Girls Gone Deep

This week, Elle and Vee chat with OG sexual wellness icon Pamela Madsen on all things erotic. From extended orgasmic states to the joy of adult play, and how cultivating your erotic persona can transform your sex life. Plus, hear about the Oprah-featured Lotus Lift Meditation and what men can do to truly empower the women in their lives.  Pulling from so much experience, Pamela had some serious wi...

How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be...

Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette! Gemini Bach Bash (00:00) Theme nights (04:54) Seal team slut olympics (06:32) Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12) Thursday Night Highlights (28:01) Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37) Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex   (3...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond...

In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into their recent experiences in ENM, sharing naughty stories, recent personal growths and lesson learned.  Jewelry Mishaps and Lingerie Inconveniences During Sex.  (00:00) Top Floor Play Party Intentions: New Play Partner, New Location, Plus Pushing Exhibitionist Boundaries. (5:48) The Art of the Stacking: Creative Sexual Positions with 4 people (Porn Star Wolf...

For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper!   Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices.  What is International Whores Day? (3:58) Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12) Spirituality and Religio...

This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don’t talk about (but definitely should). What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42) Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10) Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40) Cock stroking. (14:15) Does solo play take away from par...

This week, Vee and Elle delve into their experiences with vulnerability, impact play, and the emotional complexities that arise during kinky encounters. From flogging techniques, to primal play, to collecting cum, squirt juice, a spit chalice, and even scat play, the girls don’t hold back, in their signature style.  Crygasm, Vulnerability and Emotional Releases in Spanking Session (00:00) Flogging...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door. What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04) Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09) Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57) How can you start exploring your...

This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more!   Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00)  Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19) Embracing Your Inner Sl...

In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy . Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventuro...

In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Liv Love: sex writer, sex educator and swinger, and new friend from Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025! They focus on bisexuality, labels, performance anxiety, shame, strap on sex ... and a play-by-play of how to go from zero to orgasm. This is a no-holds-barred conversation about questioning your bisexuality, pussy insecurities, and so much more!  Lack of conf...

In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into Elle's Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 experience, sharing spicy stories, communication hiccups, and the evolution of their desires in the lifestyle. They explore boundaries, consent, group play dynamics, and the rediscovery of feminine energy — all while navigating connection, frustration, and the value of both solo and shared intimacy. Introduction to He...

This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing.  They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations...

This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything?  Fingering: yay or nay? Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion. How many fi...

What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00) The Intensity of Emotional Processing.  (07:25) The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38) Elle’s Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07) Masculine and Feminine. (27:00)  No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55) People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44) Shadow Work: Elle’s Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (...

50 Shades of Gold   Calling all women to join this sexually transformative event! Click here for details!  This week, the girls chat with Marz, who is the copilot of Top Floor , a curated members-only community for those embracing alternative relationship dynamics, kink, and sex-positive exploration. They give all the top tips from the Cunnilinguistics workshop Marz facilitated in which Vee was th...

Navigating the Lifestyle: Starting out as a Manicorn (00:00) Hot Wifing vs. Cuckolding (4:54) The Role of the Third: Enhancing Couples' Experiences & Feelings of Loneliness (6:44) Lessons Learned: Mistakes as a Single Guy (10:32) Transitioning to a Couple: Finding Balance in the Lifestyle (15:35) Is it easier to make connections with a hot chick on your arm now? (17:57 ) Age is just a num...

This week, the girls don't hold back in this uncensored chat about ejaculating in the vagina and the ass! From the drip to the taboo nature to the benefits of being fluid bonded with a partner, listen in for some x-rated and deep reflections on cream pies.  Elle’s “perfect porn pussy” and toilet paper mishaps. (00:40) Cream Pies: Vee and Elle’s first times and experience level with it. (5:18)...

Cleo’s story: tantric certification; somatic approach to sex love and relationship coaching. (0:40) Somatic Embodiment Practices: How do we uncover our blockages through somatic work? The felt sense. Can you do this work in couples too? (4:19) Erotic Blueprints: Sexual, Sensual, Energetic, Kinky, Shapeshifter; and how erotic blueprints can change throughout life and depending on the partner. (9:49...

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on their December adventures, focusing on their experiences with friends and breastmilk, parenthood, BDSM and spreading assholes. Welcome to the ride!  Chapters Cancun, three Babies and A Hotel room. (00:00) What That Breast Milk Do? A Gameshow of Breast Milk Play. (4:20)  Navigating Parenthood and Intimacy.  (14:55)  Fear of Missing out: Vee’s FOMO evolution...

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with the founder and "co-pilot" of Top Floor , "an upscale play party and community free of pretense" in Manhattan.  “No Takers”: What does this ethos mean? What does Top Floor look for in their guests?  Premium Upscale Vibe = Premium Pricing? The community of volunteering and serving the vibe of the party.  Guiding Principles of Top Floor. Fr...

In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their friends' holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had!   Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23) Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22) Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills...

In this episode of Girls Gone Deep, Vee and Elle welcome Amber Grubenmann , a dating coach and host of the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. (Fun fact: Vee’s dating coach!) Get ready for practical tools, thought-provoking questions, and memorable metaphors to help you master effective, high-quality, confident, and time-saving dating—so you can get what you want. Chapters :  Introduction...

In this episode, the girls catch up after New Year's Eve: Elle's was intimate with a handful of friends checking things off their fuckit lists, and Vee's was more community-based at a big party in New York City.  Part audio smut, part deep chats, the girls give all the details from the orgies to the reflections afterwards.  Elle’s New Years Eve gang bang! (1:39) Being used vs being...