Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

Rebekah Buege was once shamed for her inability to orgasm with a particular partner. That relationship brought body image issues to the surface. Navigating the challenges led her to more pleasure and confidence, as well as her career.    A few things you'll learn:   How Rebekah dealt with orgasm challenges and her partner's shaming—and how she'd dealt with a similar occurrence more recently   A co...

CK Love thought she was finally "fully open" in her sensuality when a breakup prompted her to dig deeper. Babe West has flourished since entering the porn industry for work that varies greatly from her survival sex work earlier on.   Learn more about this episode's guests: CK Love: restlessspiritproductions.com Babe West: thebabewest.com   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/gi...

Pleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces "magical sex," and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same.   In addition to Frank's personal journey, you'll learn:   What "magical sex" is, including 4 stages Activities that can deepen pleasure...

After a difficult pregnancy, traumatic childbirth and near death experience, Renée Schuls-Jacobson endured "next level insomnia." Little did she know the dark places her attempts to feel better would lead.    For seven years she took medications as prescribed, not realizing the drug was intended for short-term use or that she'd grown dependent. Meanwhile, she tried to make her marriage, which lack...

Emotional connection before sexual chemistry, love without the heirarchy and more! August shares highlights from her 2019 conversation with Carolina Hoyos, an Afro-Indigenous (Quechua-Kichwa) actor, playwright, director, songwriter and voice artist.    You'll learn about:   Carolina's sexual empowerment journey Common myths about demisexuality Common myths about bisexuality Carolina's coming out (...

Author Kandi Steiner was leaning toward no more casual sex when an experience with a friend bolstered that decision. She now creates female characters who voice their desires. Adult star turned author, Logan Pierce, learned similar lessons the hard way. And erotic fiction can help inspire steamier experiences. Take it from writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel.   A few more things you'll learn a...

After using dating apps for 10 years, author Shani Silver gave them up and gained surprising, life-shifting rewards. Therapist Kerry Cohen has learned to navigate life and relationships while managing sex and love addiction, terms that remain common and controversial.    A few things you'll learn about:   What finally prompted Shani to give up dating apps Her advice for anyone feeling miserably de...

Dr. Heather Bartos was well into her career when her husband stopped desiring sex. Navigating a sexless marriage opened up old wounds and led her to look deeply at her sex-related beliefs.    A few more things you'll learn about:   What Dr. Bartos learned about sex growing up in the '80s in Texas The most common sex-related challenge she hears about in her office 5 factors that fuel low sexual des...

Why resolve to something diminishing when you can set your sights on something spicier? Dr. Sakshi Tickoo , a queer, Brown, chronically disabled occupational therapist and a sexuality counselor who's based in Mumbai, India, joined August to explore smart sexuality aspirations to consider as we move toward 2022.    A few things you'll learn about:   How (and why) to create a pleasure toolkit Sex go...

Dr. Jordin Wiggins grew up in a small Canadian town where her sex education involved, "don't do it." Later on, after setting her sights on a fulfilling sex life, she lost her libido twice. She found her way back and now teaches other women and vulva owners to never settle for bad sex and to value their pleasure and desires.    You'll learn about:   The importance of understanding your (or a partne...

Nadia North grew up in Wisconsin and considers herself a late bloomer in the sex department. When she met and entered a relationship with porn legend, Peter, she had no idea how abusive he would become.    Seth S. grew up as a highly sensitive kid in California, where he endured a sexual assault from an older boy. For years, that abuse affected his beliefs about male sexuality.   Nadia is early in...

Lisa and Mike attended an upscale sex party at the Bocanegra Club that challenged beliefs they had about such parties and taught them important lessons. Journalist Ryn Pfeiffer took a Bodysex workshop that led to an orgasmic retreat and weekly self-pleasure circles.   Learn more about Bocanegra Club .   Follow Ryn on Instagram ( @Ryn_says ) or work with via Sextpanther .    Check out the latest sp...

Eroticism, pleasure, growth! Rae McDaniel , a non-binary gender and sex therapist-turned-coach, went from growing up in a conservative Christian community to embracing their queerness and finding erotic bliss in an unexpected place. They now support others on similar journeys.   A few more things you'll learn about:   Rae's journey through painful sex Gender stereotypes that stand in the way of se...

Kristopher Lovestone grew up learning a lot about menstruation, later earned his "red wings" and now has strong feelings about period sex. Makenzie Mizell has had many ups and downs with her periods, including a form of sexual freedom and relationship (red and green) flags.   A few more things you'll learn about:   How folks August surveyed about period sex feel about it Valid reasons folks avoid...

Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and knows a lot about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts.    To hear August's full, unedited conversation with Erik and takeaways from Niba's over 200 first dates, join the Girl Boner community on Patreon, where you'll get exclusive access to archived interviews, bonus segments, A...

Guiding with excerpts from Girl Boners gone by (past interviews), August explores important facts, common myths and pervasive challenges involving the Big O.    A few things you'll learn about in the episode:   An orgasm issue that's frequently discussed in sex therapy The fluidity of orgasms Orgasms as an active versus passive process Accessories that can bolster orgasmic bliss   Learn more about...

Author Sarah Fader was perplexed about sex early on, but she now finds solace and confidence in her sexuality. She also manages multiple mental health conditions and writes books and articles aimed at helping others better thrive.    A few things you'll learn about in the episode:   How sex can be nourishing when you're stressed, anxious or depressed (and not wanting sex is just fine and common, t...

Frances, aka "Captain Awkward," and content creator, Andrew Gurza, journeyed into careers involving sex and other stigmatized topics. Learn how Dripstick, which went viral on TikTok, came to be and what it's like to speak openly and perform in porn as a queer, disabled person.    Follow us on Instagram: @awkwardessentials @andrewgurza_ @girlbonermedia    Automatically save 15% on your first Promes...

Solo play, spicy bits, releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story.   Follow us on Instagram: @feministbookclubbox @notesbyniba @girlbonermedia    Shop at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/   Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlbo...

Alicia Davon was studying psychology when she met Erwan, a man who was teaching workshops about the "extended orgasm." She's since become a relationship coach who teaches others all about this sensual practice.   A few things you'll learn about:   Alicia's first experience with extended orgasm How extended orgasms differ from traditional orgasms How Alicia and Erwan became more than acquaintances...

A few things you'll learn about:   How submission and powerfulness aren't mutually exclusive! The pitfalls and pleasures of hers-and-hers squirting What it was like for Liz to pass as straight Ways sexual self-discovery and embodiment can enhance your life   Learn more about Lee Noto:  https://www.leenoto.com   Becomethehighpriestess.com   Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips : https...

A few things you'll learn about:   How With Pleasure came together, and turned into a "very meta" experience How Jamila came up with the title that stuck Why pleasure practices are important during difficult times  What "bodily divergence" means, in terms of sex and pleasure The importance of community while managing trauma Real pleasure practices, from several survivors featured in the book!   Or...

A few things you'll learn about:   What the Clit Talk gals learned about sex early on The difference clitoris type and size make in pleasure How to give or receive more clitoral pleasure What you can expect from the Clit Talk crew's sexual empowerment course Empowering sex tips from Lindsey, Katie and Sugar   Shop at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/   Support the show and get fun...

A few things you'll learn about:   A condition that can be a natural part of aging What makes penile symptoms signs of a "disorder" The basics of Balanitis, Priapism, Paraphimosis, Peyronie's disease, premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction  How porn use fueled Gabe Deem 's ED  How Peyronie's disease impacted Don Cummings' relationship with his partner and sense of self What inspired Dr. Ga...

Anal sex can be awesome with some smart planning. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll learn:   Differences between anal sex in porn and in real life Ways to ensure cleanliness, especially if you're nervous about poo Painful mistakes to avoid Tips for maximizing pleasure and choosing an ideal toy More!   Check out the featured guests' work:   https://www.instagram.com/therealvickichase/ https:...