Having It A.L.L.

How do you deal with impatience? We all know the feeling of being impatient. We live in a culture today where we expect things to happen fast. But patience is one of those important qualities that has a direct impact on how we experience our work, families, health, and life. Today I answer a listener email about being a more patient person, and I share with you my tricks for becoming more patient...

In today’s episode I’m bringing you a great conversation I had with Adam Roa. What I found awesome about Adam was his humility. I think you'll dig this conversation because we were just two guys choppin it about how we can all love ourselves fully and unlock our superpowers. Links: You Are Who You’ve Been Looking For poem - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt5_3cbo31I Adam’s Website - http://www.ad...

How do you currently feel about your ability to juggle multiple priorities and competing responsibilities? It's incredibly easy to feel imbalanced when you feel you have many priorities all of equal importance. That's a recipe for feeling overwhelmed, stressed out and unfulfilled. In today's episode I share with you a simple process for learning how to prioritize your life and create balance amids...

What do you do when you find yourself totally out of balance and feeling the stress? Well, after you listen to today's podcast you can add the STOP Method to your toolbox! In today's episode I break down the STOP Method for de-stressing and reclaiming balance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you feeling like this idea of work/life balance is a pipe dream that you're just never going to achieve? In today's episode I'm covering 6 of the most common mistakes people make when trying to achieve work-life balance. One of the most frustrating things is feeling like you're always out of balance, and I don't want that for you. I'll be doing a whole series on balance over the coming weeks,...

How comfortable are you with speaking highly about yourself? For many people, talking highly about themselves (or even speaking kindly about themselves), is an incredibly challenging thing. In this episode I'm here to tell you that there's 100% absolutely nothing wrong with speaking highly of yourself! I talk about why it's important that we be our biggest hype man/woman. And at the end I do somet...

Who do you have in your corner helping you create your best life? It's a fallacy that we do anything in life alone. All of the greatest achievements -- personal, group, business, etc. -- happened with a team. The same is true for creating your dream life. When you have a team of amazing people around you, you can create and experience your dream life. But how do you go about assembling your Empowe...

How do you get yourself out of a funk? In today's episode I'm giving you a very simple and very effective method for getting yourself out of a funk, that you can do anywhere at any time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready for a raw and honest conversation about sexual confidence? Today I'm talking about sexual confidence and male performance anxiety: what it looks like, how it happens, how we feed it, and how we heal it. This episode was inspired by an article in Mens Health by Jason Rogers. In the powerful article, Jason opens up about his challenges with performance anxiety and how it impacted him i...

Are you feeling the pains of being a Type A personality? Do you feel like you're great at go, go, go but don't know how to take a break? Are you wondering how to create a business plan to launch your new venture? Or maybe you're in a business currently and want to take it to the next level through content like blogs, podcasts and vlogs? These are the questions I answer in today's episode of the po...

What games are you playing in life? Depending on your context around the word "game" you might answer this question in many ways. My response is MANY, because I believe we're all playing many games in our lives.....and we're all WINNING at the games we're playing! In today's bonus episode I'm sharing with you a not-so-secret (yet still super effective) strategy that top performers in all fields us...

Do you have toxic people in your life? How about in your inner circle? Are there folks in your life who are constantly bringing negativity and noise into your world? And what are the things you should be reviewing and thinking about when preparing for marriage? These are the questions I answer in today's episode of the podcast! The topics today were suggested by YOU and all have to do with OTHERS....

What does it mean to be your authentic self? How do you tackle moving through your biggest fears? What does the phrase "having it all" mean to you personally? Today's episode is a cool one, because I'm answering your questions about authenticity, fear and having it all! Over the next few episodes I'll be addressing questions and topics inspired directly from you, covering the areas of Self, Others...

Are you familiar with the mind-body connection? It's truly fascinating! Your mind and body are connected, and the former has a huge influence on the health and wellbeing of the latter. In today's episode I talk about the mind-body connection, particularly as it relates to the labels we wear on about ourselves. Chopra Center Article Link: https://chopra.com/articles/mind-body-connection-understandi...

When was the last time you were triggered by someone or something, and felt really uncomfortable? I had 2 conversations in the past few days that brought up some discomfort in me. One had to do with my money and the other had to do with my weight. It got me thinking - what has made you feel uncomfortable recently and are you willing to do something about it? Today I'm sharing the scenarios where I...

What are you doing that's keeping you stuck, playing small, in your denial or fearful? Yes, every "mistake" can be seen as a lesson which can lead to learning and growth, however if you're unaware of things you're doing which are keeping you in denial or feeding your ego, then the ultimate growth or healing you say you're playing for will not arise. In this episode I'm sharing 7 mistakes that I've...

How do you feel about your partner watching pornography? It's a topic that I wouldn't be surprised comes up in most relationships in some way. I know it certainly has in mine. On today's episode, Sarah joins me to answer a listener email about porn in relationships. This one gets real. It's also important I say that neither Sarah nor I are therapists, counselors or doctors, and that we're speaking...

How big is your money game? That's the question at the heart of today's episode. You see, there are many beliefs out there around money and personal self worth that impact your financial reality. Money is a topic that can be so complex because of all of the emotions we wrap up in it. So today's episode is sure to create a bit of friction within you! Having It A.L.L. Blueprint Online Course -- www....

Today's mini episode quotes are all about having personal standards in your life, and they come from Mastin Kipp, Joel Brown and Tony Robbins. Setting and holding personal standards are so important to me in fact, that they make up the final 3 sections of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your ad choices. Visit meg...

Today's quotes are all about the power of having a personal mission in your life, and come from Zig Ziglar and Victor Frankl. I'm a HUGE fan of personal mission statements (it's one of my most returned to topics on the podcast), and it's the subject of section 4 of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your ad choices....

"There is a lie that acts like a virus within the mind of humanity. And that lie is, ‘There’s not enough good to go around. There’s lack and there’s limitation and there’s just not enough.’ The truth is that .... there is enough for everyone." Today's quote is from Michael Beckwith and is about Abundance. Abundance Mentality & Environments are the subject of section 3 of the Having It A.L.L. Bluep...

Today's mini episode is all about TALENTS. Each of us have them. They're the skills we've learned over time, developed through practice and intention. When we are proactive about using them in our lives, we feel more accomplished and fulfilled. My course, the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint, launched this week, and to celebrate the launch I'll  be bringing you mini quote episodes throughout the rest of...

"When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier". That quote is from Roy E. Disney, and is the topic for today's special mini episode. My course, the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint, launched this week, and to celebrate the launch I'll be bringing you mini quote episodes throughout the rest of this week. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more...

Are you avoiding breakdowns in your life? You might be saying "Of course I do, why wouldn't I?" Well, buckle up because in today's episode I'm letting you know that if you're living a life of avoiding breakdowns (not being your authentic self, not speaking your truth, not sharing boldly, not asking for what you want, not stepping into the ring), then you cannot expect to experience massive breakth...

What is your personal mission in life? Why do you get out of bed and do what you do each day? I talk a lot about personal mission statements in this podcast. I believe in the power of a personal mission statement. I've seen how having one for the past 6 years has shaped my life, and I've witnessed the power they unlock within my clients. On today's episode I'm rebroadcasting an awesome conversatio...