Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Sometimes we feel full of self confidence and want to take on the world. Things are going right for us at work, with friends, at home - life is great. But then it falls flat and we lose our confidence. Why? This episode discusses how to be confident in a way that lasts... Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support . In our coachi...

How are women like horses? Could a horse help you learn how to lead your relationship more effectively? We believe that yes, absolutely they can. In fact there's a whole field of psychology that uses horses for healing. Stated simply, to be successful with horses (and wives) you have to learn a whole new language. You have to learn a whole new perspective on what she NEEDS. You have to learn that...

I believe how well we push our sexual edge is a direct reflection of how well we are living our life. What’s a sexual edge? It’s that part of our sensual and sexual nature where we feel the most alive, driven and creative. We know we’re on the edge when we feel inspired – not anxious. We’re pulsing with intense desire and ambition. We feel focused and directed with no patience for distractions. A...

How do you know whether next year is going to be crappy? You can think about all the things that went wrong last year, all the things that you didn't want to happen, all the things that you didn't like, or that made you uncomfortable. It's okay to make a list of the things that you don't want but don't let it sabotage your mojo. That focus on the negative can stop you knowing what you do want, whi...

All you want is for her to return your affection. So you show her how much you care. You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper her with massages and make sure she has all the money she needs so she can get herself anything she wants. But she's distant and unresponsive. In this episode I explain the KEY REASON why nice guys get no loving and why doing LESS instead of MORE is...

Have you ever given a compliment to you wife or partner only for them to become offended or more cold and distant from you? in this episode I discuss the difference between acknowledging your partner for what she does versus acknowledging her for who she is. Complimenting a woman for who she is not just what she does, makes all the difference in the world and you have to be authentic with it. You...

This episode explains why you don't have to be a jerk to be a confident, independent man. Your marriage and all your relationships will be more stable, more happy and more affectionate when you are operating from a place of confident independence. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support . In our coaching, we help men get a pow...

In relationships we men can avoid being vulnerable, and that's a problem because when you want connection with another human being, you have to be willing to be real and honest and that means being willing to make mistakes, look weak, accept when you're wrong or be willing to accept another person's version of events (even if your version is different). In this episode I talk about why I run men's...

I get asked this question all the time: "Steve, what's your success rate in fixing screwed up marriages and wives?" In this episode, find out how you can avoid staying in an unhappy marriage and live to your full potential. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support . In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that e...

Has your wife or partner told you she wants some space? Maybe she's said she's feeling stressed or smothered. That she's not sure what she wants right now or that she needs some time to figure out who she is. Don't worry, we hear this ALL THE TIME and we help guys understand why and what she needs from you to turn this around. It takes some confidence to do it though and that's what we help men br...

You know that you're not happy in your marriage. You know that your wife isn't happy either. So why can't you just have those difficult conversations that will clean out your issues and allow you both to move forward together? In this episode I discuss how to change this and get what you want.. Here is the link to the article mentioned in this video. https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the...

Horse hate pressure - and so do women. Learn more about why and what you can do differently. Do you know how to create positive emotional pressure? Do you know how to attract women with positive sexual tension? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support . In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you t...

There is a guaranteed libido killer that us men don't realize we're doing especially in a long term romantic relationship when our partner is being less affectionate, less connected, less open and getting quiet. That behaviour makes us twitchy and nervous. You see the problem is that in every other area of life we are successful and confident, when a problem arises, we knock it out of the park - y...

Wouldn’t it be nice if being vulnerable with your wife was easy? Sure, it would. So would financial freedom, effortless sex and world peace and, like those, it’s a lot more complicated than you would like. In this episode I talk about WHY women struggle with men being vulnerable and when you're in a relationship that's struggling, where you need to take that vulnerability... Here's the article I m...

Has your wife stopped being affectionate toward you? Does she say that she doesn't enjoy being touched? Is she creating distance between you? There are reasons for her behaviour and it's not that she doesn't love you. I explain more in this episode... Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support . In our coaching, we help men get a...

What if you were so confident in yourself and your relationship that you could turn down sex with your wife...? Can you ever imagine that? In this episode I talk about why we see this happen with our coaching clients as they go through our confidence program and what's the key difference that happens which transforms them from "needing" sex to "attracting" all types of intimacy including sex. Beco...

What do you do when YOU'VE started becoming more calm, more confident and consistent as a man and leader in your marriage or relationship and you're clear about what you want and what you expect FOR yourself in your next 30 years? Many of the men we coach find this a difficult time. The woman they have been trying to connect with, who had been pushing them away, now wants to reconsider and is chas...

I want to talk with you about your mindset. It’s everything. And without the proper mindset, well, we’re pretty much screwed in every facet of life. The wrong mindset can rob you of the future you secretly want. It holds your future hostage until you pay the ransom. It’s a steep price. You must make a decision and a choice to change it – no matter what. Your mindset can be the negative, self-limit...

Do you know the feeling of being rejected by a woman? Whether it's through your family, your work or (as with most of us men) from your romantic partner, rejection is a tough thing to deal with. In this episode I talk about the way feminine rejection can trigger us and make us feel shame and attacked or that we've done something wrong in some way, and what to do to move through those feelings and...

Do you avoid your partner when she's angry? Do you try to avoid creating conflict as much as possible. In this episode I explain why she hates that, how it makes her feel and why it's damaging her affection and attraction to you. Plus what you can do in these situations which will reduce their regularity, improve your self confidence around her AND build her trust and attraction to you. Become a s...

Are you a good guy who appears to everyone else to be a happy husband but really underneath it all, you're NOT happy and you're especially not happy about the state of your marriage? In this episode I talk about what's really going on in us men when we find ourselves in this position and how to go about changing it... Here's the article I mentioned in the video: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/fed-u...

When your relationship is having difficulties, the natural thing to want to try and do is to fix it but how can you when everything you do appears to be wrong? In this episode I discuss why changing your focus away from her and onto people and activities that inspire you will give your relationship the best chance of surviving. Here's the article I mention in the video: https://goodmenproject.com/...

Are you in an affectionless marriage? Many men (myself included) find themselves 15, 20 years into a marriage and wondering "Is this it???" They poke and prod to see if they can get more enthusiasm and commitment from their wife and occasionally they do...but then it's back to the normal routine. In this episode I talk about how I changed that in my life and how I'd like to help you do the same......

Is your discomfort with “dirty talk” affecting the depth of intimacy you have with your wife? One of the biggest reasons women are uncomfortable with our compliments and sensual talk is because we are uncomfortable. Why? Because of how she may react. In this episode I talk about the reasons why we struggle with dirty talk and how to bring some of that edginess into your relationship without making...

When your wife is pulling away, doesn't know what she wants, is inconsistent, sometimes affectionate, sometimes cold and snarky...what do you do? In this episode I talk about a man who went through coaching with me and ended up creating a wonderful relationship with a woman who was fully invested and committed to creating something amazing with him. Here's the link to the article I mention in the...