Heal Your Heartbreak

Throughout this episode I'm going to be talking about the stages you might experience in a breakup. DISCLAIMER - these are not in any order, because I don't want someone listening to feel like something is wrong with them, or feeling anything incorrectly. There is no right or wrong way to feel after a breakup and no straight lines associated with each situation. Each breakup is so different for ev...

In today's listener episode I interviewed Sara, who is a pediatric ICU doctor, and comedian. Her relationship was 9 months, but in that time she still had to go through a tremendous heartbreak. Her breakup was triggered by the fact that she was ready to start talking about that next step, and her ex made it clear that wasn't something he was willing or ready to do. I was so inspired by her story o...

What does it mean to take a break from your relationship? On this episode I discuss what a break is, why they can be hurtful, and different reasons why I feel like you shouldn't take a break from your relationship. This episode is not to say breaks have never worked but I think there needs to be some stipulations and objectives set around having a break!   To find out which Break Up Best...

Today I brought back and interviewed Dr. Jaime Zuckerman, who is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and media expert on all things therapy and mental health. In this episode we talk all about trauma bonds - what is a trauma bond, why do they happen, what are the underlying circumstances that lead to a trauma bond. We also discuss why trauma bonds are so hard to break, and once they are broken and yo...

The No Contact Rule is not an easy thing to do. It can be challenging and painful, but its about the long term healing process. In this episode I want to help you combat some of your fears around the No Contact Rule by first validating them, and then giving you a new perspective on it. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with t...

In today's listener story episode I interview Dayna who was in a relationship for 5 years when she found out her partner was having an affair. In this episode she talks about how she left her partner (with an incredible amount of boundaries), how she moved cities, and rebuilt her life. Dayna's story is such an incredible example of boundaries, self love, willingness to do the work, and that you re...

In today's episode I interviewed Raeann Langas who is the co-founder of Confident Collective, curve model, and body activist and we talk all about her journey to finding self confidence. I asked her if she thought everyone was born confident and then what happens along the way that lowers confidence. We talked about ways she was able to grow her confidence and find a new relationship with herself...

In today's episode I interview Life + Love Coach Jules Webber as she shares her incredible story of walking away from her marriage and reclaiming the relationship she has with herself. In this episode we discuss the difference between being single by default and then single by choice, we talk about walking away from friendships, the power of rock bottom, some tangible ways to improve the relations...

You hear a lot when you're going through something like a break up that you need to just "feel your feelings." But what does that even mean? How do you make sure you're taking the time to feel your feelings? That's what I'm talking about in today's episode. I discuss creating regular practices that put you in touch with your feelings, how to nurture your feelings instead of judging them, getting t...

Today is the first of the new series on the podcast where I interview real listeners of the podcast and have them share their break up stories. I'm kicking it off with sisters Gabby + Meagan who after going through break ups decided to start a company called Mooing On where they curate boxes of products to help women who are going through heartbreak. They share about their experience getting ghost...

In today's episode I talk all about getting stuck in the toxic cycle of breaking up and getting back together over and over and over again. We have all had that friend (or been that friend) that no one ever knows if they're with their ex or not. In the episode I talk about why it's so toxic and damaging to get stuck in that cycle, some ways to escape the cycle if you're stuck, and ways to prevent...

In today's episode I interview best-selling author, international speaker, and hugely successful business owner Danette May. In our interview Danette shares her life's refining moments including going through a divorce with $47 to her name- and how she turned her mess into a message that has impacted millions of people. We talk about how to embrace abundance instead of settling, we talk about how...

One of the things we can get obsessed about after a break up is trying to figure out whose fault it was. We can sometimes think that by figuring out whose to blame it will make the break up hurt less and make us feel more in control. In this episode I talk about why we always want to be able to point the finger at someone (even if it's at us), why it's not actually helpful to place blame, and the...

In today's episode I interview holistic health professional Gaby Piccirilli to talk all about how the energy of heartbreak and how to elevate your energy after going through a break up. In this episode we discuss why we feel emotional pain in our physical bodies, how to clear emotional energy out so it doesn't get stuck, we talk about how to raise your energy for future relationships and so much m...

Last week during my Thursday Q&A on Instagram someone submitted a question “what is the point of heartbreak?” my answer to that received so much feedback that I wanted to turn it into a full episode. In today’s episode I’ll talk about what I think the point of going through a break up is, and no I don’t believe the point of it is just to suffer. The point of break up is what that pain and suff...

In today's episode I interviewed self love advocate, energy healer, and astrologist Ramona Sidlo. We talk about what your birth chart is, sun, moon & rising signs, how you can use astrology as a tool to learn more about you, rituals to do around the new moons, what mercury retrograde is, and if astrology actually impacts compatibility.  To learn more about Ramona you can connect with her...

In today's episode I'm talking all about coming out of a relationship where your ex was emotionally unavailable. I talk about the different kinds/signs of emotional unavailability, a reminder that it doesn't mean you're not (fill in the blank) enough, I talk about the statement "if they wanted to they would", what it does NOT mean if you got broken up with this way, why you should not wait around,...

Today on the podcast I interview poet and transformative language artist, Joy Sullivan. If you're a listener of this podcast you know what a big fan and advocate I am for journaling and writing and in this episode Joy tells us exactly why writing is so powerful. We discuss how writing can help emotions move through you, how writing can help heal trauma, how to get started in a writing practice and...

In this episode I talk about what if your break up was out of a relationship that was great. You can't think of anything wrong with the relationship or your ex so you can't get angry and it doesn't make sense why you should let go. I go over how you can start moving through the break up, how to heal, I knock out some reservations you might have and more!    To find out which Break Up Bes...

Today I am interviewing my good friend Amanda Clark who is a professional organizer. We talk about how getting your space organized helps with your emotional and mental chatter, will give you a sense of peace, can boost your confidence, and that it's an act of self love. We also talk about her process on how to get organized, where to start, how to let go of things you no longer need, and more!&nb...

Is it normal to dream about my ex? How long do I have to practice No Contact for? My ex has some of my stuff, what do I do? Should I reach out to my ex on their birthday? When is it ok to start dating again? How is my ex already dating someone new? And more! In this episode I do a rapid fire of 10 of my most commonly asked questions about break ups. These are questions that I get DM'd about the mo...

In today's episode we are talking about cheating and infidelity with Dr. Morgan Cutlip. We had a really interesting discussion about the different reasons as to why people cheat, how common is cheating, how to recover from the betrayal of being cheated on, how to rebuild trust in future relationships, what signs to look for in dating, and I asked her is it true that once a cheater, always a cheate...

Today on the podcast I'm talking about how to overcome the fear of getting hurt again. Once you start to think about dating again post break up, the fear might hit of "I don't want to feel this pain again, what if I get dumped again, etc". In this episode I outline how to prepare yourself to make sure you are learning from your past relationships to make better choices and decisions moving forward...

This is the HIGHLY anticipated episode with Benjamin Daly who I know so many of you know and love. In this episode we talk about so many juicy topics- we cover why certain people won't commit, Benjamin's philosophy on dating, how to attract a high value partner, his thoughts on ghosting and more. Benjamin has such a great viewpoint on all things relationship, including one of my favorites "if he w...

Even if you aren’t in need of help breaking up with someone this episode will still be hugely beneficial. In today’s discussion I break down the best way to end a relationship with someone. I talk about how to know if it’s the right thing, how to prepare, how to have a graceful conversation, and how to best allow the other person space after you end it. If you’re someone who is going through a bre...