HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

Barry describes “How To Have Men Open Up And Talk About Feelings”. He explains the challenges men have with expressing feelings, why they have those challenges, the difference between Open Masculinity and Closed Masculinity, and exactly how to get a man to be more emotionally expressive.

Barry describes how stressful times affect your dating and relationships. He explains why that happens, and how to handle stressful times in a way that allows a healthy, empowered, less stressed you, and thereby a healthy, empowered relationship! If you deal with any stress in your life, you need to listen to this!

Dating and relationships don’t have to just be effort and self-growth, they can be fun and easy! Today, Barry shares a simple approach to make it fun and easy!

Create Meaningful Connection With Meaningful Conversations

Barry explains the 9 Environments we usually use in coaching to improve all 9 areas of our life, and then teaches you how to apply these 9 Environments for date ideas and relationship activities that are fun, connective and help you get to know one another more deeply!

Barry explains how we all have moments of full certainty and knowing about guys amd relationships; whether it’s realizing he’s the wrong guy, realizing they are the “One” for you, realizing you don’t love your partner anymore, or something else — our intuition, gut instinct, deep wisdom KNOWS. Barry explains how this occurs, discusses the neuroscience of gut instinct, how and why we often ignore i...

Barry explains why we are attracted to certain people and not others, the psychology of attraction, our past pattern, how our wounds and unmet needs are involved. and how to be more conscious of why we are feeling attraction.

Barry describes how and why we can get disrespected, and the real cause. He gives a quick adjustment you can make today to instantly get more respect!

Exercise: Why are you listening? Finding your big WHY.

Barry describes a different approach to your dating amd relationships that empowers you. He gives detailed examples of how a single client and a married client used this approach to immediately get better results in their dates and in their marriage. Barry gives one simple activity for you to try today to move towards a healthy. empowered relationship This is a must listen and a game change!

Barry describes how Gratitude creates positive focus, dispels negative emotion and creates a healthy state to meet and attract a healthy partner,, or connect lovingly with a current partner. He walks you through two short gratitude exercises for healthier, more empowered relationships!

Barry talks about how attention os a developmental aspect of our psyche from infancy, through our childhood and teenage years, and how it affects our adult relationships. We don’t want attention, we need it. Here’s how to start getting it in a healthier way.

Barry describes how ambition is a positive but can be viewed as a negative in dating & relationships. He teaches us how to spot partners who lack ambition, how some men fool themselves into thinking they can handle ambitious women but end up feeling insecure with them, how to spot partners who have the right type of self esteem to be in a healthy relationship with an ambitious woman, and how to be...

Going Too Fast Or Too Slow In Relationships

Barry explains the concept of emotional dysregulation, how it contributes to reactivity and cause problems with dating and relationships, and offers methods to emotionally regulate so you and any partner have less stress, anxiety, fear, conflict and anger and more love, joy and connection.

Barry reviews how to effectively use “Affirmations For A Healthy, Empowered Relationship”. He describes why affirmations used incorrectly don’t work, and how to use affirmations more effectively.

Barry describes Pre-Flirting, an approach to being ready to flirt. He gives you one inner emotional action and one outer action to effectively prepare for great flirting! Enjoy!

For single and coupled people alike, this episode gives you the three keys to being deeply in love without losing your self, without putting your own needs aside. Barry explains how the union with another person feels amazing but can threaten our needs and boundaries, then he teaches the three steps to being a healthy empowered woman in a relationship!

In “Getting Men To Initiate (So You Aren’t Always The One Doing It)” Barry describes why many strong women end up doing all the initiating, what’s really going on with men who don’t initiate, and how to get men to initiate everything from dates, to romance and intimacy.

Barry describes how the body is a conduit between our emotions and feelings and our conscious mind. He explains how experiences and feelings about love and relationships are stored and remembered in our body. He shares how to pay attention to what our body is telling us. Understanding what our body is important for us to have healthy, empowered relationships!

Barry describes a simple approach to effectively flirting and building attraction, whether you’re single and dating or in a relationship and keeping the spark alive with your partner.

Barry reveals an often overlooked quality a good partner must possess. He gives examples of how to spot this quality, and why it matters if you want a healthy, empowered relationship!

Barry describes how the type of people we attract into relationships tell us something about our own core emotional patterns and wounds — he gives the top three examples of types pf men and what they say about our own subconscious patterns. If you want to truly understand why you are with the person you are with, or attract whom you attract, you have to listen to this!

Janice’s Story (Strong, Independent and Sensitive!)

Barry shares one quick question that can turn around any negative situation in your life! Seriously! Give it a try — it works for dating, relationships, and all your life’s challenges.