Get Sexy with Shari

How many decisions in your life have been made to avoid disappointing someone else? In this deeply honest conversation, I sit down with women's guide, photographer, and Wild Woman facilitator Marsha Viktorovna to explore the hidden ways women abandon themselves in pursuit of approval, love, belonging, and safety. Together, we unpack the conditioning that teaches women to become "good gir...

What if the reason you don't feel sexy has nothing to do with your body? In this powerful conversation with body image coach Sarah Simpson, also known as " Sarah in Yellow ", we unpack why so many women postpone confidence, love, pleasure, photoshoots, dating, and even great sex until they finally lose the weight. Sarah shares her journey from obsessive dieting and eating disorders...

What can a professional dominatrix teach us about power, pleasure, surrender, and feminine embodiment? A lot more than you might think. In this fascinating episode of Get Sexy With Shari , I sit down with professional dominatrix, embodiment coach, relationship coach, and fellow VITA™ coach Brittany Swanson to explore the often misunderstood world of domination and submission. What started as a con...

“Healthy relationships are not conflict-free relationships. They are relationships that know how to repair.”  What if the biggest relationship struggles you experience today… are rooted in patterns you learned before the age of 7? In this deeply honest and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with internationally acclaimed relationship expert, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and founder of Relea...

“The way you make love to yourself is the way you make love to others.” What if the way you’ve been experiencing pleasure… is only scratching the surface? Masturbation May is your invitation to completely rewrite the way you relate to pleasure. In this raw solo episode, I share how rushed, hidden self-pleasure patterns shape your entire sex life—and how to shift into slow, embodied, deeply fulfill...

What if your genitals were never just physical, but a gateway to deeper connection, aliveness, and even consciousness? In this episode, I sit down with Simon Paul Sutton to explore the true power of being comfortable with your own sexual center and the power of self pleasure. Because instead of feeling, we’ve been conditioned to perform in the bedroom. This conversation is a deep dive into what ha...

You don’t need to fix your sex life — you just need to expand it.  In this episode, Shari dives into what it really means to broaden your sexual range: moving from performance and people-pleasing into authentic exploration, curiosity, and connection. She shares vulnerable personal stories (including her journey with anal and kink) and offers tangible tools to communicate, de-armor shame, and turn...

Most people think being a better lover means learning new positions, lasting longer, or performing better. But the truth? Epic lovemaking starts long before you’re naked. In this solo episode, Shari takes you back to a moment that changed everything — a conversation in a sun-soaked jungle cabin in Nicaragua that sparked the very idea for this podcast.  When a fellow traveler asked her, “What would...

Most of us grew up learning that sex was either dangerous, shameful, or mechanical. But what if sex could be healing? Empowering? A path to deep embodiment? In this powerful episode, Shari is joined by Dr. Saida Désilets , a pioneer in feminine embodiment and sexual sovereignty, and Aaron Michael , co-founder of Suction Sex and Embodied Love University , to explore the truth about the kind of sexu...

What does it take to stop abandoning yourself and start living from desire? In this juicy episode of Get Sexy with Shari , I sit down with the radiant Nadine Hamilton — a VITA-certified sex, love & relationship coach and somatic sexologist whose erotic aliveness practically drips through the microphone. Together, we dive deep into: Why intimacy begins with YOU (and how self-pleasure sets the t...

What does it really mean to be embodied? In this episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with the radiant and wise Amanda Biccum—my own teacher and co-founder of Temple of Radiance—to unpack the five bodies every woman holds: the mental, physical, emotional, energetic, and spiritual. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, “in your head,” or like something is missing from your self-care routine… this...

In this episode of Get Sexy with Shari , I’m joined by Erotic Blueprints™ coach and sex, love & relationship mentor Sarah Ward to bust one of the biggest myths about desire: 👉 If you’re not in the mood, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It might just mean you’re speaking a different erotic language. We unpack the 5 Erotic Blueprints™ — a revolutionary framework created by Jaiya - that helps you...

In this raw and radically honest episode, I sit down with conscious dating and empowerment coach Alexa Lynn to explore how to date with intention, embodiment, and confidence—even in a world that constantly rushes us into the next thing. Together, we unravel what it means to pause after a breakup, stop being the CEO of the story factory, and let your authentic woman drive the car instead of the peo...

In this intimate episode of Get Sexy with Shari , I sit down with one of my Tantric Teachers and Communication Queen Arja Hendrikx to talk about one of the most important (and most avoided) skills in intimacy: speaking up in the bedroom. We dive into why so many women stay silent during sex, how to express what you want without killing the mood , and why real pleasure starts with honest, embodied...

Welcome back to Get Sexy with Shari — the podcast that turns you on to the life, love, and sex you actually crave. In today’s juicy episode, I sit down with erotic ecstasy and sex & relationship expert Leen S to talk about long-term love, polarity, emotional safety, and what it really means to stay sexy and connected — even when your partner isn’t “doing the work.” Whether you’re in a relation...

In this powerful first episode, I pull back the curtain on my own sensual awakening—how I went from shame, disconnection, and performative sex… to full-body pleasure, body confidence, and unapologetic turn-on. I share the real, raw moments that changed everything: The day I realized I’d lived 27 years in my body without knowing what that actually meant Why I used to fake orgasms (and how I stopped...

Most women feel pressure when asked what they like in bed—because they don’t actually know. In this episode, I share eye-opening insights from 20 women about why communication in the bedroom feels so difficult. We’ll unpack where we really learn about sex (hint: it’s not what you think it is), how to start discovering your turn-ons. And in true Get Sexy with Shari-style, we'll end with a gent...