Help Them Heal-with Carol the Coach

It is not uncommon for sex addicts and their partners to be overwhelmed by their feelings. Carol the Coach interviews Ken Howard who is the founder of Aspen Partnership in Kansas City, Missouri about his practice to help clients identify their feelings and to begin to develop the trust that they so richly deserve. He works with clients to restore their connection and typically uses a very successf...

Sexual Addiction is a disorder that requires strategies to assist you in maintaining recovery. This show is to help you access the books, the experts and the people who are managing recovery with The 12 Step Program and Patrick Carnes Recovery Task Model that reinforces the steps you need to take to manage your recovery and take your life through the journey so that you not only conquer the "Addic...

Sexual Addiction always carries shame. Workshop expert Timothy D. Stein, Co-founder of Willow Tree Counseling in Santa Rosa, CA. talks about how how trauma is often times recorded in the nervous system and why sex addicts would reenact that trauma over and over again until it is processed. He believes that intensive trauma workshops are often the most effective form of treatment in helping the add...

Carol the Coach interviews Alex Katehakis, CSAT, who has made it her mission to help sex addicts and their partners to find healthy sexuality again. Mirror of Intimacy contains a year's worth of daily reflections that explore and support the range of human sexualities as a divine gift and a human right. The reflections reference a rich array of approaches: attachment theory, mind/body nexus, neuro...

Carol the Coach and Lisa Ferguson talk about what it takes to recover from addiction and how to manage the stress and the anxiety that accompany sexual addiction. Sexual Addiction is a disorder that requires strategies to assist you in maintaining recovery. This show is to help you access the books, the experts and the people who are managing recovery with The 12 Step Program and Patrick Carnes Re...

It can be difficutlt to ascertain whether you use sex to find love or use love to meet your sexual needs....Listen as Patricia talks about her journey into addiction by using both love and sex before she entered the world of sobriety. Carol the Coach will be talking with Patricia to understand how trauma contributed to her need to be loved and accepted. Sexual Addiction is a condition that require...

Sexual Addiction has many faces. Tonight ...Carol the Coach interviews Rebecca who is going to discuss what happened in her life that contributed to her sexual addiction. She will talk about how she discovered that she had the addiction and how it has affected her, her family and the people around her. I am sure it will inspire you to work on your recovery as Rebecca shares how she found the road...

Have you ever wondered if you or someone you love has a Love Addiction?  Well love addiction  is real and tonight Ethlie Ann Vare is going to be talking about the signs that you might have this affliction that creates real havoc for the love addicted and the people that love him or her. When you obsess about someone or look for love to fill that insatiable hole inside of you ... you may have a lov...

Carol the Coach will be interviewing Kate Morgan who has personal experience with being a partner of a sex addict. Sex addiction invaded Kate Morgan's life almost two decades ago when her husband's secret life was exposed after ten years of marriage. His alarming disclosure instantly threw her world into a 20-month-long storm of chaos, heartbreak, disbelief, and surprisingly--a calming peace she h...

Child Rearing can be extremely tough in today's digital age. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Hilarie Cash who runs a recovery program for indidviduals who are addicted to gaming and other digital medias. She would like to talk to parents about the appropriate limits on time and content as they are introduced to digital media. This will include video games and other content as well. Listen as...

Tonight I will be interviewing Jean Collins-Stuckert who will be talking about a workshop that she is facilitating at the Meadows for women with sexual disorders. She will be talking about the differences in treatment between male and female patients and she will be addressing how they treat women who experience so much sexual shame. She will be addressing why it is so hard for women to seek help...

  Dealing with sexual addiction and knowing when to tell the kids can be rough .Children of sex addicts need to know that they are not alone in their suffering, That help is available to them, and that families do get better with treatment.  These children need to know that they did not cause their parent’s sex addiction, nor can they control it or cure it.  In words and pictures, this book convey...

Carol the Coach will be interviewing expert Staci Sprout about traumatic experience and grief and transformation.  Post Traumatic Transformation is the sacred process of healing the negative effects of trauma held in one's mind, heart, body, and spirit. It involves learning to stop acting out the trauma story, and instead interpret its language directly to empower the natural grief process. In tea...

You want to know what tools are available to combat internet ography... Luke Gilkerson is going to be talking about Covenant Eyes which is one of the leaders in internet accountability software programs for your phone, tablet and computer. If you have wondered how to use Internet accountability software, you will get alot of information about this kind of service and how it can be an accountabilit...

Clinicians who work with sexual addiction know that the partner of a sex addicted is deeply wounded and often times goes untreated while the addict works diligently towards recovery. Barbara Steffen PhD is the co author of the book Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, How Partners Can Cope and Heal. This book has been revolutionary in changing how we work with partners and is seen as visionary in its ap...

Are you afraid of conflict? Do you use positive self talk to navigate you through the rigors of life? When you are an addict you typically let self loathing take the place of healthy behaviors but in this episode,Carol talks about the essential types of life skills that feed healthy outer circle behaviors. When you are in recovery or striving for that you need to take your life to the next level b...

Carol the Coach interviews Joe.... a recovering sex addict. Listen as Joe talks about how his wife discovered his sexual addiction and how it motivated him to work seriously on his recovery, He talks about how instrumental the recovery tools were to his sobriety and what it took to live his program "one day at a time." Sexual Addiction is a disorder that requires strategies to assist you in mainta...

Sexual Addiction is a disorder that requires strategies to assist you in maintaining recovery. This show is to help you access the books, the experts and the people who are managing recovery with The 12 Step Program and Patrick Carnes Recovery Task Model that reinforces the steps you need to take to manage your recovery and take your life through the journey so that you not only conquer the "Addic...

 Mark is both a sex addict and a love addict that has been in serious recovery for about a year. Mark wants to share his experience with early recovery and the unique dynamics in being both a sex addict and a love addict at the same time.  Mark hopes that his stories will help pave the path for people early in recovery and share insights into what has worked and what he should have done sooner as...

Somatic Experiencing is a treatment approach that addresses trauma. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Megan Ross/Timberline Knolls  who has the expertise to assist people with their trauma. Whether a trauma is physical in nature or not, the proven relationship between trauma and its effects on the body and brain, from the field of neuroscience is mounting. Somatic Experiencing is a form of ther...

Sex addicts and their partners have a higher incidence of sexual abuse in their history. This can show up as trauma reenactment for the addict. Partners can often be magnetized to the addict because of their own sexual abuse in their past. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Catherine McCall who wrote the UK bestseller Never Tell A True Story of Overcoming a Terrifying Childhood. She not only tel...

Whether you are a partner or a sex addict.....you have likely experienced anxiety as a result of this disorder. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Christine Turo Shields on how to manage that anxiety that unfortunatley is a natural by-product of both sex addiction and loving a sex addict. Learn the different types of anxiety and how they show up in your life. Christine and Carol will take you th...

Sexual Addiction takes no strangers. Rebecca Allard talks with Carol the Coach about her romance that went dangerously bad. She shares her love and sex addiction to a convicted felon and how that addiction to danger and the journey that almost overtook her until she reclaimed her heart, mind and soul. In this powerful interview, Carol the Coach will uncover her desperate hopelessness and her long...

Do you know how to tend your sobriety garden? Are there compulsive activities or negative influences that make it difficult to stay on course in your sexual addiction recovery?  Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Angie Ridings, M.Ed., LPC, LADC, CSAT, CMAT about how she uses the analogy of tending your garden as a long term recovery plan. Angie will provide you with 10 key essentials to tending...

Sexual Reintegration is important after your partner  discovers the trauma of your actions. But the process is slow and it takes alot of patience and time. Drs. Bill and Ginger Bercaw are the masters of this tough topic and have written two best sellers on how to return to sex after pain, betrayal and mistrust. There newest book From the Living Room to the Bedroom: The Modern Couples Guide to Sexu...