Finding True Love After 50

Change is the immutable law of life, yet so many people fight it as they age. This creates unnecessary suffering and diminishes your creative energy.   To create a more pleasurable, playful, and creatively vibrant lifestyle as you age, approach change like a butterfly.   Rather than fear its change, a butterfly embraces it. The more you embrace change and love yourself from within, the more your l...

If you want to redesign your outer reality and create your best life in an age of loneliness, you will want to begin by first redesigning your inner life.   This doesn't mean you should ignore your physical desires or refrain from traditional forms of romance.   It does mean, however, that nothing in your outer world will truly change for the better until you focus on improving your inner world fi...

Millions of women and men over 50 were raised on a people-pleasing mindset.   This mindset gets people to give away their power and forsake their well-being to honor and serve other people’s needs, wants, and desires over their own.    The suffering this mindset causes not only intensifies as we age, but people justify it because they believe that, to be loved, respected, and admired, they must fi...

What if romance isn’t something you have to chase, earn, or wait for, but something you can cultivate within yourself?   Loving more of yourself after 50 means flipping the script on the narratives we were taught about romance.   Flipping the script on traditional romance isn’t about ignoring all the beautiful experiences you can create with a romantic partner. It actually enhances those experienc...

Giving and receiving love is a natural desire, not just with another person, but with ourselves.   The ways we express our sexuality are also natural.   If all of this is natural, why, then, do most people feel awkward with self-love?   And why is embracing one’s own sexuality as we age considered unnatural?   •  In episode 7 of our new 15-part series, “Embracing Your Sexuality After 50”, we will...

There comes a moment in everyone’s life when you realize:   “Nobody else can define love for me except for myself.”   For those of us who are 50 and over, that moment is now.   ·  In the previous episode, I shared a 5-step inner roadmap to self-love after 50.   ·  In episode 6 of our new 15-part series, “Embracing Your Sexuality After 50”, we will look at how to become your own authority on love a...

Despite growing awareness of the benefits of self-love, many people over 50 still believe it is selfish. Many of these beliefs about self-love could be influencing your life unconsciously. This includes where and how you can embrace more of your sexuality and create a dream lifestyle for yourself as you age.   •   In the previous episode, we explored how to develop a Growth Mindset around sexualit...

What is a Growth Mindset and why does it matter after 50?   A Growth Mindset is open to exploring new ways of being, doing, and experiencing life.    Unfortunately, most of the women and men who are 50 and over were not raised or educated on this type of mindset.  Perhaps at work, a Growth Mindset was applied, but as millions of people aged into their 50s and beyond, a Fixed Mindset took over for...

Embracing and feeling confident about your sexuality after 50 is not just a matter of sexual pleasure. In fact, creating more intimacy and love in your life is less of a physical challenge and more of a mindset issue. • In the previous episode of our 15-part series, we looked at how my "See It, Believe It, & Achieve It™" framework can transform your mindset about sex after 50. • For episode 10...

What role do visualization and mental imagery play in the quality of your sexual pleasure?     Is your brain better prepared for inner transformation after 50?   We are going to answer these questions and much more in episode #105 of “Finding True Love After 50”.   For this episode, I am introducing you to my "See It, Believe It, & Achieve It™" framework and revealing how it can transform your...

When was the last time you felt confident with your sexuality?   As you age, there are many limiting beliefs and outdated stories about sexuality that can make you feel your inner flame is all but gone after 50.   But what if you could radically improve your lifestyle by boosting your sexual confidence and embracing your sexuality at this stage of life?   You can, and I’m going to show you how. Ep...

What are The 7 Myths of Love & Happiness™?  Where do these 7 myths influence our choices in life?   How can we break free of their intrusive influence and reclaim our power to create our dream lifestyles on our own terms after 50?   ·  Throughout the previous nine episodes of this 10-part series, we have answered these questions and more.   · We have explored what each of The 7 Myths of Love &...

What is one of the single most difficult obstacles to overcome in creating and living our dream life after 50?   The traumatic effects of shame and blame.   We have all dealt with the impact of being shamed and blamed into submissive silence when we were children. The traumatic impact this has on our well-being is real.   The lingering effects of shame and blame, and the ways in which it controls...

Of all the seven myths, the Myth of Physical Beauty is perhaps the single most effective one at keeping you separated from your true, authentic self.   Deceptively alluring, the Myth of Physical Beauty works in tandem with the Myth of Aging in telling the same outdated and false story that you are not worthy of love based on your age and physical looks.   In episode #101 of “Finding True Love Afte...

How often have you found yourself in an emotionally distressing experience as an adult?   If you are like any of us over 50, the answer is probably a lot of times.   In those difficult moments, how often have you secretly called on a magical force outside of you to come and save you from whatever is threatening your inner peace?    The causes and solutions to these common challenges can be found i...

Does love reside outside of you? Or is love something you have within you?    Do you have to earn the right to give and receive love? Is it possible that love is a mindset that can be embraced, experienced, or pushed away at any time through the stories and beliefs you tell yourself about love?     In episode #99 of “Finding True Love After 50,” we will answer these questions as we explore the Myt...

What is it that creates an intimidating obstacle to loving yourself at any age?     Could the answer be the same thing that also makes it increasingly difficult to sustain any sense of genuine happiness or fulfillment as you age?   The answer is self-worth.   Like all of the Seven Myths of Love & Happiness™, the Myth of Self-Worth is based on a series of limiting beliefs.   But the real challe...

If you are 50 and over, you’ve heard of ageism.   In fact, you’ve likely experienced ageism personally and professionally or know someone who has.   But what exactly is ageism?   And how can we personally dismantle ageism?   In episode #97 of “Finding True Love After 50,” we will answer these questions and more as we explore what ageism is and how to dismantle it from within ourselves.   In this r...

When we were younger, our focus was on getting older.   Getting older meant we were adults and being an adult represented freedom.  But what about now?  Somewhere along our path in life, getting older wasn’t a destination to race towards but something to fearfully run away from.   For many, aging is perceived as a disease. Something to avoid and eradicate at all costs.   But what if aging is not s...

Have you ever wondered whether the things in life we are told are unchangeable are, in fact, myths?    Last week, I introduced you to The Seven Myths of Love & Happiness™. That episode started our new 10-part series: “Rewriting the Rules of Aging Through the Power of Self-Love.”  In this week’s episode, you will learn about The Myth of Scarcity, which is the root of all The Seven Myths of Love...

This episode is the beginning of our new 10-part series: “Rewriting the Rules of Aging Through the Power of Self-Love.”   In this remarkable, life-enhancing 10-part series, you will be guided through easy-to-follow processes to rewrite the rules of aging, reclaim your dreams, and boost your self-worth by demystifying:   The 7 Myths of Love & Happiness™.   In episode #94 of Finding True Love Af...

For most of our lives, we were raised, educated, and incentivized to stay busy, work hard, and sacrifice to achieve our goals and dreams.   But what about fulfilling our goals and dreams after 50?   What if the way we approached our desired outcomes earlier in life is not conducive to living our desired lifestyle today?   If that is true, how do we go about creating our dream life after 50?   In e...

There will come moments when even your biggest dreams and most passionate desires after 50 will be tested.    Therefore, if there are setbacks or things do not go as expected, you will want to make adjustments with a Growth Mindset.   What is a Growth Mindset?   And what can you do to develop a Growth Mindset at this stage of life?   In episode #92 of Finding True Love After 50, we will answer the...

You have dreams and desires for a better life after 50.   Sometimes, however, the path from where you are now to where the life of your dreams lives can feel overwhelming.   From current responsibilities and distractions to limiting beliefs, there are many obstacles to navigate on the path to creating your dream life after 50.   This is why your dreams need an Inspired Action Plan.  An Inspired Ac...

Do you remember when we all could time travel?  It’s true that when we were children, time travel was not something we dreamed of. Time travel was something we did.   As adults, we often lose this ability, letting logic and limiting beliefs dictate what we think is possible. However, when we reignite the power of our childhood imagination, we can travel into the future and experience our dream lif...