F*CK Trauma Podcast

In this episode of the F*CK Trauma Podcast, we’re diving into your relationship with money, scarcity, abundance and the subconscious beliefs that may be blocking you from manifesting more. . If you grew up around financial stress, lack, instability or fear around money, those beliefs don’t just disappear as an adult. They shape the way you attract, hold, spend and receive money now. . In this epis...

Anxious attachment, self-concept work, manifestation, subconscious reprogramming and nervous system healing all go hand in hand… and in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to actually change your self-concept so your relationships and reality can finally change too. . If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, avoidants, hot and cold behaviour, rejection, abandonment or relatio...

In this episode, I’m sharing something really personal - how I manifested my pregnancy, and the deeper shifts that had to happen for me to actually receive it. . Because the truth is, it wasn’t about “trying harder” or doing more. It was about what I was still holding onto underneath -fears around responsibility, subconscious beliefs from my childhood, and patterns in my nervous system that didn’t...

Anxious attachment: If you keep attracting the same type of person -emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or “not ready” - this episode will show you why it’s happening and how to finally change it. . In this episode, I break down how to attract a new partner using the law of assumption and why your relationships keep repeating the same patterns (even with different people). . This isn’t about lu...

If you have an anxious attachment style , you’ve probably found yourself chasing, overgiving, and trying to get someone to change only to feel more drained, more confused, and more disconnected. . In this episode, I’m showing you how to change the way someone treats you in a relationship without chasing , using the law of assumption and self-concept work. . Because here’s the truth:You don’t need...

Anxious attachment can make it feel impossible to reconnect with someone from your past - especially when you’re stuck in no contact, obsessing over what happened, or wondering if your anxiety pushed them away. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to reconnect with someone from your past using the Law of Assumption, self-concept work, nervous system regulation, and my Secure Method approach. . I...

If you have anxious attachment and you’re trying to manifest love, this episode will explain exactly why it can feel harder for you - especially when using the Law of Assumption. . You’ve been told to “just assume you have it.” . To “live in the end.” . To “stop checking the 3D.” . But when you’re in no contact… when you’re trying to manifest your SP back… when you’re shifting a current relationsh...

If you have anxious attachment, this episode is for you. . You might not be double-texting. You might not be chasing in obvious ways. You might even look secure on the outside. . And yet… you’re still not being chosen. . In this episode, I’m breaking down the subtle, unconscious ways people with anxious attachment are still chasing love without realising it - and why simply “acting secure” doesn’t...

Anxious attachment doesn’t come from the people you date - it comes from the belief that you are not chosen. . In this episode of the F*CK TRAUMA Podcast , I explain why they’re not choosing you - and why it has far less to do with them than you’ve been led to believe. . If you keep finding yourself in cycles of anxiety in love, attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or waiting, chasing, and...

Everyone tells you to “choose yourself.” . But no one really explains what choosing yourself actually means or how to do it in a way that doesn’t leave you burnt out, overwhelmed, or feeling like you’re doing it wrong. . In this episode of the F*CK Trauma Podcast , I’m breaking down what choosing you really means , why so many people misunderstand it, and how to start choosing yourself in a way yo...

Most people believe anxious attachment is a personality type. It isn’t. . In this episode, I reveal the truth almost no one is teaching:.Your anxious attachment style is not who you are - it’s a state created by the assumptions you hold about yourself, love, and your worth..And when you understand that, everything changes. This is the foundation of The Candice Tamara Secure Method™ - my signature...

Are avoidants actually avoidant… or are they reflecting something deeper back to you - especially if you have anxious attachment ? . In today's episode of the F*CK TRAUMA Podcast , I’m breaking down one of the most perspective-shifting teachings you will ever learn about relationships: Why avoidants show up the way they do, and how the Law of Assumption can transform the dynamic completely. . Not...

If you’ve ever tried to “fix” a relationship, change someone’s behaviour, or get consistency from someone who keeps pulling away… this episode will completely shift the way you see love, relationships and attachment. . In today’s episode, I’m diving deep into self-concept , the Law of Assumption , and how your inner state quietly creates the relationship patterns you keep experiencing - especially...

If you have an anxious attachment style or find yourself constantly attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant, or inconsistent partners , this episode will change everything. . In this powerful episode, Candice Tamara reveals the real reason you keep repeating the same relationship patterns — and why it’s not about them being avoidant or unavailable, but about the mirror of your own fears, woun...

If you struggle with anxious attachment and relationships that feel like a rollercoaster… this episode will change EVERYTHING. . Because no matter how hard you try, you can only attract what you believe you deserve and the Law of Assumption shows you exactly how to shift that. . In this episode, I’m breaking down how your assumptions about love, connection, and self-worth create the relationship d...

Have you ever noticed that every time you get closer to someone, emotionally or physically - they suddenly pull back? . If you have an anxious attachment style , it can feel like a nightmare. You start wondering: Did I do something wrong? Were they just avoidant? Did I scare them off? . In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about why they pull back after intimacy - and how this pattern has...

If you live with anxious attachment, you might think anxiety only shows up in toxic relationships - but it can sabotage healthy love too. . In this episode, I’m sharing three real moments when my own anxiety tried to push away the secure relationship I’d worked so hard to manifest. . You’ll learn: ✨ Why certainty and consistency from a partner can actually feel unsafe to an anxious nervous system...

Struggling with anxious attachment and tired of avoidants pulling away? This episode is not what you think. And it’s exactly what you need to hear. . If you’ve ever spiralled after being ghosted, obsessed over why they suddenly pulled away, or questioned whether you’re too much, this is your wake-up call. . But be warned: This isn’t the same surface-level advice telling you to “just act cool” or “...

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing, “Will they come back?” after someone pulled away, ghosted, or ended things - this episode is for you. . When you have an anxious attachment style , the loss feels unbearable. You replay every text, every moment, and convince yourself that if they came back, it would finally prove you’re wanted, chosen, and enough. . But here’s the truth: chasing them only p...

If you have an anxious attachment style and keep finding yourself stuck in painful push-pull dynamics, this episode is going to shift everything. . You keep asking, “Why do they always pull away just when things are going well?” .And the internet keeps telling you “They’re just avoidant.” .But in today’s episode, I’m giving you the real reason they pull away and it’s not what you’ve been told. . I...

This is a special bonus guided tapping session from my full conversation with Brad Yates (Episode 42). . In this 10-minute video session, Brad leads us through tapping for: .✨ Calming anxiety in love and relationships ✨ Releasing fear and overthinking ✨ Reconnecting with self-worth and peace . For best results, use this tapping everyday for 21-30days for deep transformation. . If you’re listeni...

Why do we keep sabotaging the very things we want most — love, success, money, and happiness? . In this powerful episode of the F*CK TRAUMA podcast , I sit down with the legendary Brad Yates, the creator of over 1,600 tapping videos that have helped millions clear anxiety, fear, and self-doubt. . Together, we dive deep into:💜 Why self-sabotage is actually misguided self-love 💜 How anxiety in lov...

In this deeply personal episode, I share the real story of how I went from anxious attachment and relationship anxiety to creating the secure, committed partnership I had always dreamed of. . It’s a love story that starts with my beautiful cat, Bleu, and ends with meeting my partner - but more importantly, it’s a roadmap for how you can call in a healthy, lasting relationship without games, anxiet...

If you're tired of chasing love, overgiving in relationships, or settling for breadcrumbs - this episode is for you. . In this episode, Candice dives deep into the real reason you feel stuck in love : low self-worth. . You’ll learn: ✨ The sneaky signs you have a self-worth wound (you might not even realise it) .✨ Why your relationships mirror what you believe you deserve .✨ How the “fixer i...

What if I told you your breakup wasn’t random… you manifested it? . In this vulnerable (and wildly eye-opening) episode, I share the story I’ve never told publicly before - the exact moment I realised I had manifested my own heartbreak… word. for. word. . And how it taught me the truth about anxious attachment, self-concept, and why you keep attracting people who can’t choose you. . And before you...