are who not committed to...

Send us Fan Mail This week I’m joined by Jeff Blue, co-owner of TrapHaus, the newest black owned fitness studio in New York City. We speak about his fitness journey and breaking the stereotype of Pilates being a “white woman” thing. Jeff shares how he got into Pilates and reformer training, and what inspired him to open up his own weight training and reformer studio on the Lower East Side of NYC. ...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by my favorite guest, The Smart Guy to talk all things from knowing your purpose in life and remaining grounded in that purpose, the importance of being intentional, how to validate yourself, healing your inner child, and so much more. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction  00:24-01:03 Smart and Zee give each other their flowers 01:04-01:18 Topics to be discusse...

Send us Fan Mail This week, I’m joined by the hosts of ​⁠ @PutTheCheeseonTheCracker show, Moosie and Donna Da Don Dada from Black Ink Crew. We talk everything from men needing to fear losing their woman in order to treat her right, the myth or truth about men liking mean women, what constitutes as a good woman or a good man, and so much more.  Moosie and Donna speak about the meaning behind their...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by returned guest JodyPhro, host of the podcast "Her Nut Matters" to talk all things from the "4B Movement" which is a cultural movement from South Asia where women are saying no to children, heterosexual marriage, dating men, and sex. Are they hurting themselves or doing something that will benefit them in the future? I asked Jody if...

Send us Fan Mail Happy New Year everyone! While last year was "ghetto" for many, It's important to find gratitude in the small things. I kick off this episode with three things I am grateful for from 2024, and three things I am looking forward to in this new year.  Ladies, can you be with a man who is bisexual or have had sexual experiences with other men in the past? Is there a dif...

Send us Fan Mail On this week’s solo episode, I share some stories on the importance of being nurtured as a parent, having a village, and treating other children the way you would like others to treat your own. Sometimes as parents things get hard and having anyone whether a stranger or someone you know extend grace to you can make a big impact.  I also discuss the importance of being vocal about...

Send us Fan Mail This week I’m joined by dominant Sir Leezus to talk all things from kinks and fetishes to dom/sub dynamics, poly relationships, and so much more. Sir Leezus shares how he got his name, how he got into BDSM, and the different dynamics in that culture. During the Fast 5 of would you rather, he reveals probably one of the most trifling things a person could do while having sex 😭 We...

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by my friend and self taught designer Jessie Rhea to discuss all things from her new collection, navigating letting go of people and friendships that no longer serve you, dating in NYC versus dating in California, and the lost art form of synergy between the masculine and feminine.   Jessie describes her design process and challenging herself to learn to...

Send us Fan Mail This week is another solo episode where Zee shares recaps her birthday trip, the underwhelming gift she received, and unpacks what she’s been watching on TV. As Tia Mowry’s divorce has been in the limelight, I pose the question of “is it possible to be a good man but not a good husband?” Also, should Tia have explored more in her younger years before settling down with Cory? Let m...