Getting Intimate

Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious anal sex of your life.   

Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover.  If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!  ...

Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped  and you may or may not find out what big role honey plays into all of this....

If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or ne...

I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how it helps me process triggers or big emotions duri...

An update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle.  In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can practice taking space in your relationship, what it m...

Drop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore on our first time together and how the tools we used at the beginning of our relationship still suppor...

Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire?  How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually contribute to low desire. Theres also an art to unde...

For all of you baddies who want to create amazing  aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life.  If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make it fun and how it can really benefit us with in any relationships.  This includes dating, long term r...

In this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures.  I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and desire.  Midnight sex is underrated and I know that after this episode, you'll be calling some of this midni...

If you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though..  In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these simple reminders, but often times we don't think too deeply about them. So of course as the Pussy Fairy...

After a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo.  Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual healing journey as a whole and of course motherhood.  Come and catch the vibe with us!   " Hi I'm Mina, I...

Start your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence?  Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby.  8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way.  This is all you need to spark that fire back up!  xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online c...

Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.  This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!  https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy   xo The Pussy Fairy...

Do you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun! We also get into airplane sex and thoughts on edging with toys vs. fingers.  Whether you have tried edg...

The stories around fantasy's can be varied, but in this episode I share why I love them so much and why they can be such a powerful way of connecting in your relationships.  What do they show us? How can we make them fee more expansive? Do we have to live them out? How can we use them to our advantage? Drop into this episode and leave feeling inspired - its a quickie that will definitely have you...

If you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I  talk about all the ups and down's that come with the changes of kids + small babies in particular.    Parent Tell shared:  "Azaria highlights...

This is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have around desires and fantasy's.  I go over things like: What happens when we share our desires and our pa...

If you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering?  The one big thing you need to know about surrender and receiving, and the one pre-curser to surrender. I share some juicy journal questions and s...

OMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours.  This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out sex? The sex or nothing phenomenon I see so often among couples and how to transition from no sex - se...

This episode might surprise you a little! I spent the weekend celebrating pride with my hubby, my ex and her partner and I felt really called to get up-close and personal with you all about how I feel.  We have a choice in how we show up in the relationships in our life.  Sometimes just sometimes, things don't go the way we planned. In this episode I share what happened when I said yes to staying...

If you want to know what that thing is thats often blocking you from greater pleasure + intimacy, or what that thing is that totally stops you from doing the things you KNOW would be the game changer in your sex life... tune in. We all have this  in one area of our lives or more. When it comes to sex and relationships; I see this one come up ALOT. In this episode I share what that thing is and all...

Let's unpack all the ways you can use boundaries, self love and self trust for your relationships with yourself and others. Veronica a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide sits down with the Pussy Fairy to chat about all the ways we can celebrate all of our parts so we can show up feeling more grounded in our self trust.  If you have ever wondered what it could look like to deepen your in...

What's the real reason couples get into arguments? Why do these arguments even start? How is it that one small thing can turn into a silly debate? What is the thing that triggers an argument in couples? This instagram live was too good not to share on the podcast! This has been a common theme amongst my couples clients in the last two weeks. These 22 minutes will give you sooooo much insight on wh...

We want the real tea from real people. I caught up with Sky, a previous client of mine and she shared all the HOT details of her dating life, how our work together has changed and shifted how she feels about herself and her open relationship. What it means to see the results and how the tools from our coaching supported in all of these intimate and juicy hookups.  Sky shares the way she opened up...