Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What does it mean to be generous of spirit? How does this generosity differ from the typical way we view giving? Lisa shares how Benjamin laid it all out when they were first getting close, showing true vulnerability and how it made them closer. We spend so much time thinking about how we want our partner’s job, car, and looks to be, but are we putting the same ef...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: There is no definite answer on how to navigate the current dating climate, but having respect and creating safety for one another is paramount. What makes men pull back on their desire for a woman? How can you help your man feel more secure in his masculinity? What are some ways we can have even better intimacy with our partner over time? What are the three key el...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How not to waste time thinking you did something wrong when a man pulls away. Sometimes it’s just them. Lisa shares an example of when she knew it was time to end a relationship and not get entangled in a man’s attempt to assassinate her character. When a man pulls away after pursuing you, he may be avoidant and not know what to do when he gets what he wants. What...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Playfulness equals sexiness and confidence! With a single choice, you can set the tone. Why did Lisa decide to explore playfulness, and how did it change the course of her entire life? What does playfulness look like on a date or in a relationship? If we are playful, won’t that mean our relationship is just trivial and too silly? Your playful nature can start even...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What if you don’t live in a city or a place that seems to have a great big pool of available men? The cold harsh truth -  if the men that you want to respond to you are not responding to you, then you still have work to do. Because they're responding to someone. It's just not you. Are you a love magnet, or are you actually pushing love away? If you want a happy fu...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: The Rules was a classic dating guide for many years, but what harm has it caused and how has it actually held you back from finding The Guardian of Your Soul? There is a lot of hypocrisy out there in the dating world, so make sure you take advice from a trusted source who is in a stable, loving relationship. The Rules may show you how to get into a relationship by...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why it’s essential to learn about attachment theory. What does it look like when someone is either anxiously attached or avoidant? Why do women tend to be more anxious in relationships? How do you know which one you are, and can you be a mix of them? What are protest behaviors? How Lisa observed a love bomber and got herself out of it with a clear conscience. What...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Dr. Warren gives the inside scoop on how men REALLY feel and what they’re thinking, from his experience in starting over 300 men’s groups. What are the top vulnerabilities men have that women tend to be oblivious to? What do men wish women in their life understood about sexual attraction and intimacy? Women say they want men to be emotionally available, then get t...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Who should pay for dinner during the courting period? Should it still be the man, even though at least 33% of women (35 and younger) are now out-earning their partners? What are some red flags that pop up about money in your early dating period that you should keep an eye on? Are your expectations too high around a man and his money? Lisa shares how she shifted he...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How do men and women process differently, and how can we use this knowledge to our advantage? How can a man and woman support each other while processing? Sometimes a woman doesn’t need it to be fixed. She just wants a safe space in which to be heard! Men are often internal processors, while women tend to work through things externally with other women friends, fa...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What lessons surprised Lisa from attending a Tantric Workshop with Benjamin? What you can expect from working with Lisa, everything from the initial Breakthrough Call to setting up your dating profile to attract the RIGHT type of man. How can you learn from your relationship past RIGHT NOW and move confidently into your relationship future? Lisa’s client Julene sh...

  What You’ll Hear In This Episode: A good man, and most men, are preoccupied with making a woman happy, even at their own expense. Why can’t men connect with each other the way women do? The #1 fear of most men isn’t public speaking or flying, it’s feeling shame. How can you be a big factor in helping them not only avoid shame but feel pride? When you ask him how you look in that dress, a good ma...

  What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why are men on the market so quickly after losing a partner? What is toxic masculinity and is it showing up in my relationships and dating? What do I do if I think the guy I’m seeing is using me as a crutch / rebound? But won’t he love me more if I’m there to help him deal with his trauma? Will I just be taking on more baggage if I invest in a man straight off a...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How can a man show up in his masculine and a woman in her feminine? How can women be the strong, capable goddesses we are without shrinking? How can we allow men to make us feel good and safe in their masculinity? What are some classic feminine qualities we can embody to hold up our end of the polarity in a relationship? What does it mean to be comfortable in your...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Why it’s so important that we act as a safe space for our man. Shaming our partner can run very deep and many times we don’t even know that we’re doing it. Have you normalized this behavior within yourself? Examples of what shaming your partner sounds or feels like. Feeling shame is a physical response that triggers our “fight” or “flight” reaction. When a woman s...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Rejection is never about us, even if it feels very personal. You’ve been rejected - now what? How to take the high road, even if someone else has gone low. The amount of rejection we feel is in direct proportion to the amount of power we give others and external circumstances to affect our self worth. Why does rejection hurt so hard and open up so many wounds? Yes...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Is it worth dating online during a pandemic? How can I stop taking rejection, ghosting, and other dating woes not so personally? Lisa shares how she overcame her fear of being in group situations to not only be immersed in groups but lead them, working with successful and intelligent women like yourself. Once you are armed with the right tools in dating such as se...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Chocolates, oysters, and romantic hot tub nights are fun - but RESPECT is the real aphrodisiac for men. We’ve all heard the “men love bitches” trope, but wait until you see how the RIGHT men feel about kindness. Taking care of yourself and maintaining a healthy body is important, but what holds a man’s attention is NOT just about your looks. What you can do on a f...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What does negative inner dialogue sound like, and why do we talk this way to ourselves? How do we become our own best friend and positive spin doctor? Nothing positive comes from a negative state of mind. What are some quick strategies to go from feeling down in the dumps to badass, strong, and powerful? It’s not just okay to unplug and turn off the news every now...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Are you conveying the powerful and amazing woman you are in your profile, or does it fall short? What are the biggest mistakes women tend to make on their dating profiles? The idea of your dating profile is not only to attract people but to filter people out. Instead of listing what you want as an order, the right profile creates an invitation and shows the man ho...

  What You’ll Hear In This Episode: The number one quality you should be looking for in your partner. Why is this quality so overlooked and misunderstood? We see men that have it as being weak, when really it’s a sign that they are thoughtful, strong, and special. It’s a choice to treat people with respect and to be thoughtful BUT it doesn’t mean there are no boundaries. Women can exploit nice men...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: What a guardian of our soul is, and what it’s not. Lisa shares the mind-blowing story of how she read Benjamin’s work just a month before their first date. The difference between a guardian of our soul and a soulmate. It’s about making someone else’s life bigger, not smaller and providing safety, support and love to let their soul flourish. Does a guardian of a so...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Renee shares her story of losing her husband, and the doubt that filled her mind when thinking of getting out there on the dating scene again. She talks about why she decided to join Lisa’s Coaching Program. When you show up unapologetically as yourself, you give yourself a greater shot at establishing authentic connections. Are you bringing to the table what you...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode: When you deny your emotions, they build up inside and your energy stays stuck. It’s okay to cry it out, scream into a pillow, etc! When you feel the emotions, they process through you more quickly and you can free up energy. When you’re triggered, you are no longer in the present moment. You abandon yourself and who you really are. It’s okay to have moments where...

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:  Yes, Lisa went on 96 first dates in the two years before she met Benjamin. She didn’t give up, but at times did feel exhausted and disappointed. There’s no such thing as a straight line when moving towards your goal. For every step forward, there can be a step back and it’s important to know that is just part of the process. How to tune into the voice of love and...