Finding Fertility

“Knowledge didn’t fail you. It just can’t carry you where you’re going next.” Topics Discussed • Fertility burnout after years of doing everything right • IVF trauma and how it lingers beyond the procedure • Why knowledge alone stops creating change • Subconscious blocks that show up as overdoing and overwhelm • The role of frequency in emotional healing and integration • Letting go of fixing, cha...

"It wasn’t until after I got pregnant that I realized my gut health and so many other things had contributed to my miscarriages. My doctor said, 'It just happens.' But I knew there had to be a reason." Topics Discussed Fertility and gut health: How inflammation, processed foods, and nutrient absorption affect conception IVF or medical trauma: The frustration of being told “it just happens” after m...

“Information without embodiment keeps you stuck in the same emotional loops that cancel out the physical work you are doing.” Topics Discussed • IVF trauma and fertility burnout • Emotional healing and subconscious patterns • Radical responsibility during the TTC journey • Embodiment vs information overload • Epigenetics and long term cellular health • Victim mindset, inner dialogue, and emotional...

“What if I stop judging myself and let the pieces fall so something better can be built.” Topics Discussed • The messy middle of TTC and IVF recovery • Emotional healing during fertility burnout • Subconscious patterns and self judgment • Frequency shifts and embodied surrender • Radical honesty with yourself during the journey • Letting go of control and rebuilding from a grounded place “You cann...

“I think what I've discovered in the last few years is that you can be doing everything right on the energetic side of things.” • Feeling like it is the end when you have one embryo left or one last IVF transfer • Obsessing over fertility numbers and treating them like destiny • Subconscious gender stories, boy mom identity and beliefs about women • Spirit babies, soul contracts and staying ground...

"Your fertility is just a reflection of your life. How you’ve lived produced this result. It’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility." Topics Discussed The emotional and energetic cost of modern womanhood and chronic overwork How burnout, stress, and disconnection from joy impact fertility and hormones The problem with “junk science” fertility myths around age and supplements IVF and medic...

“You can’t Type A your way into pregnancy. You can push, but your body will push back.” Hello Beautiful, Monica here supporting you to become the conscious mama you were born to be... This episode is packed with truth bombs, science-backed insights, and a big dose of real talk with fertility expert Kristen Karchmer. Together we peel back the layers of fertility burnout and talk about why women who...

“What dictates your future is how you continue to move through these things. The more you can up-level, the more you can clear what’s in your way, the easier it is to live in these realities that haven’t manifested yet.” The concept of the morphic field and how it relates to fertility How personal experience creates new realities of possibility The power of meditation to release fear, resentment,...

“The reality you’re in now can literally not be the reality you’re in in six months.” Topics Discussed: Breaking free from infertility negativity and victim mode How joy, peace, and surrender impact fertility outcomes The role of cellular health, gut healing, and emotional well-being Intuition as a superpower in conception and birth Shifting subconscious patterns and nervous system regulation “Whe...

“You don’t have fertility issues, you have a gut health issue.” Topics Discussed: How parasites and gut health impact fertility The emotional toll of trying to conceive while traveling Supplements, diet, and the overwhelm of doing “all the things” Why surrender is the hardest but most powerful shift Releasing control and shifting fertility timelines “There’s no magic off switch for surrender—you j...

“Grief isn’t just emotional, it’s cellular.” Topics Discussed:  Unacknowledged grief and its impact on fertility Miscarriage, IVF failure, and invisible layers of loss How grief gets stored in the body and nervous system Science-backed effects of unresolved grief on hormones and immunity Real-life stories of grief showing up as physical symptoms in children Learning to honor and process grief for...

"You have to get sick of your own shit before you can make radical change. No shortcuts, no excuses." Topics Discussed: Fertility burnout & emotional loops Radical self-awareness and inner frequency Energy and mindset shifts for conception Unlearning societal and personal expectations Practical joy-based strategies for fertility Your nervous system is listening to every thought, every feeling—...

“If you can dance on a stripper pole, you can do anything.” Topics Discussed: Why control and masculine energy block fertility Movement, strength training, and feminine power Nervous system healing for conception Reclaiming joy and cellular health in fertility “You can’t heal your fertility while living like a robot.” Hello Beautiful, Monica here… Let’s get real. If you’re stuck in the infertility...

“Resentment is like emotional cement. If it hardens, it clogs your flow.” Topics Discussed:  Resentment in fertility struggles and IVF trauma Emotional burnout and subconscious patterns blocking pregnancy Partner resentment and navigating unequal fertility burdens Transforming resentment, grief, and anger into clarity and power “You cannot logic your way out of resentment. You have to feel it, nam...

"Choose your hard. The medical rut that keeps you powerless, or the radical responsibility that brings you back to life." Topics Discussed: Egg quality myths and what science really shows Synthetic supplements vs food-derived support for fertility Nervous system, trauma, and the hidden impact on hormones Functional medicine vs outdated fertility protocols How cellular health and autophagy support...

“Your fertility is innate. Your body knows what to do.” Topics Discussed: IVF burnout, failed treatments, and emotional recovery Autoimmune conditions and how they impact fertility The role of thyroid health in fertility success Lifestyle shifts: diet, sleep, stress, movement, trauma therapy Reversing biological age for reproductive health Why patience and time can be your fertility superpower “I...

Peace never came from numbers or outcomes. My body was asking to be heard, not fixed.    Topics Discussed IVF’s emotional and somatic impact on the body Trauma stored in the fascia, the womb, and the nervous system Functional freeze during fertility treatments Difference between consent and true emotional safety How presence and sovereignty change your IVF experience Preparing your nervous system...

Supplements become very expensive pee if you’re not lowering your inflammation. Topics Discussed: Spirit babies and soul contracts in fertility journeys Outsourcing vs embodying personal empowerment Desperation, intuition, and fertility choices Radical honesty in healing and coaching Inflammation, nervous system health, and IVF readiness Why joy and self-worth are essential for conception If you’r...

If you keep identifying as the woman who struggles, you’ll stay stuck in that struggle. Topics Discussed Identity and subconscious patterns in infertility Why control and overdoing sabotage fertility Nervous system regulation and daily triggers Emotional spirals, jealousy, and comparison Radical responsibility in breaking fertility patterns Consistency in the practices that create lasting change Y...

It’s not about what you want in the moment; it’s about what you want most. Topics Discussed Type A burnout in motherhood Nervous system regulation for moms Balancing health priorities with real connection Letting go of perfectionism in parenting Faith, intuition, and holistic wellness Navigating subconscious beliefs and cultural conditioning You have to trust yourself, and most people don’t becaus...

"Your fertility journey is your body’s way of saying, ‘I need help.’" Topics Discussed: Fertility + Gut Health • Chronic ear infections and immune dysfunction • Natural remedies vs antibiotics • Listening to your body’s early warning signs IVF/Medical Trauma • White coat syndrome and disempowered decisions • Intuition ignored in the doctor’s office • Failures that reroute us back to self-trust Emo...

“You're never going to out-energetic your physical issues. And you’ll never physical your way out of ignoring your energy.” Topics Discussed What radical responsibility looks like Low progesterone and overlooked physical blocks Energetic burnout vs physical imbalances How to spot where you’ve fallen off the wagon Getting radically honest with your habits “You can’t out-energy a physical imbalance—...

“Your body isn’t broken. It’s begging you to stop treating it like a failed science project.” Topics Discussed Shame, body image, and infertility IVF shame and subconscious fertility beliefs Emotional healing after miscarriage and failed cycles Cellular health and type-A burnout “If your body wasn’t healing, you’d already be dead. So maybe give her some credit.” Hello Beautiful Souls, Monica here....

"You don’t need more tools. You need to live what you already know—especially in the mundane." 🧠 Topics Discussed: Why knowledge without embodiment keeps you stuck Coherence vs. perfection: how alignment creates real fertility shifts Why doing the energetic work only at retreats or sessions isn’t enough How to take radical responsibility in your daily routine The emotional + subconscious patterns...

“We’ve been sold this idea that we can do it all—but no one warned us what it would cost our fertility.” Topics Discussed Medical gaslighting in fertility care The myth of “unexplained infertility” How testing without intuition leads to burnout AMH panic and the IVF fear factory Western medicine vs empowered fertility care Surrendering control while staying empowered “Unexplained infertility is ju...