HERE'S A THOUGHT with THE MAKHS

In this episode of Here’s A Thought, we sit down with TK & Tinyiko for a heartfelt conversation about the foundation of a lasting marriage. From friendship, love and respect to leadership, submission and navigating life’s challenges together, they share the values and intentional choices that have shaped their relationship. This is an honest conversation about building a marriage that thrives...

Ever wondered what a man’s perspective on singleness really is? In this episode, we sit down with Nolo Mokoena, whose sharp mind and thoughtful insights make for a conversation that is both refreshing and deeply challenging. Together, we unpack what it means to be a single Christian man in today’s world, the importance of showing up authentically and why both singleness and marriage are holy. In t...

What Is Marriage Actually For? Many couples spend years learning how to be married without first understanding why they are married. Today, marriages are increasingly strained under the weight of unrealistic expectations, disappointment, conflict, emotional exhaustion, and unmet needs. As we watch more relationships struggle, one question continues to surface: Have many of us entered marriage with...

We’ve literally made all the mistakes in our lifetime so that you don’t have to. Before you buy a home, please watch this conversation. Sanelisiwe is a real estate lawyer, a qualified attorney, notary and conveyancer. In this instalment, we go beyond homeownership and unpack identity and legacy, what it truly means to build a life, not just acquire property. Homeownership is more than a piece of l...

We sometimes break in public, so why are we expected to heal in private? In this deeply honest episode, we sit down with Tiisetso Kgomo to explore what it truly means to heal out loud. We reflect on a culture that often witnesses our breaking in public spaces, yet still expects our healing to happen quietly, privately and without disruption. Together, we unpack the pressure to “have it together,”...

We sit down with the beautiful Ntsako and Yanga Khoza for an honest conversation about faith, marriage, and building a life together at a young age. How did they know they were ready for marriage? What lessons have they learned along the way? And what does it practically look like to keep God at the center of a relationship? Join us as we unpack their joys, challenges and growth. #marriedyoung #ch...

Ushering people into one of the greatest covenants of their lives is holy work and Precious does it with the utmost respect for the calling and excellence in everything she touches. One thing that stood out in our conversation: wedding planning is often a preview of marriage. How your partner handles finances, communication, pressure, conflict and keeping their word during this time often reflects...

In this instalment, we sit down with the Molois for a conversation on loving each other through all seasons. From love at first sight, to healing from childhood trauma, raising a daughter with special needs and learning how to become a safe space for one another. This was honest, vulnerable and deeply moving.#christianmarriage #motherwound #fatherwound #specialneeds #marriage #love

“In sickness and in health…”They’re words we all say, but how many of us truly understand the weight of that covenant when life gets hard? In this installment, Yonda and Dr. Taz take us through their journey of trusting God in the midst of it all. From navigating a life-threatening diagnosis to what it truly means to love your wife as Christ loves the church, this conversation is a powerful pictur...

In marriage we have learnt to give up on the idea of arriving at a place where everything makes sense. The beauty of the journey remains in relying on God to constantly refine us in depending on him to truly love one another. Today we share some of the pain points as we endeavour to learn and grow with each other as well as with you. Enjoy!

We share honest perspectives, him to women, her to men, on what to look for in a partner and what really builds a lasting relationship. This was so much fun for us 😆❤️Please click the link below to join the Co. Founders Circle:https://tinyurl.com/9kmhepaeSee you inside!

In this instalment I have a conversation with our 13 year old daughter, Lehakoe about faith, family and friendship. Please note that we are unpacking this episode on Tuesday @ 7pm. LINK TO FOLLOW❤️

In relationships, it’s easy to fight to prove a point. But often the cost of being right is disconnection. Choosing humility, listening and understanding each other can matter far more than winning the argument. Sometimes love looks like laying down your pride to protect the relationship, because the goal isn’t to win against each other, it’s to win together. Join us this Tuesday @ 7PM to unpack t...

DreamTeam, we are excited to be back with a new Name, Vision and Mission. Join us as we take you on a journey of the who, what, where, how and when of Co. Founders. FEEDBACK SESSIONS EVERY TUESDAY @18:00 Link: ...

In this powerful and candid episode, we sit down with Wandile and Jessica Molebatsi, who share their personal journey of navigating racial prejudice, the complexities of raising mixed-race children, and the challenges of being misunderstood by society. Through their experiences, they open up about the unique hurdles they’ve faced as an inter racial couple, from confronting implicit biases and ster...

As a platform dedicated to supporting and advocating for marriage, we understand that sometimes relationships don’t work out the way we hope. Divorce is a painful and difficult experience for everyone involved—men, women, and especially children. In this installment, we want to acknowledge the deep emotional impact of divorce, while offering insight into the healing process and the role forgivenes...

We’re back in counseling, and it feels like a new chapter. There’s a lingering issue we’ve been navigating, one that has kept us from seeing eye to eye. What we cherish most about this season of therapy is the growth we’ve experienced as individuals. We’ve learned to disagree with love, to listen deeply to one another’s feelings, and to unite in pursuit of our shared goals. It’s a journey of under...

Are we leaving South Africa? The past three years have woven a tapestry of hope, joy, sorrow and everything in between. It is in the valley that we encountered the God who beckons us to surrender. This podcast is also available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

The question was, where are the men in the church? Today, we sit down with Uviwe and Unako—our own David and Jonathan—to discuss backsliding and finding your way back to God. We explore God’s heart for men and what is required to equip them to walk in holiness. These young men show us what true pursuit of Christ looks like and what it means to search for the heart of God.

In today's heartfelt installment, I sit down with my husband of 14 years to reflect on his vibrant childhood and the choices he made in his younger years that led him away from his relationship with God. He has faced the difficult journey of drug addiction which led him to being a missionary at the age of 17 at an organization called Youth For Christ in Cape Town. Over the next few years, he wrest...

Not initiating sex can leave individuals feeling emotionally bruised and struggling with low self-esteem, often creating a sense of insecurity within a relationship. This issue isn't solely about desirability; various factors, such as stress and mental health, can impact one's libido and ability to engage. For many, societal expectations dictate that men should always be eager for sex, leading to...

Bonko and Lesego Khoza‘s marriage is like a heartwarming romcom, revealing a deep connection that spoke volumes even before their first words. Now, as parents to Ama, their love story continues to unfold beautifully, a testament to their belief in surrendering their lives to God. Bonko and Lesego Thank you so much for coming to break bread with us❤️

Mogale and Kabelo Mohale let us in on rising from the ashes. They speak candidly about how challenging the past 2 years have been on them. We know that growth can be hard, at times even messy however we are comforted knowing that diamonds are produced from very high pressure and temperatures. This beautiful couple are such a great testament of what it means to choose each other, over and over. By...

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When it comes to inquiring about the state of a married couple's relationship, it's wise to tread lightly, for they often tend to emphasize the challenges. Marriage, without a doubt, is a profound blessing and a precious gift, albeit one that demands effort. It has the capacity to stretch individuals and may occasionally create discomfort during personal growth. Nevertheless, the rewards d...