Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

Jade Chang Sheppard was nearing 40 when she started wondering if she was living life to the fullest, including sexually. Was monogamy really her best option? Was she actually bi? Or kinky? What was group sex like?    Rather than seeing the exploration and life changes that followed as a crisis or breakdown, she's embraced it all as a revolution. This episode, the first of four summer replays while...

Ebony Mystique shifted from a medical career to starring in adult films, where she used a vibrator for the first time. Deborah Kagan went "on a mission" to find her G-spot, using a special toy.   More from Ebony: https://hoo.be/ebonymystique   More from Deborah: https://deborahkagan.co   IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner     patreon....

Suzannah Weiss had a psychic reading that made her wonder if the sex mishap she and her soon-to-be ex experienced was predestined. Zachary Zane went through a breakup that changed his approach to relationships. His next one brought heartache in a shocking way.    Suzannah's' books: https://suzannahweiss.com/book Zachary's book: https://www.zacharyzane.com/books   Check out the latest specials at t...

Dr. Diane Mueller traded sexual pain for pleasure, then explored polyamory twice before reclaiming monogamy in a sexier, more intentional way. After her story, hear her top tips for spicing up a monogamous (or any long term) relationship.    Learn more about Dr. Diane Mueller and take her libido quiz at libidocode.com . Join her hot and modern monogamy club or get her free e-book at hotterlife.com...

Lilith Foxx and Lea Levi are sexuality experts whose journeys started with a lot of silence and shaming around sex and led to both spicy exploration and celibacy. After a rocky dating history, podcast producer, Makenzie Mizell, married herself. This episode briefly mentions intimate partner/domestic violence and touches on the feminist 4B movement. Listen after the outro music for a funny BTS stor...

What if there are parts of your sexuality just waiting to be untapped? Can kink and spirituality coexist? Answering these questions for herself changed Darshana Avila's life.  Always precocious, Darshana explored her sexuality from early on. After a "very vanilla" marriage and a spiritual awakening, she delved into kink. As she sought more from sex, she learned a lot about her desires and her iden...

Suzannah Weiss was already writing about sex and relationships when she began a mission to experience orgasm during partnered sex. Judy Calabrese never expected to go down a lust-filled path with her doula—but sometimes, things…happen. (Originally released in 2022.) Learn more from both women: suzannahweiss.com   judycalabrese.com The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel K...

Susan Morgan Taylor was always a very sexual person, but shame and a lack of pleasure education stood in the way. After a sexless marriage, several epiphanies and a very surprising phone call changed everything. Learn more about Susan Morgan Taylor and her retreats at pathwaytopleasure.com . Get her free resource, The Pleasure Keys Ebook, at pleasurekeys.com . Check out the latest specials at thep...

One Dominant partner, one submissive, and a whole lot of spicy fun. Domina Mara and her pup, and Eireann Shells and her partner, engage in kinky D/s play in very different ways. Learn how Mara and her pup delight in their Dominant/butler-like relationship, and how Eireann cultivated a 24/7 power exchange dynamic with her crossdressing Daddy.   Eireann's sexy stories: The Adventures of Waverly Good...

Ayce Kyptyn grew up in a conservative Christian environment, where he struggled to embrace his true self. When depression followed a major life change, he knew he needed support. Working with a therapist and then a sex coach helped change everything, shedding light on his desires and much more. Then he had another awakening during an erotic massage. Learn more about Ayce: https://www.aycekyptyn.co...

Writer April Would felt shame for being a virgin in young adulthood. When she realized her relationship with her "first time" partner wouldn't last, April questioned a lot of what they'd learned about sex and their own desires. Eventually, April delved into sex work and audio erotica, which brought even more epiphanies – and more chances to work through shame. Check out April's story in Best Women...

Globally touring recording artist, Lachi, wasn't sure what orgasms were when she left the U.S. for boarding school overseas. After exploring her sexuality for a while, she realized what Big Os really entail. That awakening set the stage for greater confidence, in and outside of the bedroom. In addition to Lachi's story, you'll get  her top tips for cultivating confidence and feeling sexy. More fro...

Five years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don't Know My Life . They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You'll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along!  This episode features: Erin Tillman  https://erintillman.com IG: @dati...

What if jealousy isn't a monster after all? Dr. Joli Hamilton had built a career studying and helping others navigate jealousy when her own "green eyes" impacted her sexuality in ways she'd never imagined.  You'll also hear about Joli's sexual self-discovery journey, an epiphany during her first marriage that changed everything, and her top advice for anyone struggling with jealousy -- whether you...

Both Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things.   Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at https://www.se...

Somatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them.   Hear Charlotte Mia Rose's story in the previous episode .    Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of pleasuremechanics.com . Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, here !   Access your FREE Listenin...

Charlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte's world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect.    Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the proce...

Ginelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was "very sexualized" in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman.   Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle's with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo's with online dating. An...

When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better.    In addition to Rena's story, you'll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that's especially helpf...

Mattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships.    This episode touches on:   Childhood trauma Masturbation and self-pleasure Ways purity culture harms women, men a...

Suzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center.    Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off...

Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story.    The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories!   Explore the latest specials at theple...

When Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they'd have a great time. But she didn't expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she'd later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their true stories, plus related advice. More from Alicia...

Carol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity.   Get The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Grea...

Discovering squirting, a misplaced squirt, a misplaced condom and some trippy mind games… This "OMG" round of Girl Boner sex and relationship stories features:   Lala, of Lala's Bedtime Tales Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, of Sluts and Scholars Makenzie Mizell, media producer Carly, of Aurore And August   Check out Afternoon Delight: https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/offers/ESbAz2o5/checkout   Explor...