High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Send us Fan Mail When was the last time you had that desire for your husband as an overflow from that desire for God, your Father, your Creator, your Maker? The maker of everything?  Where you heart is, there also is your treasure.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage,...

Send us Fan Mail "I believe, Lord, Help my unbelief!" Learn how to move from "I know" but don't really believe deep down TO "I believe with every cell in my body and so I live like it's already done!" And that belief changes everything. Starting with YOU. But it has to start with the SOURCE. The ONLY Source. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach &qu...

Send us Fan Mail Build on purpose with discipline and consistency! Break free from the "hard" of marriage and actually like each other again.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET:...

Send us Fan Mail Grab the new free guide: https://chelsey.coach/hlwreset  Recognize when your body is speaking and what it's saying... this is the PATTERN. And then what to do with the info as INFO, not authority. Anchor into Truth, biblical Truth. This is how we regulate and respond; disrupt patterns and walk in freedom and healing! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I hel...

Send us Fan Mail God created us as holistic beings: mind, body and spirit. Learn to integrate biblical Truth as anchor and recognize information we receive from our bodies. And how we submit BOTH under the authority of Christ- the FINISHED work of the Cross. Let's dive in! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set...

Send us Fan Mail For many wives, we’re dealing with trauma, survival mode and healing God’s way before we even dive into marriage work. Too often you get 2 approaches: the world says boundaries and cut triggers out; Christian world says to do what is right. The former isn’t biblical and neither is the latter. God made your body. Your body is giving you information. There IS a biblical way by His d...

Send us Fan Mail What if intimacy isn’t gone… just buried under years of pain, fear, resentment, disappointment, betrayal, or self-protection? In this episode, Chelsey shares 10 practical ways to restore intimacy God’s way—not through pressure, pretending, or rushing healing, but through surrender, safety, grief, openness, and intentionally moving toward one another again. Because God’s design for...

Send us Fan Mail “Intimacy will never be the same.” Maybe you’ve heard that. Maybe you’ve even believed it. In this episode, Chelsey confronts one of the most hopeless messages surrounding marriage after betrayal, wounds, and broken trust—and asks a different question: What if God actually restores? This episode explores intimacy through the lens of surrender, healing, softness, trust rebuilding,...

Send us Fan Mail Many wives are carrying burdens they were never meant to carry. Trying harder. Fixing more. Worrying constantly. But what if God never asked you to carry your husband? What if He invited you to pray for him instead? In this episode, Chelsey shares 10 powerful prayers wives can pray over their husbands to move from control into intercession and create space for God to move powerful...

Send us Fan Mail Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood concepts in marriage. Many Christians believe forgiveness means forgetting, pretending it didn’t hurt, immediately restoring trust, or never struggling again. Others stay trapped waiting to forgive until the pain completely disappears. In this episode, Chelsey dives into what biblical forgiveness actually is, what it isn’t, and how surr...

Send us Fan Mail You said you wanted a fun summer. So why does it already feel chaotic? In this follow-up episode, Chelsey shares the 10 rules helping her create a summer built around peace, responsibility, freedom, and connection- not survival. From routines and screens to rhythms and responsibilities, this episode will help you intentionally build an environment where both moms and kids can thri...

Send us Fan Mail Your kids were never supposed to become the center of your home. Yet summer has a funny way of making marriages revolve around: sports  activities  screens  chauffeuring  and survival mode. In this episode, Chelsey shares 10 practical rules to help you protect your marriage, stay connected, and build a family culture where your relationship remains the foundation- not an afterthou...

Send us Fan Mail Why does life suddenly feel chaotic when routines disappear? Maybe summer isn’t creating the problem. Maybe it’s revealing it. In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how easily life drifts out of order- especially during busy seasons—and why many women unintentionally place kids, schedules, responsibilities, and work above the things that actually create peace. You’ll learn how God’s de...

Send us Fan Mail God gave me this vision of a courtroom. This image should break us of self-righteousness in marriage. Are you standing next to the accuser in agreement over your husband's offenses? Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. "...

Send us Fan Mail You study business. You study parenting. You study nutrition. But do you intentionally study your husband? In this episode, I’m teaching wives how to become students of their husbands—not to control them or fix them—but to understand, support, and build the kind of marriage where both people flourish. You’ll learn practical ways to understand how your husband thinks, what creates...

Send us Fan Mail What do you do when nothing seems to be changing? When your marriage feels impossible… finances feel tight… prayers feel unanswered… and you’ve done everything you know how to do? In this episode, we walk through one of the most powerful biblical pictures of God’s provision and power from 2 Kings 6–7 and reminds listeners that God is still the God of suddenly. You’ll learn why sur...

Send us Fan Mail You love your spouse. But do you actually like them? This reel sparked a HUGE reaction! In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks why so many marriages slowly drift from friendship, fun, and genuine enjoyment—and why simply staying married is not the same thing as flourishing together. You’ll learn why resentment quietly kills friendship, how survival mode changes connection, and what...

Send us Fan Mail To sit on my porch in the sun every day. But that’s not reality with five kids and the end of the school year. Learn to regulate    and   keep   your   nervous system   regulated   even   in   the   busiest  of times. As a former high functioning, anxious wife, come, learn how to regulate your nervous system be present and actually enjoy your life during busy season. Stay surrende...

Send us Fan Mail It’s not what you say; it’s how you say it. Learn how simple it is to go from manger-speak to invitation-language, and watch your husband step in and respond!  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First step? Grab the 30 Day...

Send us Fan Mail If you are feeling like there's just too much hurt and years of frustration in your marriage for it to truly flourish (or even be borderline good at this point), listen to this episode! God can do it! God is working in your marriage! He is working out sprouts...buds...blossoms...and ripe almonds! Because "shoqed"! Jeremiah 1:11 "I am watching over my word to pe...

Send us Fan Mail It's so easy to let our feelings be the authority, but high level wives learn how to create space for the Spirit to work because they are rooted and grounded in the love of Christ. Come learn how too! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood...

Send us Fan Mail How often do you feel overwhelmed by the chaos, bad attitudes, and fights that start in your own house, family, and marriage? Learn how to shift the atmosphere and recalibrate the "tudes" like a high level wife! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marr...

Send us Fan Mail Offense is what our flesh does and when we let it take root, it becomes resentment, then bitterness, and finally unforgiveness.  Learn how to be unoffendable in your marriage!  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First step...

Send us Fan Mail Let's bring it all home with the core foundation of HOW we are enabled to walk in the nature and function of biblical femineity: it's the gospel applied! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life. " First step? Grab the 30...

Send us Fan Mail You're out here walking in the masculine because it feels safer. I get it. That was me too. But learning how God uniquely designed you and how He created you to function within marriage is going to feel like a scary but exhilarating superpower to you. Let's gooooo! *this episode cuts off because our wifi went out, lame, but come back for part 2. Support the show Chelsey...