Express Yourself Black Man

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 110) from this clip, search for the title: Intentional Dating, Divorce and Healthy Co-Parenting with Simoine Kenya — it was released on August 5, 2024. In XYBM 110, I sit down with Simoine Kenya, founder and CEO of The Healthcare Plug. In this episode, Simoine shares the challenges and rewards of single motherhood, her approach to co-parenting, and t...

In XYBM 110, I sit down with Simoine Kenya, founder and CEO of The Healthcare Plug. In this episode, Simoine shares the challenges and rewards of single motherhood, her approach to co-parenting, and the values she instills in her son to help him grow into a confident Black man. We also explore the differences between mothering and being a helpmate, how the church can sometimes make women settle, o...

In XYBM 109, I talk with Beaux and D the Don about the world of dating and relationships, how we as Black men can recognize true compatibility beyond initial attraction, identify signs that a woman isn’t interested, and manage red flags early in a relationship. Learn from our real-life experiences and avoid common dating pitfalls to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. We also explore e...

In XYBM 108, I talk with Nicole Glass who is the creator of Affirmations for Black Men. We talk about understanding how you want to be loved, the power and importance of affirmations, how Black men can tap into their mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being, and so much more.    This episode is a CLASSIC! Listen to it all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube.      Leave a 5 s...

In XYBM 107, I talk with 2 of my best friends (Mel and Dimetri) about their fatherhood journey, their relationship or lack of relationship with their fathers, how divorce impacted their upbringing, the importance of checking in with friends, and the frustration of investing time in relationships only to end up being betrayed or cheated on.      This was a really dope and raw conversation. Listen t...

In XYBM 106, I talk with my Ghanaian father. We talked about waiting to have children, importance of talking to your child, how my dad met my mom and more.      Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube.      Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode! HOW BLACK MEN CAN HEAL FATHER WOUNDS:  ———————————— We’re...

In XYBM 105, I sat down for an hour by myself for the first time in over a year. I talked about the “secret” to being faithful, Black men not having the luxury of doing nothing, my thoughts on having children, the importance of listening rather than always offering solutions and more.      Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube.      Leave a 5 star review...

In XYBM 104, I talk with Cito Blanko who is an accomplished author, spoken word artist, and performer who has graced over 100 stages. We talked about healing through revisiting past traumas, managing expectations in relationships without losing touch with reality, how God redirects us, dating and more.      Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube.      Leave...

In XYBM 103, I talked with my mom, who recently retired after 32 and a half years as a nurse. We talked about how my father shows his affection, the importance of education, and the advice she has for my kids in the future.      Listen to this full heart-to-heart episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube.      Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this epis...

In XYBM 102, I talk with Elijah Tyson who is a successful coach and entrepreneur. We open up about relationships, building a stronger connection with God, and how bringing spirituality into our business and personal life has changed us. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a prev...

In XYBM 101, I talk with Wasi Akin who is a successful business owner, content creator, mentor and father. We discuss what it’s like being a single dad, balancing fatherhood and entrepreneurship, the fulfilling experience of being a parent and more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this epis...

This is our 100th episode! 🥳 In XYBM 100, I talk with 3 of my best friends (Mel, David, and Dimetri) about the importance of having a solid support system especially as a new dad, prioritizing peace over constantly trying to get to the bag, being robbed and how that impacted us afterwards, recording 100 episodes, and so much more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms incl...

In XYBM 99, I talk with Tonya Rapley who is a CEO, financial educator, and a philanthropist. We discuss her healing and self development journey as a Black single mom after going through divorce, dating after a marital heartbreak, valuable insights about creating a healthy co-parenting environment and more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5...

In XYBM 98, I talk with V, who is a Relationship Therapist and PhD candidate. We discuss the stigma surrounding sex toys, the importance of foreplay, what can affect a partner's sex drive and so much more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode! HOW TO FIND A DOP...

In XYBM 97, I talk with Isaac and Santia, who are married and highly successful entrepreneurs. We discuss their love story, why healing is an important part of their marriage, their relationship dynamic, how Black men can attract their ideal life partner and so much more. This episode was powerful and one of my favorites! Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouT...

In XYBM 96, I talk with Dr. Tartt, who is a Christian Psychologist, minister, and expert in dating, relationships, and marriage. We discuss why marriage seems challenging in this generation, the true essence of dating, the significance of actively listening to your partner and so much more. If you’re dating, in a relationship or just got out of one, this episode is for you! Listen to the full epis...

In XYBM 95, I talk with Van Dennis, who shares his personal journey, some of the lessons he’s learned from his trauma and the impact his principles has had on his life and success. Van has helped businesses make over $500M through paid advertising. Listen to this episode to discover the mindset that propels him forward as well as strategies for navigating stress and anxiety. Listen to the full epi...

In XYBM 94, I talk with Dontez Akram, who is a father, content creator, and businessman. We discuss the importance of acknowledging and praising Black men, the significance of communication in relationships, strategies for dealing with life’s inevitable setbacks as a Black man, and so much more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review...

In XYBM 93, I talk with Trey Bryant, who is a businessman, men's stylist, and content creator. We discuss relationships, family, how men can style themselves better, how Trey knew his wife was “the one”, and so much more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode! H...

In XYBM 92, I talk with Terrance X. Johnson, who is a dynamic motivational speaker, mentor and highly successful businessman. We dive into the intersection of spiritual principles, financial success and the wisdom found in scripture. Mr. J not only shares not only his personal journey but also invaluable insights into the spiritual foundations that have been instrumental in his path to success. If...

In XYBM 91, I talk with Tiffany Wright, who is a licensed clinical social worker, wellness consultant, author, and speaker. We talk about the different kinds of grief, why it’s important for Black people to connect with their emotions, healing, spirituality, and more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found...

In XYBM 90, I talk with Naja Hall, who is a Life Coach. We talk about how to handle high conflict co-parenting situations, the true power of black men, child support, the importance of having a good father, and more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode! HOW TO...

In XYBM 89, I talk with Jordan Pierre, who is a journalist, social entrepreneur and motivational speaker. We talk about college, the responsibility of content creators, media, the importance of money, and more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode! BOOK US FOR...

In XYBM 88, I talk with Juvar Houston, who is a public speaker, actor, and personal trainer. We talk about the importance of crying, grief, mirrored behavior, accountability, therapy and more. Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including YouTube. Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode! BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND D...

In XYBM 87, I talk with Jason Phillips, who is a licensed therapist. We talk about Black men's emotions, self-confidence, the importance of having supportive friends, therapy and more. We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist on Sat, Sept 23 at 6 PM EST / 3 PM PST. Sign up here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/zrnzwi7 . All webinar attendees will have the oppor...