Hedonista Podcast • English Edition

Some men build fantasies. Some build entire lives. And some build both at the same time – so neatly separated that one half never knows about the other. In this second part of my journey through the nine need archetypes (the title remains a tribute to Vanessa Eden’s *Why Men Pay 2,000 Euros for One Night* – my slight price increase is due to the passage of time), I meet the Saviour, who calls his...

What drives a man to pay €3,000 for a single night – and does it really have anything to do with sex? In this solo episode, I present my theory of the nine need archetypes – nine patterns of human desire that I have recognised time and again throughout my career. The title is a deliberate homage to Vanessa Eden’s book *Why Men Pay €2,000 for a Night* - with a small price increase to reflect the ti...

Two women who've seen behind the curtain sit down to talk about the thing nobody in this industry warns you about: what happens to your private dating life when work keeps raising the bar. Irina le Fey is back - former goldsmith, sociologist, agency founder, professional huntress a and this time, we're not talking about clients. We're talking about us . About gender roles reclaimed...

What if the most intimate thing someone can do to you has nothing to do with touch? In this episode, I sit down with Undine de Riviere – escort, erotic hypnotist, and one of the most fascinating personas I've had on this show. We talk about the fine line between surrender and control, why giving up your mind is a completely different game than giving up your body, and what it actually means t...

Love is the biggest taboo in sex work. Not sex. Not money. But feelings. In this solo episode, I talk about what happens when the line between professional intimacy and real feelings becomes blurred. When does curated availability suddenly become... something that feels real? I talk about dates where I no longer knew whether I was being paid or whether it was just nice. About post-date blues that...

You've been waiting four weeks for this, Sherlocks. And trust me - it was worth it. In Part 2, I confess how a philosophy professor turned intellectual debate into foreplay, how forced cuddling broke down walls I didn't even know I'd built, and how I discovered that my brain might be my most powerful sex organ. From performance mode to pure presence. From power games to tantra. This...

How do Australian clients differ from European ones? Why does the DACH region have such a thing for "amateurs"? And what does cultural attitude toward kink reveal about deeper societal patterns? Sienna Carlisle – trans escort, domme, and someone who actually lives between Berlin, London, Melbourne and Sydney - joins me for a conversation that decodes international sex work from the insid...

What happens when the things that terrify you are also the things that turn you on the most? In this episode, I take you from my vanilla beginnings into the world of power play, rope, and psychological domination - and why sometimes the best sex happens when you stop trying to be in control

This week, Lyra Bergmann is here to talk about something most people spend their whole lives avoiding: the moment you realize sex work didn't just change your job - it fundamentally rewired how you see every relationship you'll ever have. From dating to friendships to the uncomfortable truth about what financial freedom actually unlocks, Lyra's not holding back. And whether escorts...

Everyone's heard of the girlfriend experience. But what most people think it means? That's not even close. It's not about kissing during a booking or being sweet between the sheets. It's not a menu item you tick off alongside other services. And it's definitely not what I thought it was when I first tried to offer it years ago - back when I had absolutely no idea what I wa...

Two escorts walk into a conversation about male desire. No, this isn't a joke - it's an autopsy. Elisa Carbo teams up with Eve Allegra, a red-headed Frankfurt accountant who moonlights in an industry where men's masks slip faster than their pants. Together, they dissect years of patterns, contradictions, and the things clients whisper in the dark but would never say at dinner partie...

In this premiere episode of Hedonista English Edition, I take you back to where it all began - from a well-behaved girl in the German countryside to an independent escort who chose this life deliberately. You'll hear about my first escort date with sweaty palms and racing heart, the moment I realized intimacy without the hunting game changes everything, and why my conservative grandmother com...