Pat Berin and Gian Viatka

Feelings, Explained

Society EN ↓ 171 episodes

Feelings? We have a lot of them. Feelings, Explained hosted by Pat and Gian, two hilarious, unapologetic, and 100% real twenty-something as they delve into all of their feelings; both present and repressed - oh yeah, let’s not forget those things in between too! Covering fun lighthearted topics to the extremely hard ones, you’ll be wanting them to verbalize your feelings for you too. Welcome to the Feelers club!

Author

Pat Berin and Gian Viatka

Category

Society

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Latest episode

Oct 17, 2025

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Episodes

S3E43 - Our Privilege Brought Us Here (Ina Returns!) 27.11.2021

In theory, everyone is equal in the eyes of the law. In practice, it’s hard to say if it's entirely true because of the overwhelming privileges that come with winning the birth lottery. Let’s face it, most people often do not think about or appreciate their list of privileges enough - including us. It got us thinking, what exactly is the role of privilege in our lives? What makes privilege differe...

S3E42 - Sometimes I Hide, Sometimes I Decide 20.11.2021

Your Decision Holds Power Decision, Decision, Decisions Why Our Decisions Affect The Next Decision This Decision Will Affect Your Next Taking Full Responsibility of Decisions The Decisions We Make And Why We Make Them Our Best Decisions Ever Why We Don’t Always Make The Right Decision And the winner for this episode is…. 🎶 Sometimes I Run, Sometimes I Hide, Sometimes I Decide 🎵 -- Let's be real....

S3E41 - Why Growth Is Uncomfortable But Necessary ft. MacoyDubs 13.11.2021

Have you ever thought of a time where you first had to make an important decision and realize you have to own up to it? That’s what growing up is like for us. Just like our decisions, our actions speak louder too. As we forge our incredibly exhausting twenties, we thought of how much growing up we have gone through and how much growing up we have left. This episode allowed us to ponder exactly jus...

S3E40 - Grief Is Just Love With No Place To Go 06.11.2021

We could agree that grief comes in many forms and sizes. And we could all agree that we cope with grief in various ways too. You’ll find some of the most impactful losses we have encountered over the years and how dealing with the pain is not simply as moving on and letting it go. One might argue that in time, the suffering will go away, this episode will show you how it’s not. We just learned how...

S3E39 - This Is Why We Have Trust Issues 31.10.2021

Trust is like having someone put a gun to your head and hoping they won’t pull the trigger. How do we know if we could trust someone? When we talk of trust issues, we can’t help but unpack the many layers of self-blame (with a little bit of rant on the side), trauma, and coping mechanisms. This episode will shed light on some of the common signs when you start having trust issues, whether towards...

S3E38 - Do We Have To Forgive To Really Forget? 23.10.2021

This week, we’re holding grudges. Handa na ba kayo? Let's be real. We want your money but only if you consent to it.😉 UNIONBANK Savings Account Gian Viatka Malizon 109430402314 Follow and subscribe to Feelings, Explained ✨ Youtube ✨ Facebook ✨ Instagram ✨ Twitter 🎶 Original Theme Song by Hirokei Studio Support Feelings, Explained by contributing to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/ja...

S3E37 - Do You Get Over Someone's Betrayal? 16.10.2021

They say when life gives you lemons, make lemonade but in this case, life gave us so much shit that life might have mistook us as a toilet. Warafuh! It wouldn’t be Feelings, Explained without intensity. In this episode, we share the budols we never saw coming, the absurd bullshit that left us shitty AF, and some of the betrayals that changed how we viewed life and the people who inflicted this big...

S3E36 - Shame With A Chance Of Guilt ft. Faye Yoingco 09.10.2021

We often confuse shame and guilt as one and the same, we thought wrong. After a breath-taking conversation with the newest member of the Plus One Club, we rediscovered the profound difference between shame and guilt. We also realized how much body-shaming, money-shaming, and guilt-tripping we all have in common. There is no shortage of key takeaways in this episode because Type A, badass, media pr...

S3E35 - The Love We Want To Give, But Cannot 02.10.2021

Is unrequited love, really love? Sometimes, we have feelings for a person that may be too strong but could not or would never be reciprocated. In this episode, we listed possible reasons why in the hopes that we learn when "it is what it is". Is it really because of lack of mutual chemistry, lack of compatibility, or are we just wired to pine down on someone who's too difficult to reach? When does...

S3E34 - The Red Flags We Refuse To See (Julia Returns!) 25.09.2021

⚠️TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains themes of trauma and abuse. Listeners discretion is advised.⚠️ Do you have an eye for red flags right before someone presents them to you? Episode 34 is nothing like you've heard before here on Feelings, Explained. Julia Enriquez (Episode 12) returns and conquered! This episode knocked us out of our feet as we learn about the red flags we refuse to see and...

S3E33 - Is Love A Full-Time Job? 18.09.2021

One of the most common relationship issues people face today is the struggle to express love in meaningful ways to someone else. In this comeback episode, we're about to drop some bombs! We will dish everything we know and do not know about love, our love languages, and how love is not just some four-letter word (we’re looking at you Jason Mraz) This episode is not just about redefining how we kno...

Extra Feelings: Our 7 Deadly Sins 27.08.2021

In true Feelings fashion, we are going down on our knees and confess our deadly sins! In this episode, there might be no Hot Priest in sight but we will courageously identify which deadly sins we identify with the least and the most. We asked a bunch of questions that probably a theologian aka St. Thomas Aquinas can answer. So call all the saints and put your hands together and pray for our redemp...

S2E32 - How We Became An Accessory To The Crime ft. Paolo G 26.06.2021

It is a truth universally acknowledged that cheaters cheat for a number of reasons. But there is one obvious fact that we believe in: Cheaters cheat because they want to. Unknowingly or not, they do. So here we are Feelers, we sat down with our Plus One of the week, the handsome, self-proclaimed “crush ng bayan”, Paolo G, who has been on the receiving end of the cheating spectrum. In this episode,...

S2E31 - What You Need To Know Before Settling Down ft. Gaby Dasig-Mangussad 19.06.2021

This week, we are ready to take on mature roles, direk! Our Plus One, Gaby Dasig-Mangussad, owner of Gaby Brews, a multi-awarded licensed financial consultant, recently married her best friend now husband, Peter. As single ladies, we are curious to know what ran through Gaby’s mind before the proposal, how they got there, what it’s like saying “yes”, and how was the transition from being an indepe...

S2E30 - Why Our Twenties Is The Worst 12.06.2021

Our twenties is a weird age, stage, and phase. We were told to have the best time during our twenties and we feel stupid for expecting it would be. The reality is, it’s not. This episode is for all of us, the twenty-somethings caught up comparing ourselves and our lives to other people who seem to have it all figured out. So here we are nearing the tail-end of our twenties, thinking about what mad...

S2E29 - When Sex Meets Intimacy ft. Pipo Gonzales 05.06.2021

This week, our topic revolves around the realm of sex and intimacy. Are they one and the same? How come we hardly ever talk about it but we can’t stop having it? When did sex start getting too casual? To help us answer these musings, we invited a good friend we can’t wait to meet IRL and one of the most prolific journalists we know, Pipo Gonzales! We did it so you don’t have to. 😉 Connect with Pi...

S2E28 - To All The "Men" We've Met Before 29.05.2021

We are no Lara Jean and we might not have met our boy-next-door Peter Kavinsky yet but allow us to ask: Nasabihan ka na ba ng “alam mo, okay naman akong lalaki, hindi ako nanakit” or “alam mo ikaw, titirahin kita”? It may be hard to believe but yup, we’ve heard it once, we’ve heard it countless times and guess what, these unsolicited words came from men we’ve met before. This got us thinking, what...

S2E27 - Bakit Ang Hirap Maging Babae? 22.05.2021

The title says it all. P.S. May pepe ka ba???!!? (Berin,2021) Follow and subscribe! Youtube : Feelings,Explained The Podcast Facebook: Feelings,Explained The Podcast Instagram: @feelingsxplained Twitter : @feelingsxplnd Original Theme Song by Hirokei Studio Support Feelings, Explained by contributing to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/feelings-explained Find out more at https://feelin...

S2E26 - The Lies We Tell Ourselves ft. Wana Guevara 15.05.2021

We thought long and hard if this episode is good for our conscience or not. From advertisements to small white lies, how often do you encounter dishonesty in everyday life? Why do people love to lie and what’s in it for them? Hop on this episode of truth and deceit. We brought Teatro ni Juan’s dramaturg, Wana Guevara, an Aquarius, and an excellent liar. Or is she????!!! For more information about...

S2E25 - How We Met Ourselves Again ft. Abner Delina Jr. 09.05.2021

We know it’s not just us. You’ve been through a lot too. Living in a pandemic while the world continued to operate the way it was but now in a peculiar and socially-distanced way have us feeling like we lived a thousand lives at 26. We see you too! Welcome to Feelings, Explained Episode 25. A discussion on how the pandemic affected our relationship with the people around us, the world and inevitab...

S2E24 - What's With Happiness & Why Do We Want It So Much? 01.05.2021

This episode had Pat and Gian looking into what happiness looked like for them back when they were younger in comparison to how they experience it now. One of the questions begged the Feelers to be honest with themselves and answer "Naiinggit ka ba sa mga taong kuntento na sa buhay nila?" How about you? Are you happy now? ICYMI: We are now on Youtube! 💛 Follow and subscribe! Youtube Facebook Inst...

S2E23 - Don't You Know That You're Toxic?! ft. Blanche Buhia 24.04.2021

This episode is brought to you by that toxic boss, that toxic fake friend, that toxic Facebook "friend" and that toxic family member you would rather not be in a room with. But what if you are the toxic one? Have a listen to this episode to find out. Bonus: We brought a fiery Plus One, Blanche Buhia! Blanche on Twitter: blancheeta_ Blanche on IG: blanchebuhia_ ICYMI: We are now on Youtube! 💛 Foll...

S2E22 - When You're Petty & You Know It 17.04.2021

An episode where we share and justify our pettiness. Minsan kasi, ang sarap lang pumatol. ICYMI: We are now on Youtube! 💛 Follow and subscribe! Youtube Facebook Instagram Twitter Original Theme Song by Hirokei Studio Support Feelings, Explained by contributing to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/feelings-explained Find out more at https://feelings-explained.pinecast.co This podcast is...

S2E21 - We're Thinking Of Ending Things 10.04.2021

Endings. The furthest part or point of something. What do we do when something comes to an end? May it be an ending of a relationship, a job, or even life itself. What happens then? ICYMI: We are now on Youtube! 💛 Follow and subscribe! Youtube Facebook Instagram Twitter Original Theme Song by Hirokei Studio Support Feelings, Explained by contributing to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/ja...

S2E20 - How To Get Away With Your Struggles 03.04.2021

Let's be honest, if there's anything that all of us have in common, it's that everyone of us is dealing with shit and problems. In this episode, you'll find the common struggles of two average Filipinos, living in a third-world country. Join the Feelers as they share the problems they've faced and the struggles that people may not seem to know about them. ICYMI: We are now on Youtube! 💛 Original...

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