HERE'S A THOUGHT with THE MAKHS

We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission. Today we unpack what leadership looks like from his vs her perspective. Leadership and Relationship seminar booking details: RSVP admin@lfprinting.co.za Contact: 061 533 4314 / 076 609 3363 Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instag...

We took a break from Vlogging and this is whhy…Vlogging can create a sense of detachment and disconnection from the people and experiences that truly matter. In addition, it can create a sense of pressure to constantly create content, leading to a never-ending cycle of filming, editing, and uploading. This can leave little room for downtime or relaxation, and can negatively impact mental and emoti...

The topic of submission can be a contentions one. What is submission? What does it look like? Does it look different for different couples? What's God design for submission? How does poor leadership affect submission? We unpack... Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phe...

We discuss things that shocked us this past week... #themakhs #thabobester #dalailama

Should women pursue men? Ask them out or even propose marriage? We would love to hear from you. #themakhs #dating #women Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

Ever heard the saying, “show me your friends, I’ll tell you who you are”? In this instalment we discuss how our friendships have shaped who are. #friendships #themakhs #relationships

We spend so much time investing in the wedding day and forget to invest in the marriage itself. The question is, is it worth saving for a big wedding… Let’s unpack♥️   #wedding #justmarried #themakhs

This year when my wife did the annual Daniel Fast she made a decision to also quit social media for that period.. The results were incredible! Have you ever been on a social media fast? What was it like for you? Would you recommend it?    #socialmedia #danielfast #themakhs   Please follow and connect with us on:    Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makh...

In our first instalment of 2023, we speak with the Makhs Seniors (Ntate Jerry Mofokeng wa Makhetha & Mama Claudine) . We discuss some secrets to a healthy marriage.  This is the year of healing and restoration♥️  To order your copy of I am a man/ I am a woman please call/WhatsApp the number below:   Mosa Makhetha: +27 82 319 6367  For premarital & marriage counsell...

As we approach year end, it’s always a beautiful time to reflect on the year that was, In life and love.   As people we usually approach the new year with a lot of hope. Hope for a new dawn.  As we give ourselves time to reflect and introspect, let’s look at some of the things we need to let go of, and leave in 2022.

When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other.  What then happens in a relationship when one person flourishes more than the other?  How does that affect your level of self confidence? Have you ever been intimidated by your partners success or vice versa?    Download OctaFX Trading App https://bit.ly/OctaF...

Ever felt like you’ve put in the work, showed up and worked harder than the next person and was still overlooked? Being overlooked can sometimes bring about feelings of rejection, be it in marriage, at the workplace or in life. We look at how we can deal with those feelings in a healthy way and understanding that season of our lives.    #rejection #overlooked #themakhs  Please follo...

In today’s instalment we unpack whether it is necessary to ask for permission from your partner.  From going out, the clothes we wear and the money we spend? As always we would love to hear from you. Please do weigh in…

PARENTING THROUGH HIS / HER EYES

It’s not always easy letting our partners know that they might have a body odour issue, or that things aren’t that amazing in the bedroom. Have you ever been in that situation? If so how did you handle it?

Let’s believe when they tell us who they are…

There’s a lot of apprehension from church girls to date men in the church and vice versa.  We unpack this in our current instalment♥️ #dating #churchgirls #churchboys #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on:    Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/leratomakhetha_?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://in...

Are you doing what is necessary to ensure that your loved ones are well taken care of?

Do you have an alter-ego and are you comfortable with sharing that part yourself with your partner?  Comment below to share your thoughts.   #alterego #relationships #themakhs  Please follow and connect with us on:    Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: htt...

In todays instalment, Phetola shares on how God walked with her through the valley of her retrenchment journey.

Who should be held responsible or accountable in an affair.  The married party or the side? We unpack.    #marriagevows #sidechicks #sidemen  Please follow and connect with us on:   Instagram:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm...

In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future...   #TheMakhs #Lehakoe #Conversation #Daughter

We’ve all heard the jokes about the frequency or infrequency of married sex. Is this a fact or myth?   If true, how can we cultivate and sustain a satisfying sex life in marriage♥️   #sexlife #marriedsex #themakhs  For business inquiries please email us on @info.themakhs@gmail.com   Instagram: Please follow and connect with us on:   TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the...

Why do we feel the pressure to fit in when we were born to stand out?   We learn from Psychology, broken down by the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs that Love and Belonging are a huge psychological need.   Therefore people may feel pressure to conform so they fit in or are accepted, or so they don't feel awkward or uncomfortable. In today’s instalment we unpack the pressures of try...

In a world where some women are earning more than their partners and some men choose to be stay at home dads, are gender roles still relevant?