Ghosted My Therapist

In this episode KB is breaking down enabling and upstream intervention. She has a history with enabling and supporting bad behavior and also trying to be the hero and help people. Unfortunately it doesn't often work out... none the less it's important to hold people accountable and be a true friend to someone, even when it's hard. Loving someone is an action. This action is sometimes uncomfortable...

In this episode KB talks about the shaming of sex workers and how dating apps are not the way to date right now. We need to be out and about.

In this episode KB talks about her recent dating experiences and how serious they are. She wants to make it fun again. Bring some whimsy to the game.

In this epi KB talks about standing on business. You're an adult you have to figure out your values and stand on that. Eff the Bechdel test IRL, men are a part of our village. Support your village and stop supporting the patriarchy.

In this episode KB talks about dating, growing up, and the importance of community. Shoutout to Frank who really made an impact without realizing it. What is this ep about? Nothing.

In this episode KB talks about how the world isn't made for single people, how she feels the pressure to couple up, and an some of the interesting characters she matched with on the dating apps. Are the apps for her? Probably not, let's be honest. She is meant to be an extroverted girly out in the world. She also discusses the importance of grounding and touching grass... go do it... right now.

In this eppie KB is raging and worrying about the war, AI, and our class differences. She questions how people get so distanced from the average American. This is a rambling episode but hopefully it makes sense.

KB went to Mardi Gras and realized the solo life can be... well... a lot of alone time. She delves into taking trips for yourself and driving your life and not just chasing people all of the time. The goal for 2026 is driving. Driving our lives and following through.

In this episode KB explores what's been going on the last few years. She gives some updates and also talks about her new years goals. She wants a platonic, hetero, male friend... impossible or???

Being a human is really hard and in the U.S. we're hyper-independent. What we don't realize is that humans have evolved to be interdependent. KB talks about how relying on people isn't a bad thing. It is a way to bond. She is sick of people acting like independence is the ultimate goal in life. Do we want to be sad or do we want to be in community?

In this epi KB talks about ghosting and cancelling plans... Dating app guys are the worst about it. Why do they do this? She got some input from a tinder man. Find out what he said.

In this epi KB talks about how she needs to leave space for people to meet her where she is at. She is too go with the flow, which can be a super power, but also is a problem sometimes. She also talks about how many situationships devolve into the man trauma dumping all over her. Women need to stop being every man's therapist. You don't know them well enough to know their trauma! Just because you...

In this episode KB talks about how she is newly single. In her singleness she has gotten back into therapy with a new therapist and stumbled upon a finsub (financial submissive). Should she become a dom? She is out here just doing it for the plot and learning all she can learn along the way.

In this episode KB talks to her friend Carson as they move her up to Rochester, NY. They talk about life transitions and how it's all going... for both of them, it is not going well... lol

In this episode KB and Thomas are in the new subiiiii! No more truck which is sad but the subi get's great mileage (not an ad). They talk racist jokes, Tiger Woods being sexist, and what is and isn't funny.

KB got laid off last week so here are some tips to dealing with a work breakup... or any kind of breakup... Featuring Thomas calling in to give his tips because let's get real he's the one with all the good advice, albeit annoyingly adult advice.

In this episode KB talks about men's value in our current world. Times have changed. Women can be educated, have jobs, buy houses, and have kids on their own now. In turn men's position in this world is up in the air. Women say men ain't shit and men feel it. How can women be gracious in their succession and do they have to be? Do women value men as people? Do men value women more than we though o...

In this epi KB talks about the pros and cons of being a teen. There is good and bad and sometimes she misses those days. She is an angsty teen at heart and may never truly let that go. Her FOB-loving-sk8er boi-punk-alt-soul loves it too much.

In this ep KB talks about her first boyfriend and what she learned from that relationship. From first love to first time and what she figured out as a naive 19 year old...

In this ep. Thomas and KB talk about power dynamics in relationships and how character plays into that. It's always good to have good character.

In this epi KB talks about how she is been feeling highly unfulfilled lately. 2022 meant we stepped into post-pandemic life and it's left her feeling a bit directionless. She is hoping someone feels a little less alone realizing that even at 27 it's easy to feel lost.

Are you struggling with gifting? KB's full time job is at a gifting company so don't worry she's got your back. She talks about the importance of gifting and tips on good gifts and how to buy them!

In this epi KB explains her sexism toward men and where she thinks it came from. Is she a scummy douchebag or is she just sharing her trauma and trying to improve? You can be the judge of that!

In this first epi of Dating KB, she delves into her first kiss and the weird relationship they had. She also delves into her boy obsession and her naivete at that age. She was not smooth to say the least. Enjoy!

In this epi KB talks about cancelling Thanksgiving. It's colonial and honestly being around family is STRESSFUL. If you can't cancel it like she hath done, remember to stand strong in those boundaries babes. You got this!