Front Porch Swingers

Going to a hotel takeover or other multi-day lifestyle event can completely throw you off your normal health and wellness game. But it doesn't have to! We share our tips and tricks for healthy habits throughout a weekend of fun. Plus, how is biohacking changing the lifestyle? Schedule your free health and wellness call with Brian today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: h...

Everyone knows someone in the lifestyle who is TERRIFIED of their friends or family finding out about their non-monogamous world. We discuss how this can often be more of a showing of ego and paranoia versus a legitimate concern. Plus, we share our opinions on discussing the lifestyle with adult children.  Get 15% off your first order of Shivers gummies at https://shivers.store Get a FREE month of...

An INSANE forum conversation has us once again questioning the rise of raw play... We share recent stats on STI rates with and without condoms, and our theories on why so many in the lifestyle seem to want to play with fire.  Get 15% off your first order of Shivers Gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers...

We went to this year's Hotwife  Palooza in Tucson! And the event itself was amazing! Great staff, friendly attendees, well organized. Yet we found ourselves questioning, from a purely personal perspective, if we belonged in that environment. Listen to find out what we mean! Get bonus content and support the show at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Start your peptide journey with your free co...

Is getting into the lifestyler a motivator for people to work on their health and fitness? We share our personal and anecdotal experiences. Plus, why is nobody talking about the fact that visceral fat increases men's risk of ED related issues by four times?? Get 15% off the amazing pleasure enhancing gummies you're hearing all about! Use code FPS at https://shivers.store Schedule your free consult...

If we've heard it once, we've heard it a million times: "Cliques in the lifestyle are a problem!" Is that the case? As two self-proclaimed non-joiners, we dissect the world of cliques in the lifestyle, when they can be of value, and when they become downright toxic. Plus, what's the most common form of gatekeeping in the hotwife lifestyle? Try Shivers gummies and get 15% off today with code FPS at...

After several months of no play in the lifestyle, we have started to ponder one important question: Are we even still in the lifestyle? We discuss what it means to take a hiatus, why we personally aren't sure how or when to re-enter the lifestyle, and our plans for FPS as we move forward.  Let's chat about your health and wellness goals! Schedule your free consultation today at https://revitaglowm...

Men online love to talk a big game about their standards and preferences when it comes to whom they will engage with sexually. But from hosting hundreds of lifestyle events, we can tell you that most of those standards go RIGHT out the window when these guys are interacting with women in-person. So it begs the question, why are women so concerned about male validation if it's all BS anyway? Get yo...

As a special treat for Episode 400, we thought it would be soooo fun to each go back and listen to one of our episodes from years past. But the little social experiment was anything but fun. Instead, we saw glimpses into very different versions of ourselves, versions we were not necessarily thrilled about. Listen to this episode to find out why! Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.front...

For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of distraction and escapism. In this episode, we get VERY honest about how chasing validation and excitement left us feeling emptier than ever. A darker side of ENM that others wouldn't dare to tell you about... And how we're fixing it now! Join us for an upcomin...

As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and consensual for all, other instances had us questioning if group play rooms are the "perfect" place for predatory behavior...  Let's schedule your free peptide and hormone call today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% off your first order of Shivers gummies wit...

We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this still ethical in the lifestyle? And what happens if that marketing goes just a little too far, into the territory of being straight-up dishonest? We discuss this, plus one HELLUVA dick show we went to... Book your free peptide consultation call today...

It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. While we understand this concept, it does have us questioning.... When is it ok to be a little selfish in the lifestyle? And more importantly, when can that selfishness go a little too far?  Get 15% off our favorite pleasure-enhancing gummies with code...

A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, listen to our take!  Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza in May: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus content and support the show at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasi...

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you call it? All of that and much more discussed on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast.  Ready to take your sexual wellness seriously? See how we can help: https://betterbedroombody.com...

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your mind and play in the lifestyle. We share our opinions on this, including the pros and cons to "pre-consent."  Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza in Tucson: https://members.frontpo...

After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important question: How is this going to impact the lifestyle? Plus, a VERY colorful message from a listener had us both laughing and shaking our heads at the same time... Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza: https://members.frontporchswingers....

A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping straight into ethical non-monogamy impact our sex lives together? And what's our plan moving forward? Photographer mentioned on this episode: https://lezandraphotography.com/ Get 15% off Shivers gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Schedule...

We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relationships, things can get sticky fast. We explain how this has impacted the amount of time we dedicate to lifestyle friendships, and our plan moving forward. Plus, we FINALLY took a vacation!! Get 15% off your first order of Shivers gummies with code F...

Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our professional worlds moving forward. We also discuss the concept of "personality being more important than looks" in the lifestyle.  Schedule your free wellness consultation with us today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event, including Ho...

Our birthdays have spurred a renewed conversation around age in the lifestyle, specifically how different generations interact both digitally and at events. It's led us to one very important question: Is age really just a number in the lifestyle? Or is it deeper than that?  Schedule your FREE consultation call with us to get your health journey on the right track: https://revitaglowmeds.com Join u...

It's a running joke in the lifestyle: Women are almost always better put together than their male counterparts at clubs and events. We all laugh about it, but have you ever stopped to think about the WHY behind it? We examine some of our theories.... Plus, upcoming birthday celebrations! Get 15% off your first order of Shivers gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Let's get you on the rig...

"We're trying so hard to connect with lifestylers online, but we're having no luck! What gives?" We discuss how we are currently receiving digital communication, and sometimes in the most inappropriate of places... So where should lifestylers be finding other lifestylers? And much more importantly, HOW should they be reaching out? Plus, some very big life updates, including a sobriety milestone fo...

Stagnation and a lack of safety protocols in the lifestyle have left many lifestylers disenfranchised with clubs and events over the last year. They're going less often and spending less money.  But does that mean the lifestyle is dying? We discuss our opinions as people who have operated in the "lifestyle industry" for almost eight years.  Get a FREE month of Kasidie access! Click on the Kasidie...

A forum post leads to a very interesting conversation around shared sexual identities in couples, regret in the lifestyle, and when it's ok to keep some of your desires and fantasies a secret from your partner. Plus, is it more or less vulnerable to be raunchy with a new play partner?  Join us for an upcoming event, including our Wifey.com sponsored AVN party: https://members.frontporchswingers.co...