Honestly, Friends.

Manifesting, Delusion, & more!!

We know! It sounds counterintuitive, but could it be true? Are there situations where honesty hurts more than it helps... We get into it this episode!

Whether we like it or not, the sun goes down a lot earlier this time of year! We talk about how to cope with seasonal depression.

This we the ladies take some time to opine about how we feel about going to The Cheesecake Factory on a first date. As usual, we are split, but it ends up being all good! Is it about having standards, having humility, or a little bit of both?

Friends! This epi is about how women can just not win. If we leave the relationship, we get blamed. If we stay, we are stupid! We digest how to free ourselves mentally and emotionally from giving the outside world credence to our personal life. Join us!

Is it just us or does it feel like a lot of celebrities are spilling their life and relationship drama a lot more right now? From the Wade's, to the Smith's and even our girl Britney Jean Spears. We are receiving information overload! Some of it's juicy and some of it's just plain ol' cringey but right now we kinda just want them to... take us out the group chat. 

Why does it seem like Black women are the only women that are ever given advice to take what they can get. It is apparent that all other women are urged to get married, have high standards, and live softly! Dai and Li talk a little bit today about how mediocre advice is exhausting black women, and that we want people to know, kin or not, we will not allow that to be pushed on us anymore. Instead o...

On this week's episode we piggy back off of the last episode where we talked about venting about friends. This week we discuss why that conversation came about it in the first place and can you believe, it all started because a random woman on the internet decided to put a friend group on blast because they were venting about a friend? What are your thoughts on Social Media Vigilantes?

Is it okay to vent to your friends about other friends? This week we get really candid with each other and let it be known that we both vent about each other. We both feel it's healthy to do so, but it does feel a little weird to know that we do this. Is it a betrayal to vent to someone else? Should you only speak to the friend you have an issue with? That's the question. 

It grinds our gears when the question is asked, "What do you bring to the table?" It comes off as condescending and disrespectful. Someone who is actually interested in you will get to know you and figure out if you are actually compatible with their lifestyle. Your girls at Honestly Friends have our thoughts about this raggedy table.

Do birds of a feather always flock together? And do we always want it to be that way? What if you want to expand your horizons and your friends do not or are unable? Per usual, we have thoughts!!

We knew that we wanted to talk about this topic, but it took us a minute to post it as it requires you to really sit down with yourself and investigate what you want out of life. It was hard for our podcast so that means its even harder to put into words in real life! We hope that our thoughts get the ball rolling for ya'll when the time comes to state your dating non-negotiables.

If you pay attention, you will see that a good amount of men be out here settling too! We are all taught not to settle in life, but usually, as women, we can think of it in terms of a women's perspective. Today's episode takes some time to highlight some signs to look for when trying to determine if a guy that you are dealing with is truly wanting to be with you or if he is settling for you. And i...

How sway? There are friends that you will come across that are only upset when someone ruffles their feathers, but they have no problems being the offender. Does that work for ya'll? Dai & Li talk about how there is often one friend in the friend group that is allowed to get away with bad behavior more than everyone else.

Have you ever been seemingly good with a friend and all of a sudden, they fell of the face of the earth? No communication at all is there between the two of you anymore, but you still see them living their best lives. You are just not a part of it anymore. Damn, ghosted! It is painful and we wanted to talk about why we think it happens in an in-depth manner! Tune in for our take on it!

It has been a week for black folks to say the least! The ancestors helped us stand up for one of our own on August 5th and we talk about what this means for us on both a micro and macro level. This week also brought us news about Tory Lanez's sentencing. Hopefully, now that the case is done done, we can let Meg move on in peace!   Please check out the following link to the upcoming documentary scr...

Friends! We are back digging deep about how friendships can be a vessel for mere survival! Not every day is a good day, and our girlfriends often have more access to us than any other person in our lives. This is exactly why friendships can serve as a lifeline until we can get the help that we need!    Please check out the following link to the upcoming documentary screening, "The Creative Healing...

This topic can be yet another awkward moment in a friendship. One can find themselves having self-doubt with even broaching the subject in fear of seeming overly sensitive and not wanting to seem needy. Boundaries, however, are something that everyone needs and should be able to discuss with a true friend.   Please check out the following link to the upcoming documentary screening, "The Creative H...

It looks like Jordyn Woods & Kylie Jenner have made up. At minimum, seeing this makes someone introspectively consider if they could ever do that. Furthermore, the public can also speculate if they think Jordyn should be giving Kylie another chance. Because best believe it is Jordyn who should be calling the shots concerning boundaries this time around.  Can friends find their way back to each...

The innanets have been active this summer with the troubling opinions of some of our high-profile talented sisters' boyfriends these past few weeks, and we are not going to let this pass without correcting a few points that have been put out there! We understand that these are people's actual relationships that they hold near and dear so we hope they can find a healthy pathway forward. We would be...

Li quit her job during the hiatus between Season 1 & 2. This has been something that was planned for well over a year, but that did not make it any easier to quit a sure livelihood. This episode talks about the toxic practices in the work environment that made it a place that Li could no longer continue to stay at and maintain her mental health. Although the large paychecks were nice, we talk...

Unfortunately, women have been put in a situation where they have had to compete for the affection of one man since the beginning of time. What is perplexing though, is doubling down and staking claim at one that you knew all along was committed to someone one else?! The sense is completely gone. In this episode, Dai & Li, as usual, opine on what seems to be the flagrant foolishness!

Both of us aspire to be rich black women, but Li is known for stating that she does not think she will be leaving her kids all of her wealth as an inheritance. In fact, she wants to leave them only a small portion of her wealth and give the rest to charities. Her reasoning leaves Dai bamboozled every time as Dai thinks the kids should get everything...Tap in for the debate!!

Although we wish our friendships could stay in a place that resolves around childhood happenings and reveries, things change throughout the decades. People move away, get job promotions, get married, get divorced, have children, and the list goes on... It does not mean our friendships have to stop, but it does mean that the nurturing of those friendships has to be prioritized.

Ms. Williams set the innanets on fire this past week and by now sooooo many opinions are out there. Dai and Li are no different and talk it out in this episode! We think we agree with Eb, but there are still some nuances. Regardless, both women are Black queens, and we love to muse on each person's perspective.