Happy Place

In this deep conversation with Tah Whitty , a former emergency room nurse of 25+ years turned coach and facilitator, we explore the nuanced realities of consent beyond simple “yes” and “no.” Together, we unpack the hidden dynamics of expectations, disappointment, people-pleasing, and the roles of victim, rescuer, and villain that often shape intimate interactions. This episode invites a more matur...

Shibari isn’t therapy. And it isn’t magic. But when held with presence, intention, and emotional intelligence, it can become a powerful doorway into self-awareness and transformation. In this conversation with shibari artist and somatic intimacy guide Kati Bird, we explore the intersection of shibari, healing, and emotional attunement. We talk about: • why technique alone is not enough • what most...

We often talk about shadow as something dark - anger, jealousy, shame, the parts of us that feel too messy or socially unacceptable to show. But there is also another kind of shadow that rarely gets the same attention, and that’s the qualities we admire in others to the point of putting them on pedestal, secretly envying them, or feeling like we’re somehow not quite enough to ever become that. In...

"This is my happy place!" Rina. In this episode, Rina explores the concept of conscious play parties, breaking down common myths and misconceptions surrounding them. She emphasizes the importance of intimacy, self-awareness, and personal responsibility in creating a fulfilling experience at these gatherings. Rina shares her insights on preparing for a play party, the different types of events, and...

In this conversation, Rina explores the concept of intimacy as a skill that can be trained rather than merely a reaction to stress or loneliness. She discusses the societal tendency towards consumption in intimacy, the importance of education in fostering deeper connections, and the evolving role of intimacy workers. Rina emphasizes the need for a shift from quick fixes to meaningful relationships...

Shibari didn’t start as liberation for either of us. It became one - slowly, painfully, honestly. In this episode with Anastasia (Voudou Ropes) we talk about: – learning Shibari as women in a male-dominated culture – the danger of intensity without attunement – how rope can either traumatize or transform – why some journeys need storms… and others need lakes No script. No performance. Just truth,...

Do you  actually  feel at home in your home? In this episode, Rina speaks with architect and author  Talor Stewart , creator of  Conscious Home Design , about how your space can support your happiness, relationships, and daily rituals. You’ll learn simple, practical ways to turn any apartment or house into a nourishing “happy place” — using light, layout, and intention, not big...

In this juicy and transformational episode, Rina sits down with  Darshana Avila, Erotic Wholeness Guide , to explore the one skill most people never learn but desperately need:  how to receive . Together, they dive into why so many women (and men) struggle to take in the very things they say they want—pleasure, connection, intimacy, desire, emotional safety—and how cultural conditioning,...

Most people try to be attractive through looks or confidence, but the real source of magnetism is developing a personal superpower — a skill or presence that allows you to connect, attune, and offer value to others from fullness, not neediness. In this episode, Rina explores how attunement, embodied skills, and conscious practices like touch, Shibari, energy work, and empathic listening can make y...

One of the greatest discoveries of my life has been realizing that my sacred center is a portal—to pleasure, healing, intimacy, and ultimately, to God. In this episode, I share the journey that began when I was 23, receiving my first sacred massage in Thailand, and how that experience transformed numbness into bliss and redefined my relationship with sexuality. Together, we’ll explore: The stages...

In this episode, Rina and Suriya Nikko explore the foundations of female pleasure through the lens of pelvic floor health and sacred intimacy. You’ll learn how the pelvic floor influences arousal and wellbeing, why presence and attunement are essential for deepening intimacy, and how ancient tantric wisdom meets modern understanding of the body. Chapters 00:00 Exploring Female Pleasure 01:21 Under...

What does it  really  take for women to have multiple orgasms? In this intimate solo episode, I open up about my own self-pleasure journey, my path as a Tantric bodyworker, and the wisdom I’ve gathered from guiding women through yoni massage and intimacy coaching for the past 8+ years. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why women are  designed  for multiple orgasms (and why most...

“I didn’t know what it’s like to touch my wife in a devotional way,” a client once confessed after a yoni massage lesson. He and his wife had been trapped in a cycle - his lust clashing with her withdrawal. Moments of release left only fleeting relief but lingering tension. This episode is about that shift - from lustful touch to devotional touch - and why it changes everything. In this episode, y...

The world is full of masks and illusions — so how do we keep our hearts open without being devoured? In this episode, Rina explores the fine line between innocence and naïveté, and how true vulnerability is never about blind surrender. She unpacks the danger of being “too trusting” — recalling Professor William McMorran’s study of Marquis de Sade, who deliberately preyed on the naïve. But just as...

In this episode, I open up about what happens when the hustle takes over — when life feels like endless to-do lists and I stop feeling like a human being. Instead of pushing harder, I’ve learned to pause, to listen, and to return to myself through rituals of self-love and self-pleasure. We’ll explore how slowing down, tending to the body, and creating sacred space for pleasure can be the medicine...

"When the world is at war, art becomes the battlefield of the soul." Your Rina welcomes Taty Limati, a Ukrainian Shibari artist who is her mentor, to explore the profound role of shibari in times of war and adversity. Tati shares her experiences teaching Shibari in Ukraine amidst ongoing conflict, highlighting how art becomes a sanctuary and a powerful form of expression. Through cultural performa...

In this engaging conversation, Rina and Kinsey delve into the intricate relationship between kink, erotic humiliation, and the societal shame often associated with sexuality. They explore how embracing vulnerability and open communication can transform shame into empowerment, allowing individuals to explore their desires in a safe and loving environment. The discussion highlights the importance of...

In this episode, Rina and Monique Darling explore the concept of Sacred Surrender, delving into their personal journeys and the transformative power of surrender in their lives. They discuss the role of Tantra in fostering self-acceptance and vulnerability, the importance of authenticity in relationships, and the challenges of surrendering to one's true self. The conversation highlights the signif...

In this conversation, Rina shares her personal journey of exploring and actualizing her kinky fantasies, emphasizing how these experiences can lead to healing and personal growth. She discusses the importance of understanding and embracing our subconscious desires, the therapeutic nature of kink, and how confronting taboo fantasies can empower individuals. Through case studies and personal reflect...

In this conversation, Rina Trevi and Gabriel Ortiz delve into the art of Shibari, exploring its emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions. Gabriel shares his journey from curiosity to becoming a Shibari practitioner, highlighting the profound experiences that shaped his path. They discuss the importance of intention in Shibari, the balance between softness and intensity, and the unique styles...

What if the hottest pleasure came from what you  can’t  have? 🔥 In this episode, we’re teasing the mind and body with the delicious torment of taboo role play &   orgasm denial.  It’s not just about frustration—it’s about building anticipation, deepening surrender, and unlocking pleasure in ways you never imagined. We’ll dive into: 💋 Why holding back can make release&nbsp...

What happens when you remove all external distractions and turn your full attention inward? In this special Valentine’s episode, I share my transformational experience at the  Temple of I —a play party where participants were invited to engage only with themselves, cultivating deep self-love and adoration. Skeptical at first, I soon found myself in a profound state of self-worship—seeing my o...

What is Tantra actually? In this enlightening conversation, Rina and Michael delve into the multifaceted world of Tantra, exploring its true essence beyond common misconceptions. Michael is Rina's former teacher of yoga and on-dual tantra. They discuss the historical context of Tantra, its spiritual practices, and the often misunderstood association with sexuality. Michael shares insights on the d...

In this insightful episode, Rina Trevi interviews Masha Dugina, a Love and Intimacy Coach and Menstruality Mentor, to explore the art of conscious menstruality and the wisdom of aligning with our natural rhythms. Masha shares her expertise on embracing the seasons of the menstrual cycle and how tuning into these phases can bring harmony, appreciation, and bliss into our lives. For women, Masha off...

Difficult conversations can feel like navigating a minefield, but what if you had tools to approach them with clarity and care? In this episode,  Safe Words Aren't Just for Play: Navigating Triggering Topics , we explore the art of consciously choosing when to lean into challenging discussions—and when it’s wiser to pause and protect your peace. Learn how to create consensual, respectful dial...