Dr. Tülay Massey
Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos
This podcast is a series of transformational radio interviews with my friend 007 Ian Fleming about life’s everyday challenges. We dive into so many life topics and I give profound examples of how I overcame some of these challenges to find inner peace, joy and serenity despite the changing and chaotic circumstances.
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Dr. Tülay Massey
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Dec 18, 2025
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Episodes
Episode 127 - Are You Quiet Quitting on Yourself? 18.01.2024 24:45
Welcome to another episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast! This week, one of my clients asked: "How will I know the difference between letting go and not caring anymore?" She was experiencing a great lack of enthusiasm at the start of the year and she had recently heard the expression 'quiet quitting'. "Am I quietly quitting?" she asked me. What a great question! This is what we...
Episode 126 - What Is Your Word of The Year in 2024? 11.01.2024 30:27
Welcome to Episode 126 of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast, where we explore personal development, self-discovery, and practical tips to enhance your life. In today's episode, we delve into the empowering practice of choosing a "Word of the Year" and how it can positively impact your life. Word of the Year is a guiding word or phrase, chosen to set the tone for personal growth, inten...
Episode 125 - New Year, New You and The Same Old Patterns! What will you do differently this year? 04.01.2024 27:46
Today on Finding Serenity in The Midst of Chaos Podcast, we talked about the one thing that gets in your way of achieving goals, especially the ones you set at the start of the year. Ian gave some examples of the goals he/and most people set at the start of each year and we discussed why 80% of people would fail them by the end of week 3. We talked about this topic last year in Epi...
Episode 124 - What will you let go of before starting the new year! 28.12.2023 23:13
This week on Finding Serenity in The Midst of Chaos Podcast, we took the time to reflect on the year and talked about how Ian and I lived into our words of the year for 2023. Did you choose a word of the year {{ first_name }}? If you did, use this opportunity to reflect on how you lived in line with this word and consider what word you might choose for the coming year. Tune in...
Episode 123 - How to BE the change you want to see in the world? 21.12.2023 25:35
This week on Finding Serenity in The Midst of Chaos Podcast, I gave examples of 'BEing' the change I wanted to see in the world when I did a complete U-Turn on my career and decided to become a coach after almost 2 decades in the Food Industry. It is easy to expect others to change or force them to change, but I had the greatest breakthrough when I realised the only thing I can change is MYSELF. T...
Episode 122 - Will You Choose To BE a Better YOU This Christmas? 14.12.2023 23:54
This week on Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast, I talked about why is it important to be a better YOU this Christmas! and how can you do that. You can do this by first mastering your mindset and prioritizing what is important to YOU!🥰⛪ Then, and ONLY then you will become A better mum, A more compassionate boss, More loving wife, More attentive daughter and live a better life!...
Episode 121 - Why Your Need To Be Perfect is Killing Your Career? 07.12.2023 25:35
In this week's episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast, we talk about perfection and why striving for perfection can in fact kill your career. First of all, perfection is an illusion. Perfect doesn't exist, because it is a relative term and everyone's idea for perfect is different. Secondly and more importantly, the need to be perfect comes from the belief that 'you are not good...
Episode 120 - 2 Reasons Why You Can't Stop Doing and Start Being 30.11.2023 28:37
This week on Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast, we talked about the 2 fundamental reasons why you can't stop doing (in other words being busy) and start being present. This, in fact, is another listener's question. The exact question was: "How do we become more intentional in moving from Doing to Being?" The answer to this question is simple, on the surface, and that is: Just be more...
Episode 119 - 4 Things you can do daily to unleash your power! 23.11.2023 34:27
Thanks for joining another episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast. This week we are back with Daniel and talking about 4 daily habits that can help you create focus and consistency in your day. As Daniel experiences his focus and consistency in his work decreases as the week progresses, even though he is clear on his goal and what he needs to focus on. He just finds it hard...
Episode 118 - When Everything is Uncertain, Anything is Possible 16.11.2023 21:37
This week's podcast episode is dedicated to all my old R&D colleagues who are losing their jobs early next year, along with 250 people in the local coffee factory I used to work in. Earlier this week, I talked about the power of visualisation to help deal with uncertainty and the news came on the same day. So I decided to talk about it again on this special episode ----------------------------...
Episode 117 - The missing piece between where you are and where you want to be! 09.11.2023 28:33
Welcome to another episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast. This week we are talking about the missing piece between where you are and where you want to be. As we mentioned in this episode, the missing piece, or the bridge is 'Commitment'. But as always there is a twist! You see, you are always committed to something and what you are committed to determines the outcomes you achie...
Episode 116 - A Blissful work-life balance! Does it really exist or just a myth? 02.11.2023 26:36
Welcome to Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast. the show where we explore the ever-elusive concept of work-life balance. In today's episode, we delve into the age-old question: Does a blissful work-life balance really exist, or is it merely a myth? Join us as we uncover the truth and share insights on how to achieve a fulfilling balance in your life. Segment 1: The Work-Life Balan...
Episode 115 - Overcoming adversity with the power of your thoughts! 26.10.2023 23:16
Welcome to another episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast, where we explore personal development, resilience, and the power of positive thinking. In today's episode, we're diving deep into the topic of overcoming adversity by harnessing the incredible power of your thoughts. I specifically talked about the recent unpleasant experience of my brother breaking his kneecap on a bike...
Episode 114 - Committed or Passionate, which one are you and what is the difference? 19.10.2023 25:20
Welcome to another episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos podcast, the show where we explore the intriguing aspects of human behaviour, emotions, and mindset. In today's episode, we delve into the distinction between being committed and being passionate. We'll unravel the nuances of these two crucial attributes and understand how they shape our actions and pursuits. Segment 1: Defining...
Episode 113 - "Good things come to those..." 12.10.2023 36:21
Good things come to those who…. I am pretty sure you are starting to fill in the blank in your head 🤔. In this week's episode, Ian, Daniel and I did exactly that! Here is a summary of my perspective Good things come to those who…. 🥰 love what they do 😊 are patient 😉 Do the necessary work, even when it is hard, 🤩 Remember to find and feel the joy in every moment 🥰 appreciate all the good thin...
Episode 112 - How to set boundaries with people who push themselves on you without your consent 05.10.2023 27:14
"How to set boundaries with people who push themselves upon you without your consent!" This was the question I answered on today's podcast episode! You too might have people in your life, who put you under pressure to do something without even giving you a chance to think.😟 So, you end up saying yes, but deep down you are saying NO! Examples: Go for a few drinks after...
Episode 111 - Finding and accepting a new purpose after major changes in life! 28.09.2023 28:17
This week on Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast, we are answering another listener's question. The question was: "How to find a new purpose after major changes in life?" Major life changes may be moving house, starting a new job, having a baby, loss of someone you love, divorce, finding a new life partner or change in physical ability after a major incident. As you'll hear in this epis...
Episode 110 - How to cope with a high pressured job at the end of maternity leave! 21.09.2023 28:35
" I am worried how I will cope with a high-pressured job at the end of maternity leave!" ... This was the question I answered on today's podcast episode! This is a great question and a situation I have gone through twice myself. So I had so many great insights to share. I specifically shared 3 simple and practical strategies to deal with this. If you are in a similar situation (it doesn't have to...
Episode 109 - How to discover what you want and pursue it when money is an issue! 14.09.2023 34:11
In this week's episode, I answered a specific question from one of our listeners. The question was: How do you discover what you want and how do you go about pursuing it when money is an issue. I broke this question down to 2 parts and talked in detail about both separately. It is easy to discover what you want, even you think you don't yet know what you want. The fact that you are even asking the...
Episode 108 - Are you wearing a mask to be liked and look good enough? 07.09.2023 26:59
Welcome to another episode of Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos Podcast. In today's thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the intricate world of wearing masks in social interactions. No, we're not talking about the physical face masks we've all become familiar with in recent times, but rather the metaphorical masks we put on to be liked and to fit in. In his last episode with me to...
Episode 107 - Are you seeing the truth or the 'truth' people want you to see? 31.08.2023 37:12
Today we talked about the 'truth' vs. the information we are fed daily by the media and how it can affect your life on a daily basis. This is the longest episode to date, but a great topic to delve deeper into. We specifically talked about why I stopped watching the news almost 10 years ago and the effects it had on my life and the lives of my family. Tune in today to discover how you can cha...
Episode 106 - Expectations and judgements - where will you choose to let them take you? 24.08.2023 30:36
In today's episode, we have our special guest Daniel, a -17-year-old A-level student, with us again. Today is the day 16-year-olds in the UK find out their GCSE results and this could be a turning point in their life. One year ago today, Daniel himself experienced this and he is here to tell you all about that experience and how he shaped his life choices today. Plus Ian talks about how other...
Episode 105 - What will it take to transform your life whether you are 17 or 47? 17.08.2023 28:58
Today, we are talking about what it takes to transform your life whether you are 17 or 47? We have a special surprise guest, Daniel Fleming. He is a 17-year-old A-level student, and also Ian, my co-host's son. He brings his unique perspective on why he finds it so hard to change some things, whilst he changed some other things easily! This is an insightful conversation that will benefit you whethe...
Episode 104 - How to quieten your inner voice! 10.08.2023 22:23
In today's episode, we will explore a common challenge many of us face—how to quieten our inner voice. Our thoughts can sometimes become overwhelming, leading to anxiety, self-doubt, and stress. Join us as we uncover effective techniques to silence that inner chatter and find inner peace. Here are some points that might help you Understanding the Inner Voice: We begin by delving into the concept o...
Episode 103 - What Future are you Experiencing? 03.08.2023 21:19
Welcome to Finding Serenity in the Midst of Chaos podcast, where we embark on a fascinating exploration of the question, "What future are you experiencing?" In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the dynamic nature of time and the profound impact our present actions have on the unfolding future. Join us as we explore the concept of living in the moment while being conscious of the path a...
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