Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How did her work with Lisa help Lynnie keep momentum after getting scammed by a man? How did the Emotionally Naked Dating program lay the framework for Lynnie to continue with the Mastermind? What did she like about the process? Lynnie loves connecting with great women all around the world, and is now part of a true sisterhood. What is different about Lisa and Ben...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What does “lean back” really mean in dating, and how does it make a man feel?  If you text first, does that mean you’re chasing him?  What exactly is the feminine lead, and how can you bring it into your dating?  How taking the feminine lead will make a man feel revved up and secure in his masculinity.  What are some exact things and phrases women can do and say w...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What is the “optimism bias” anyway + shocking stats! What areas could you benefit from taking practical realistic action? How do you begin to put energy and devotion into the RIGHT way to date?  If I’m beautiful and successful enough, won’t the men just come find me?  Lisa explains why more career success often means even less luck in dating. How unfair! What can...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: From a man’s point of view - what is fun about the conquest? What are some of the different ways men and women view sex? Almost any lasting and trusting relationship is built on a foundation of friendship.  When you rush right to sex you are skipping the best part- building momentum, excitement, and suspense. Once you do put a stop to casual sex, then you have to...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Lisa has so much fun doing this podcast and connecting with the brilliant and accomplished women that she coaches.  How did Cassie and Kari Lee become part of Lisa and Benjamin’s team?  What made Lisa decide to start a podcast?  What sets Lisa and her coaching apart from other relationship and dating coaches?  Lisa won’t take a client on without feeling a real con...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why does dating trigger our deepest wounds and rejections?  What is it like for a man to be on the receiving end of an anxious woman?  How can you make your anxiety a GOOD thing so it pulls you and your man even closer together? Can a man really feel our anxiety in the way we text?  How to shift your focus from “do they like me” to “is this something I want?”  Ref...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Men want to make us happy. If a man is really into you, he will be listening for cues and ways to help you get what you want, which will make him feel like a hero.  What does it mean to be truly emotionally naked, and how can it help you get what you truly desire?  Stop saying that you don’t WANT or NEED a man, and say this instead!  How can you communicate in a w...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What type of conversation sends a man right to his heart on a date and makes him feel like you are truly interested in his life?  Are you going on a fact finding mission and making him feel interrogated? Learn how to show that you are truly curious and impressed with who he is, and how you would love to fit into his world.  What you wear matters. There are pitfall...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why is it important to have a positive inner dialogue?  Are your intentions set to make a TRUE romantic connection with a phenomenal man?  To text or not to text? That is the question.  How do you put in the time and face your fears after what seems like so much rejection?  Why should we think about dating as a skill that takes patience and practice, and not just...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: You don’t need to put on heirs about being confident and having a perfect life. A woman can just naturally have a full and happy life, AND show the man there is room for him to fit too. It’s about sharing the things together that you both love - not just the man coming along for the ride for all your interests.  How can you ask a man about his life in a manner tha...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why do New Year’s resolutions tend to fall apart after just a month or two?  If love is supposed to be so fun and magical, why do we need a step by step roadmap to getting it? Won’t that take the spark out?  How can you stay accountable to your goals while including your friends and having some fun?  What does it mean to have a contract or agreement with yourself?...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: You have to have your idea of what you want, and then hold it very lightly .  How was Benjamin different from Lisa’s list of qualities she looked for in a man, and why did that end up being such a pleasant surprise?  You have to be willing to check in with yourself and allow room for things to appear differently than you expect them to! Lisa’s clients share a few...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How to navigate the inevitable “are you seeing anyone?” questions. If you are looking for a partner, ask them if they know anyone they can set you up with!  A few great word-for-word responses you can use to maintain healthy boundaries and keep this from being a huge downer! How to gently turn the conversation to a topic that you enjoy talking about.  How to handl...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why is it so important for men to feel like they’re winning and making their woman happy?  What do you say to a man when he tells you that he feels he can’t make you happy? Is he always right?  How do you tell a man that what he’s doing isn’t exactly what you want? Is it even worth telling him?  How can you thank your man for a loving gesture in a way that really...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Randy talks about his three marriages and divorces, and what happened on his end with each of them. What did he learn? What can we learn from his experience?  What was it like for Randy as a single dad, trying to provide the best opportunities and love for his son?  Why did Randy feel like a failure after each divorce, and feel like he was “broken goods” after his...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Whether you know it or not, men are checking you out! All the time.  Yes, sometimes men are fixated on your super attractive friend, but here’s what to do so it never throws you off your positive vibe.  Why is it so hard for men to hit on us?  How to tell if you are being playful enough, and a funny story of a woman who got a man’s attention by tossing some trash...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Lisa and Benjamin get real about mistakes they’ve made in prior relationships and what they learned so it wouldn’t become a part of their marriage.  How do Lisa and Benjamin process their emotions and solve disagreements quickly?  How to be less defensive and more compassionate to both yourself and your partner.  The two things women cherish the most, and how we c...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why do you need to let go of instant gratification syndrome? Why is it holding you back?  What was the decision made when she was 39 that turned her life around?  What is it that makes a man really fall in love?  Why is the outcome so powerful when we make the decision to stick with something and really go for it?  Continue On Your Journey Lisa Shield | YouTube |...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Benjamin shares a male perspective of what it’s like for men in the dating world who know they most likely don’t want kids, but the women they’re dating do.  If there's an accidental or unintentional pregnancy, then a man can feel trapped. So he could be very wary of dating, particularly someone who is hearing the biological clock and the ticking getting louder. L...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: If men say they love successful and powerful women, why does it seem like they go for the exact opposite?  Why would a man see a successful woman as a threat?  It is true that some men are going to be intimidated by successful women, but that doesn’t mean you should go out into the dating world with a chip on your shoulder. There are plenty of men out there who ar...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: The truth is, your girlfriends that are getting male attention are probably signaling to the man that they are open and available for them to be approached! What is romantic signaling? When one person signals to another that he or she is interested.  The more attracted to a woman, the more shy a man may become. All it can take is just the tiniest invitation to get...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How to get into a positive mindset even before you arrive on the date.  Dating can feel like an adventure, it doesn’t always have to feel like you’re on a treadmill!  Do you really need a dating coach? How can it help get you out of your rut?  What does Lisa mean by taking the “feminine lead”?  Why are you repeating patterns or stuck in the past when you feel read...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Women’s goal is to connect emotionally, but what do we typically do that ends up getting us the opposite results?  What makes a man feel like he is being interviewed? How do we accidentally shame a man, and what are ways we can keep it playful and lighthearted instead?  What does a man really think when we go off topic, monologue, or lecture?  Instead of focusing...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What avoidant attachment is, and how it shows up?  Why does it seem like you go around in circles with an avoidant?  Why do avoidants and anxiously attached people seem to trigger each other so deeply?  Can you make someone less avoidant?  I’m an anxious attachment type, but stable relationships almost seem boring to me. Why is that?  My avoidant came back and sai...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What is playfulness and why is it important to be playful in our romantic relationships?  Playfulness can start by having a profile that represents you but also feels lighthearted and fun.  How does playfulness help us get to know the other person better and build trust and safety?  If we are playful, won’t we miss out on connecting over the more serious things? ...