Fun With Sex Podcast

Today Nicole (@freeformcoaching) and I react to to questions Redditors have asked online about their ENM relationships. We share valuable insights that can be helpful whether you're new to ENM or not. 

Today we're joined by Elana Auerbach, author of The Sure Thing. Elana gives some great insights on what to do when the sexual spark is absent in a relationship. She goes over helpful strategies, how to create a 'sure thing' ritual, and how to re-spark curiosity. You can find her at @elana.auerbach on Instagram or at https://surethingexperiment.com/

Today we're joined by Nicole, creator of Freeform Coaching (@freeformcoaching). She gives the inside scoop on what coaching looks like, who it's for, how people can benefit from it, and how it differs from traditional therapy. 

On this week's episode, we have on guest Ann Russo to discuss her experience as an author and therapist. We dive into the topic of religious trauma and how unpacking shame relates to various identities like ENM, queer, sex positive, etc.

On this week's episode we're getting into even more advice on dating and having sex while trans and nonbinary. Guest Valerie joins us to give helpful advice, validation, and remind everyone of the silver linings.

Today we are joined by psychologist Valerie to discuss advice on dating and having sex while trans and/or nonbinary. We cover topics like gender dysphoria, how to have open conversations with partners, and more. Come back for part 2!

On this week's episode we're covering some common ENM mistakes that partners make that aren't often talked about. We have guest Ashley on to discuss these mistakes and give helpful advice on ENM.

On today's episode of the Fun with Sex Podcast, we're covering the reality of Dom/Domme sub dynamics. Today we're speaking with Kitt about common themes in BDSM dynamics, how to practice in a healthy way, and more! 

On today's episode of the Fun with Sex Podcast, we have guest Rachela on to discuss how to flirt in an ethical way. We cover how to flirt, things to avoid, consent, and more!

On this episode we cover emotional processing, sensory processing, and rejection sensitivity as it relates to sex and dating.

Dating and sex can feel more complicated while dealing with neurodivergencies in a neurotypical world. Host Natalie and guest Donovan Eyre of the Radio Free Tote Bag Podcast discuss what aspects of relationships and play are impacted by neurodivergencies, share anecdotes, and give helpful advice.

Today we cover the history of the leather community, how it came to be, their importance and integral position in queer history, and why we should not exclude groups from pride.

A new bill is being introduced that would set even stricter guidelines of what can be banned under the guise of it being obscene. We discuss the bill, the deeper implications, and what everyone should be aware of. 

Today we have Alex on to discuss all their helpful advice on trying anal. We dive into finding the right partner, prepping, sexual health, and more!

Today we cover the question on everyone's minds... 'why do people cheat?' The answers are a lot more nuanced then you'd think. With scientific data, personal anecdotes, and a fun game, we cover everything about cheating.

On this week's episode of the Fun with Sex Podcast we're discussing all thing sex work! We go over common misconceptions, the importance of decriminalization, and more from the perspective of two sex workers.

On this week's episode we respond to sex questions on reddit! We share thoughts, advice, reactions, and more!

In this episode, we dive into the complexities of threesomes and why they often don't turn out as expected. From mismatched expectations to communication breakdowns, we explore the common pitfalls that can derail the experience. We also discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries, consent, and honest conversations before and during the encounter. Tune in for a candid conversation on navigat...

STIs are common, but the shame surrounding them shouldn’t be. In this episode of Fun with Sex , we break down the myths, tackle the stigma, and talk about how to approach conversations about sexual health with confidence and care. From the realities of transmission to the differences in ENM and monogamous communities, we’re here to make the topic less scary and more empowering. Because being infor...

This week on Fun with Sex , we explore the thrilling world of sex raves—where music, desire, and freedom collide. With insights from hosts, we delve into consent, community, and what makes these spaces so transformative.

This week on Fun with Sex , we explore the thrilling world of sex raves—where music, desire, and freedom collide. With insights from a seasoned organizer, we delve into consent, community, and what makes these spaces so transformative.

Bisexuality is on the rise, especially among Gen Z and women, with more people identifying as attracted to multiple genders than ever before. In this episode, we explore why this shift is happening, from greater understanding and visibility to the breaking down of gender and sexual binaries. Are more people becoming bisexual, or are they just more comfortable claiming the label? Join us as we dive...

In this episode, we dive into the messy intersections of dating, social media, and capitalism. From the overwhelming choice paralysis on dating apps to the curated perfection of influencer relationships, we explore how modern technology both connects and isolates us. Why are relationships more disposable today? How has capitalism turned love into a commodity? And what language do we need to better...

In this episode, we explore the fine line between healthy boundaries and insecurity-driven restrictions in relationships. From veto power in polyamory to controlling friendships in monogamy, we unpack how fear-based rules can erode trust and intimacy. Learn how to set boundaries that prioritize your well-being without compromising autonomy or connection, and discover practical tips for moving past...

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into why Gen Z’s sexual activity is on the decline, uncovering the cultural and political forces at play. Starting with the widening gender divide, we discuss how the recent wave of conservatism among young men and anti-feminist sentiments are influencing dating dynamics. We break down the alt-right pipeline that’s radicalizing young men to blame feminism...